The only child in the family, Volume 1. Chapter 2 of the family calendar

When I was a child, I spent a short time with my grandparents, and my parents only took me back to watch it on holidays. Grandpa preferred sons to daughters, but he still didn't get what he wanted after giving birth to three daughters in succession. I think he was devastated. Fortunately, God opened his eyes again and finally gave birth to my uncle. Otherwise, my grandfather would have to worship Buddha every day.

My grandfather's home is in the countryside, with a large piece of land and a garden full of apple trees. When I went back when I was a child, my father would accompany me to play in the garden and play hide-and-seek in the garden. My dad chased me in the garden, my dad was behind, and I giggled when I ran in front. When you are tired of playing, climb the tree to pick apples. My father sits under the tree and we eat apples. We ate them happily. Before we left, we had to put a bag of apple cores everywhere in the garden. It's also a happy time to think about it.

Let's talk about grandma's story again. Grandma was married from Sichuan. According to my mother, it was because of the famine that my grandmother sold her daughter to Shaanxi for food. Grandma is the "kannika nimtragol" in the family. She is not good at cooking, and her housework is rough, so she is often scolded by her grandfather. In my opinion, my grandmother's life is the saddest in our family. On weekdays, no one said that the unhappy things should be hidden in one's heart. Probably because of this complicated experience, grandma is very kind to our younger generation. Every time she goes home, she will give each of us red envelopes and bring us all the delicious food at home. My uncle's children are spoiled. My uncle's family began to live with his grandparents. Every time my brother does something wrong and my uncle tries to hit him, my grandmother will stand up and stand in front and stop him with righteous words. On weekdays, I will save my children's filial piety money and buy toys and snacks for my brother. Later, a new house was built at home, and my uncle and grandparents lived separately. After dinner, my brother had eaten enough snacks. When I returned to my uncle's house, I couldn't eat the rice cooked by my aunt. For a time, my aunt thought my brother had anorexia. Now I'm going home for the Spring Festival, and everyone will laugh when I say it here. It's really an old saying: "Old people go their separate ways, and my mother loves my grandson."

As long as I can remember, I haven't seen my grandmother's relatives walking around. It was not until I was in the third grade that this situation changed. For this reason, I also have a cousin and a little niece. Here's the thing:

I was in grade three in 2009. I remember at that time, I was preparing for the entrance exam. At noon, my mother received a phone call from my third grandfather (my grandfather's brother), saying that my grandmother's family had inquired all the way from Ya 'an, Sichuan, and found the information of my third grandfather in our local police station. Now she is at my third grandfather's house, let my mother go.

As soon as I heard it, I said, "Oh, looking for relatives thousands of miles away, this kind of bridge still appears in our home."

That evening, my grandparents, two aunts and my uncle all arrived at my third grandfather's house. My parents asked me to go with them. At that time, I was so obsessed with playing games on the Internet that I had no idea at all. I just want to leave quickly and I'd better not come back at night. I will have a good time. Now that I think about it, it's a little heartless.

When my parents came back, they told me the scene where my grandmother and my aunt hugged each other and cried. Everyone was in tears. At that time, my aunt's two sons, a daughter, my menstruating daughter and my cousin came from Sichuan. A group of people are talking about their own situations, or remembering, or remembering, or unforgettable, but more is the joy of reunion. My aunt has been worried about my grandmother running away from home, and has never given up the idea of looking for a little sister. Looking back now, it should be that the earthquake in 2008 touched my aunt's heart. My health is failing, so I must fulfill my unfinished wish.

My grandmother spent the Spring Festival at my aunt's house that year, but we didn't go. We left the time to them, to eternity, and fixed the time at that time.

Later, in 15, when I went to Chengdu for a sketch internship during my sophomore summer vacation, I went to see my aunt once, on the one hand, on the way, and on the other hand, out of courtesy, on behalf of my grandmother's younger generation to visit my elders.

When I arrived in Ya 'an, my cousin came to meet me. Only after asking did I know that my aunt didn't live with them, but lived alone in the old street. My cousin drove me there.

The old street is really old, with dark gray walls, narrow roads, street vendors and people coming and going. The buzzing noise and endless shouts of three motorcycles are lingering in my ears, which makes me feel warm. My aunt lives on the second floor of a house facing the street, and I followed my cousin upstairs. The first thing that caught my eye was the steaming kettle on the stove at the door. After entering the door, I saw an old man sitting quietly on the balcony in the sun. The house is spotless, and my heart seems to be much quieter when I walk into the room. Before I met him, I had paid my heartfelt tribute to the old man.

After my cousin and aunt explained the situation, my aunt pulled me to the front and looked at me kindly and said

"Good, good, your grandmother in good health? We haven't seen each other for years. "

I replied: "Everything is fine, everything is fine, please pay attention to your health."

During this period, I asked my cousin why my aunt didn't live with you, because she was so old. What should I do if something happened? Cousin said that old people like to be alone, get up early and go to bed early every day, cook their own meals and clean up their own housework, and don't want them to intervene.

I can't help but sigh that the older people get, the lighter the clouds become, and life can no longer limit the soul. Thank you for this quiet and natural state.

I stayed at my cousin's house at night, and my cousin's little granddaughter called one after another, which melted people's hearts. Originally, I said I would go to see my menstruation again. I didn't expect that my period was not in Sichuan these days, and my cousin went to Canada to study, so I didn't see her. The next day, after saying goodbye to my aunt, I went back to Chengdu to report on the internship base.

I didn't expect this to be the only time I met the old man. 1 Years later, the old man passed away. Have fun. It's a little awkward.