How to communicate with an old-fashioned father?

What is the purpose of communication? Just to make him understand, just to make him understand, so as to achieve the purpose of making him understand and support himself. You know, it's no use just talking to an old-fashioned man and telling him something.

I don't believe you haven't talked to him at all. You haven't had any communication with him at all. If you really don't, I don't think it's my father's old-fashioned thinking, but that you don't respect him too much. Some things are really big. Everyone in the family has the right to know.

It is necessary for two people to put aside all their paranoia and sit down and have a good talk. Communication is the best way to solve problems. It can be at home or in a restaurant, even at a roadside stall, with or without wine. As long as two people are willing to sit down and talk, the problem is half solved.

Although in your eyes, you want to find your dream in your current job for a reason, you think it is possible and have a certain chance to realize your dream, so you are willing to pursue it, even if you fail in the end, but at least you are happy during that time.

But in my father's eyes, this is not the case. There is some truth in his impulse and his death threat. Maybe he is not good at words and doesn't know how to convince you. This is the most helpless behavior he has made! In fact, sometimes, although I am angry and sad, I also feel depressed, because some things are done by your family, so you can't go back, confront him, and force such things with death, as a child.

There is really no way to ignore it. He has already done it. What else can you do? Although I never believed that he would really do this, what if he did? It's difficult, is it because some things have a little possibility, even if the possibility is small, almost none, but we as children just can't ignore it.

So talk to your father. You don't need strong tone and fierce wording to prove your correctness and reasons. You really don't need to do this. You communicate with your father in a calm and rational state. If you communicate with him with the idea that "you may not be right, but your father has his reasons", the problem will be solved satisfactorily, and only half of it will remain.

All that remains is to express your opinions and compromise. You express your opinion, and he expresses his opinion. When two people express their opinions and say their own truth, the other person can ask some questions, or you can ask him some questions on your own initiative to guide him to think and think about some problems that he may not have thought of.

For example, you can ask him, "What do you think my future will be like if I continue to work? Do you think I will be happy with this future? In fact, pursuing dreams is not a particularly bad thing. At least I still have a chance to succeed, don't I? " "Actually, how old am I today? I'm still young, aren't I? Even if we fail, there are still some chances to start over, aren't there? As a son, it is really hard for you to force me to die. I can't stick to my dream any longer. In fact, I have told you so much today. I just want you to give me a willful opportunity and give me a few years to try, okay? Dad. "

In fact, this is really the case, because he has been forced to death, and we have no way to forcibly cling to our dreams! Chatting just lets him give himself a wayward chance. What can we do if he is really stubborn and won't even give this chance? Can you really leave him? I can't.

You are his son. Actually, you know him very well. Seriously think about what's stopping you from pursuing your dreams besides stubbornness? Come up with some solutions to these problems as much as possible, and then talk to him seriously. You only have one chance, I hope you can take it.