Talk about the voices of the elderly and children

"A stone stirs up a thousand waves", but I didn't expect a post yesterday to cause so many grandmothers and even grandparents to sing bad songs.

Nowadays, children are under great pressure and heavy burden, and most of them are only children. They have been pampered since childhood, unlike when they were young, they can carry any difficulties by themselves. Today's generation still turns to their parents for help after giving birth to children. Most of them are distressed mothers' daughters. This led to a large group of grandmothers wandering in a foreign land.

I have nothing to do these days. I wrote three articles about the bitterness and joy of taking my grandson, which attracted widespread attention and received more than 200 comments.

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Grandmothers, even grandparents, spoke enthusiastically, and some people seem to have commented on it.

"Congratulations on your successful completion of the task. I'm still on my way to finish the task. It is not easy to look after children. "

"We also want to leave home to take care of our grandchildren. The second child is two and a half years old, and we have to continue. "

"Mom's parents are hurting girls and torturing themselves."

"It's really well written. At first glance, it is a responsible, responsible good mother and grandmother, and she is well-read! Like it! "

"I am a grandfather, the old couple with a grandson, grandson nine and a half years old in the fourth grade, granddaughter six and a half years old in the first grade. When can I go? "

"Now that life is good, children have become treasures. My grandson's parents and in-laws want to take it. I said my grandfather and I would take them home, and my daughter-in-law said you would take us away. What are we fighting for? Children nowadays are so cute! I like all three. "

"Successful examples, children become talents, and future generations prosper, all of which are indispensable!"

"I started to take my grandson at the age of 62, and now it is estimated that two children will be busy soon. However, my daughter never asked me to take it at night. No matter how hard it is, the daughter takes care of the children by herself, so the grandson is very close to his mother. The son-in-law of the girl who gave birth to two children is going to entrust someone to take care of her, so I didn't work too hard. But at some point, I am ready to let go completely and let the girl and son-in-law be completely independent. "

"I am like you, and now I have two treasures, one is three and a half years old, and the other is 1 year and a half. Like you said, tired and happy? Boss, I'll take it during the day and bring it to my second child at night! Love your daughter as much as you do After the epidemic, my daughter and son-in-law need to work, and I took care of both babies. Fortunately, the boss went to kindergarten. Every morning and night, I am like a war! Honestly, I'm really tired! I hope they will grow up soon, and I will turn around like you. "

"exit gracefully, wisdom."

"In-laws haven't retired, and they can only enjoy Sun Bao symbolically. Many people have told me to share it with my in-laws. I think so, too. Since we are a family, we should be considerate and understand each other and try our best to make it work in one place. How should we deal with things at home? To tell the truth, not tired is fake. At this stage of menopause, we will make a fool of ourselves ... we are all daughters-in-law, and we don't want our daughter to be sad ... As long as her daughter is willing to be a mother, she will help her children unconditionally. It is precisely because as a mother, mother-in-law and grandmother, this mentality is relaxed and comfortable when taking my grandson. I am very happy. I am very happy to see the sun, even though he is very glorious. "

"I feel the same as the elder sister said above. Laid off in 2004, has been working for a living. Go through the retirement formalities on 20 16 1 month. But I was still working until I resigned in August 20 16, and I was going to visit my grandson for nearly two months. /kloc-began to visit his grandson full-time in early October. The eldest is over two years old, and the second is born. One counts as two, both of them are full-time. Apart from eating and drinking Lazar, it takes a lot of effort ... Fortunately, in a city, we have been together since we had children, and our two grandchildren are very smart and learn to live a strict and self-disciplined life. Taking them out is a compliment. As a grandmother, don't mention how happy I am. I want to thank my two grandchildren. They gave me more happiness. Seeing children every day has changed my character and made me more cheerful and open-minded than before. While taking care of the children, I also learn to sing and recite ... I am happy to pay more for my heart. "

"My daughter's parents-in-law are old and in poor health. I have a daughter who also takes care of her grandchildren. The baby of two years and three months is so cute. I take care of them during the day, and the young couple leave early and return late. It's a little tired to take care of the baby alone, but I feel very happy. When the child is older, I want my daughter to have a second child, but my daughter-in-law just won't let go. It is enough to say that one is born ... "

"My son is in France. After having children, I have to take turns with my in-laws to take care of them for several months every year. Granddaughter has just turned two, and her grandson is coming again. It was not until my granddaughter graduated from primary school that the epidemic came to an end. Coming and going for almost ten years, watching my grandchildren grow up, I am getting old. I'm not tired. My children have taken me almost all over France. But I never thought about living abroad for a long time. A few months abroad, a few months at home, like to travel. Now it's suddenly broken, and life has changed since the outbreak. I still miss my grandson abroad. Fortunately, there are two sons in China and a lovely granddaughter around, which makes up for the shortage. "

"Is a good grandma with culture and thought! I'm a grandmother, too, not like you. I am the boss. Although I can teach her to recite ancient poems at the beginning, I dare not let my baby exercise her growth in life for fear of falling and bumping. Don't let her eat by herself until she goes to kindergarten! You did a good job and learned from you! "

"My grandson is seven years old this year, and there are parents in their nineties at home. I want to turn around beautifully, too My grandson cried for many days, and my heart was very sad! But loyalty and filial piety can't be both! Let go if you don't give up! Better than my old age! Grandma is great now! "

"I am just like you. Oh, I let go now. "

"Sister is great, learning from you!"

