What made you change from enthusiasm to indifference to your in-laws?

When I first got married, I really treated my in-laws like my parents! Everything you bought is the same as that of the two old people. My husband and I discussed it. They are angry and don't let the old people on both sides worry. On the contrary, my in-laws don't take me seriously at all. I can't help saying two things. My husband and I have been married for half a year, and he has gone out to work. In-laws show their seniority and put on airs with me. I ignored them and went back to my parents' house. My mother asked me what was going on. I report good news instead of bad news. I can endure anything for my mother. I stayed at my mother's house for a few days. My mother is ill and has been admitted to the hospital. I am very busy, waiting on her. My in-laws know that they will come to see my mother in the future. I thought I would go back when my mother was well, and I didn't care about them. Who knows, as soon as I left here, my in-laws told my mother about housework and said that I had many problems and left. Poor my mother lost her temper with me when she was still ill. I talked back without saying a word. None of my in-laws complained, only my in-laws came. At that time, I thought, my mother is still sick. You are so cruel, don't blame me for being heartless This is the first thing. The second thing is that after my miscarriage, my in-laws didn't take it seriously. I don't even have an egg, let alone comfort me. After that, I never believed what they said again, which was even more heartbreaking. I never called their parents again. Even if I did, I didn't mean to. The third thing is that my father-in-law instigated my eldest son to abuse me to death when I was old, even if it was revenge for him. My father-in-law said: My son is his revenge root, let my son avenge him. Just because my mother-in-law died, he wanted to marry another wife. After his son knew that the woman was a liar, he didn't want to hate his son, so he came to me to vent his resentment. They are so hateful.