Why is the single rate of returnees so high?

Nowadays, young people are most afraid of going home on New Year's Day. Greetings from relatives and friends, "Do you have a boyfriend now?" Don't set your sights too high, or you will be left behind if you don't get married. Let's talk about why the single rate of returnees is so high.

In the face of such a stressful topic, every time I deal with it, I am most afraid of dragging me to a blind date. Speaking of blind date, I remember that when I traveled to Shanghai, I specially visited the super-famous People's Park Blind Date Corner, which was really an eye-opener. What I admire most is that there is even a special area in the blind date corner that reads "Overseas Edition" in big letters. The layout of the overseas version is particularly "high-end and high-grade". Even the marriage advertisements are in Chinese and English, and the national flags of various countries are inserted on the side.

why are the returnees who are considered "excellent", "rich in gold", "broad in vision" and "highly educated" by the outside world becoming the most difficult people to find a partner! Warmly summed up the reasons why monks studying abroad are single.

Being single because of being a bully

Q: Why don't you find a girlfriend? Xueba: What is a girlfriend? There is only one thing in my heart, and that is learning. In Xueba's mind, the question that is considered every day is: What is the GPA? Have you finished the CFA exam? The deadline of this paper is coming. How many books do I have to read and how many nights do I have to stay up? Have the internship applications of the Big Four been submitted? Is my resume all right? Tomorrow's presentation needs to be prepared again. In short, I love learning, and learning loves me. I only see papers. What's a girlfriend?

The bitterness of foreign love

Foreign love is really the biggest challenge for international students. Studying in England, the time difference is 8 hours. It's daytime here, and it's already dark there. Good morning and good night can only be said by video call. "She said she was tired and wanted to find someone who could meet her occasionally and accompany her when she was in a bad mood. And I can't do it, it's too far. " "She told me that she was ill and uncomfortable. I can only say something like' drink more hot water' and' go to bed early'. I want to care about her and stay with her, but I can't fly back to her at once after such a long distance. " The above conversations are all experienced by many international students. The distance is terrible. Many international students have experienced the pain of breaking up overseas, and it is difficult to devote themselves to the next relationship in a short time. The unknown future has become a major reason to prevent foreign students from falling in love, and foreign students are faced with too many uncertain problems.

Stay in school and become a person you want to marry

Some netizens summed it up very incisively, "Life abroad is hard, and if you are not careful, you will become the kind of" man "you originally wanted to marry. Indeed, girls who have studied abroad for many years must have experienced many battles, and most of them can cook, drive, change a light bulb, repair a computer and even repair sewer pipes. Some netizens who have studied abroad said that in the previous 24 years, it was enough to care about romantic affairs every day. When they arrived in Britain, they "only got the local atmosphere and experienced real hardships in life, but they were not as sentimental as before". She joked that she cultivated a "woman's heart" when studying abroad. Every girl who has been studying abroad for many years has trained herself to survive on her own. So God saw, Ah, you can live alone, so be alone.

People who find better people have more confidence

Everyone says that most of the women left behind by returnees have high vision, but this is normal. Their own conditions are better, and their overseas experience has enhanced their horizons. The cruelty of reality is that the base of outstanding returnees is far greater than that of outstanding boys of the same age. This imbalance between supply and demand will inevitably lead to some returnees being left behind. " Some returnees believe that the experience of studying abroad makes girls more tolerant and will not be uncommon. "Because I have seen too much overseas, I have seen excellent boys, but more often I meet people like children. I will be more tolerant and feel that everyone has their own way of life. Even if the other person is immature, I will see that he has other advantages. " In a word, studying abroad makes us better. After studying abroad, whether you are single or not, we have more courage to meet challenges in all aspects of life and study, don't we?