What is the mentality of unmarried people?

I think people's pain in this life is really greater than happiness, so I want to live as much as possible according to my own wishes. I don't want to be responsible for another life or family, and I don't want to take on too many things that I shouldn't. Really lazy to integrate into another strange family, don't want to be born, don't want to deal with complicated interpersonal relationships, and don't want to turn a small family into everyone.

Once the two sides start to enter each other's families, there will be a balance of interests. Buying a car, buying a house and saving money are the responsibilities and obligations of both parties. In fact, it is a game between two families. Marriage is a "necessity" for most people. They think that life is incomplete without marriage. But not everyone thinks so. Some people don't think marriage is a "necessity", so there is a group called "unmarried people"

The so-called "unmarried person" literally means "unmarried person", but this is only the simplest meaning.

The unmarshaller can be subdivided into three types:

Real "unmarried people" are willing to choose "unmarried". Their status is just like a strict "vegetarian", and there is no such thing as marriage.

In addition to the real "not getting married", there are two kinds: one is forced to choose "not getting married" for some reason, and the other is verbal "not getting married", which is just an expression.

These three kinds of "unmarried people" can't identify who is really unmarried at first, but time will tell. Next, let's take a look at five former "unmarried people" in their later years, and you will know what a real "unmarried person" is:

Artu: I chose not to get married because it is difficult to get married.

The reason why Artu has the idea of "not getting married" is not that he is willing to make a choice, but that he is forced to do so.

Before he came into contact with marriage, he took it for granted that men would naturally get married when they reached a certain age. However, when he embarked on the road of blind date, faced with marriage and realized that marriage would cost a lot of money, he deeply realized what "powerlessness" meant.

It is a great pressure for him to want to get married but have no money to get married. He thought about fighting first and getting married when he had money. However, after two years of hard work, I still have no money to get married. Between him and his parents, there is nothing to do but worry.

In this state, he thought, "forget it, maybe I will never get married." In that case, why should I insist on getting married? Even if you get married, it will only get worse. Why bother? "