"You liberated, I'm still struggling. I retired in June five years ago and took my grandson in July, which was seamless. I'm still a man, my daughter is divorced, and I have a long business trip. My wife often goes to the countryside, and most of the time I am at home with my grandson. Eating, wearing, playing, washing, picking up, sleeping, tutoring, and supervising learning are all covered, and retirement wages are posted. " Now I'm finally too tired to straighten up. "

"I didn't take good care of my daughter, but she resigned and took care of herself. I am in poor health. Rheumatism, hypertension, heart disease and insomnia are all over 50 years old. I tried to bring it to her, but I couldn't. As soon as I get to her house, it is my job to wash dishes, buy food, cook and clean the toilet. Sometimes what you do doesn't meet your daughter's wishes, and your daughter still doesn't listen, so give her face. Daughter is not considerate at all. I have a chronic disease. So I wanted to retire early to help her take care of the children, but I didn't return it later. "

"Write your feelings, turn around without words and tears."

"I have to take two grandsons' grandmothers. I'm so tired! ! "

"This used to be a festival. Help my daughter and son-in-law take care of the baby on weekends. I retired today. My in-laws don't want to take it. I can't help it I go to the kindergarten to pick up the children, buy food, cook and clean every day. I don't know why, for the past half a month, the pain in the whole lower limb has been unbearable, especially at night, and I often wake up with pain. I've always been healthy and exercising. I've never been like this. I really don't know why. I really hope that my children will grow up soon, so that I can go back to my hometown and live a free life for several years. "

"My family is waiting for the children to get ready for my succession. After reading so many comments, I am really a little timid. "

"Take grandchildren and donate money to the whole family!

With grandchildren, donations were rejected!

Alas! Grandma is not easy to be, life is so hard! "

"How is it the same as me, but I still insist ... women are taking care of children all their lives!"

"Behind this grandmother's gorgeous turn, her daughter is a full-time mother at home. I am a grandmother, but I can't turn around, because the children have to pick up and drop off at school. But I admire this grandmother very much. "

"Difficult, unless the daughter or son-in-law doesn't go to work, the children who want to go to work must always have the elderly around them until junior high school does not need to pick up and drop off."

"I am also taking care of three grandchildren for my daughter. I am really tired and want to go back to the oil city to rest. "

"You are a great elder, and you are duty-bound when you should pay. When you quit, you should quit decisively, take no credit, and do not rely on the old to sell the old."

"The grandmother said is my experience. I hope we can live happily for ourselves all our lives. "

"We all take care of our children by ourselves. When our children grow up and have their own children, we have to take care of them. Why? "

"Grandparents help to take care of their granddaughters and grandsons. The youngest is two and a half years old, tired and happy. When they are all in primary school, they will quit! "

"I am taking my daughter, Dabao Kindergarten, and Bao Xiao is almost four months old."

"I am also taking care of my grandson now! What you said coincides with my idea! ..... May you be safe! Happy! ……"

"This grandmother is very open-minded. She helped her daughter bring up two babies, and she can learn while doing it. The benefits of taking care of babies are limitless. Caring for babies, just like caring for flowers, can thrive. "

"Poor wind, with grandchildren, no matter how hard and tired, no matter how wronged."

"Turning around at the right time is the need of your own life and the need of the environment. Your decision is wise. "

"My daughter's Dabao is over one year old. Waiting for Bauer's arrival, waiting for the two babies to go to kindergarten like you, it's time for grandma to let go."

"Yes, when my grandson caught a cold, he made my grandfather cry. Whenever the grandson is uncomfortable, grandpa will cry. In-laws are like this, my grandparents will die of joy and cover their mouths. "

"I envy you. My two brothers have always been brought up by my grandmother, and my grandparents play everywhere. If you don't play, you won't have a chance to play that kind until your grandmother finds out about the early stage! "

"Grandmothers with children just live together, and different living habits are very troublesome and affect their mood."

"I am helping my daughter with two babies, the older is two years old and the younger is two months. I will serve her 24 hours a day. When is the end? "

"I want to turn around beautifully, too, but I have to wait."

"First of all, congratulations on your daughter getting married and having children early, so you can live 10 years. It can also help those grandparents who started to take care of their children at the age of 70. Many of them lie down after coming out, so it is best to get married and have children early, otherwise the parents of the children will be enough for you. "

"I wish I could leave this difficult period? Go back to your life, I hope! "

Looking at grandma smiling brightly in front of the baby, there are actually helpless hardships hidden behind her.