If your child is also a gossip, don't abandon it.

If your child is also a gossip, don't abandon it.

0 1, how to judge whether a child is happy or not? Just look at how much nonsense he has.

Psychological research shows that if more than 90% of a person is nonsense, then this person must be very happy; If this person's nonsense is less than 50%, then he is likely to be unhappy. This is because people's language center is closely related to the excitability of the brain. The more children talk, the more they can stimulate the release of emotions. When they are in a good mood, they prefer to express themselves.

Dale Carnegie, a famous psychologist, once said, "A person's success depends about 15% on technology and knowledge, and 85% on language expression". Children who love to talk have strong basic language skills. As long as they are guided and trained, their language expression ability can be improved rapidly.

02. Talking about children is actually a manifestation of love in the family. The child is a gossip, which means there is love at home.

Liu Xing in Family with Children is a typical gossip, and "nonsense" continues every day. I remember once Xiaoxue asked him to practice dancing. He danced and chattered.

"Elder sister, do you have any aliens?" "How many times have I told you, no!" "Then why do so many people say they have seen flying saucers?" "Didn't I explain it to you?"

Xiaoxue is impatient, and Liu Xing is still asking: "Is the UFO an alien?" "If you speak again, I'll shut you up!" "Well ..." Two seconds later, Liu Xing began again: "Have you ever seen an alien?"

Finally, Xiaoxue turned away in anger. Such nonsense Liu Xing lives in a happy family, with loving parents and three brothers and sisters who love each other and kill each other.

03, but even if you are upset, don't beat and scold your child.

The children are talking to their parents all the time at home. Compared with adults, what they say is also some meaningless and nutritious information, which really makes people feel impatient. Talk to children more about "nonsense" and understand their emotions, so that parent-child relationship will be more harmonious and life will be more interesting.

If there is a little gossip at home, don't abandon it. He grew up happily. As parents, what we should do at this moment is to communicate with our children more, take them to know the world more, and feed them more effective words and information, which will be more helpful to our children!