How to face children's failure correctly

Most people are competitive since childhood, and how to face failures and setbacks correctly is a topic of great concern to society. Let people learn to cope with failure, we should start by cultivating their perseverance and courage.

My brother Qiang Qiang has been a competitive little boy since he was a child. He wants to be the first in everything, but he easily flinches when he meets difficulties. Qiang Qiang and his mother are playing basketball in the yard to see who shoots more. Sometimes my mother deliberately gives way to the strong, strong one. She is very happy, but as long as she lets him lose a few times, he will be unhappy. "I always lose, and you always win, so stop playing!" "Almost become a strong spell. Dad always lets him play checkers with him. If he loses, Qiang Qiang will throw the chess pieces out: "Lost again, don't play. "Playing games with children outside, he always wants to be better than others and want to win. Once he loses, he will be unhappy: "Stop playing, stop playing!" " "He is so fragile that his mother is really worried that he will become a child who is not affected by the weather when he grows up.

Because parents have high expectations for their children, or children are unwilling to lag behind their peers, and the only child is too accommodating by the family, children show fragility, lack of self-confidence and escape, and lack of courage and perseverance in the face of failure. Let children learn to cope with failure, we should start with cultivating children's perseverance and courage.

Parents usually teach their younger brother the good qualities of tolerance and loyalty, but it is often difficult for him to understand and accept because of the abstract concept. In fact, in this respect, the pet helped him.

Experts believe that "keeping pets can cultivate children's sense of responsibility to take care of another creature." Take care of dogs, cats, etc. Can let children know what is a sense of responsibility. "

For example, when the family dog shows up at the door at three o'clock every afternoon, waiting for the little master to return, it is not difficult for the child to understand what loyalty is, which is far better than giving him a few moral lessons. Moreover, the puppy will continue to demonstrate this truth to the little master. For another example, children sometimes abuse kittens by grabbing their tails, but afterwards kittens play with their owners regardless. Parents can teach their children what tolerance is through this incident, and at the same time tell him to learn tolerance when dealing with other people's mistakes. That's what my mother did, and the effect on my brother was obvious.

However, if your parents are busy with work and have no time to keep pets, you can let your children take part in walking the dog with their neighbors, or let them make a nest for the school guinea pigs during the holidays. Through these activities, let children learn to help others, and at the same time understand that if you are good to others, others will be good to you. In fact, the education of children does not have to be serious.