What are the four great blessings and four great regrets in life?

The four great blessings in life are the long drought, the encounter with an old friend in another country, the wedding night, and the first time. The four great regrets in life are that teenagers lose their parents, middle-aged people lose their spouses, the elderly lose their only children, and fewer children have no good teachers.

Four sources of happiness: "Four joys of spectacle poetry"

One is from Hong Mai's "Rong Zhai's Essays, Four Writings, Eight Proud and Frustrated Poems" in the Southern Song Dynasty: "After a long drought, I met an old friend and met an old friend in another country; On the wedding night, do it for the first time. "

Wang Zhu's Four Happy Poems of a Prodigy was born in the late Northern Song Dynasty. Wang Zhu began to write poems when he was nine years old, and was known as a "child prodigy". Wang Zhu's poetry is brilliant. He has written many quatrains, all short poems, which are convenient for children to remember. At that time, there were more than 30 five-character quatrains, which were interpreted and compiled into the collection of Wang prodigy poems.

The words and expressions of the poem prodigy are easy to understand and are very suitable for children to recite. It is as famous as San Zi Jing, known as "a wonderful book of ancient and modern times", and has become the main teaching material for cultivating Mongolian children, which has been widely circulated and has a far-reaching influence.

The Source of Four Sorrow: Hong Song Mai's Four Poems of Rong Zhai: Proud and Frustrated

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At the beginning of the Ming Dynasty, Jie Jin, a gifted scholar in Jiangxi Province, created the "Four Happy Dolls" according to four happy events in the Four Happy Poems.

Its shape is a pair of lively and lovely belly dolls, with a banana fan in one hand and a gold ingot in the other, which looks playful. The doll's body is plump, her eyes are delicate, her ears are heavy, and her happiness is gentle and vivid. This bronze sculpture is square, about 8 cm long, wide and high.

After clever combination, two dolls were transformed into four children's plays. No matter from which point of view, children stand or lie, or back or right, which constitutes four complete children. This is the ingenious and unique concept of "four happy dolls".

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