Don't children from poor families deserve to travel?

From a clear point of view, tourism itself has no direct relationship with the poor and the rich, that is, there is no rule or public opinion that the poor can't travel, or only the rich can. The problem lies in another node. Wherever you go, traveling is a consumption activity for most of us. How long? What to swim for? How to swim? Every day there will be more or less expenditure, which is a kind of hard expenditure, so it will cause economic burden to the "poor". Such a burden will make me fall into a kind of self-doubt from time to time. Should I travel?

In fact, the question of whether the poor should travel can be transformed into this. Should the limited money be spent on travel? In the case that food and tuition are extremely tight, should this 4,000 yuan belong to your own disposable category? Object is a sophomore this year. According to the age of 18, he is now close to 20 years old or already 20 years old. Parents should wander between the ages of 45 and 50. Even if I live in a relatively poor family, the growth demand of parenting and education in the past 20 years is also the income of my father's usual work (presumably it will not be an easy job, and it is extremely difficult to earn money at the bottom! ), and your upbringing is an important aspect of the whole family expenses. Plus because of my father's gamble (I don't know if the word "gamble" is appropriate, don't blame it. ) will make limited income more uncertain. But even so, from the moment you were born, you were destined to be a family with your parents. You are a complete family, just like other Qian Qian families in this society. Parents have the responsibility and obligation to raise you. When I grow up, I have to bear the burden of parents' pension. This is the essential relationship between raising children and supporting the elderly. This is the first core relationship between you and your parents!

The reality of thousands of tuition fees for a family profoundly shows that both the daily income of your father and your personal income from work-study programs are destined to be directly injected into the overall economy of your family. Because the current family situation simply can't count your income as "your" income! Your 4000 yuan is an unexpected fresh water source for parents and the whole family, which makes the burden on parents' shoulders slightly different. Frankly speaking, 4000 yuan can't make a family rich. Even if consumption is forced, it will not have much impact on the family. But in fact, from a moral and practical point of view, you should not arrange the use of this 4000 yuan in this way, because you and your parents have different definitions of this money. As a son, there is no way to "luxury" an economic freedom without the reality of financial constraints. Because you need to make up for the difficulties faced by parents and parents, because we can't make up for every penny they have earned in the past 20 years by losing the freedom to invest in their children's growth. So I think this 4000 yuan is more meaningful than your trip, and it is directly included in the family income!

If you are a middle-class family (at least you won't worry about college tuition), I will definitely advise you to travel directly while you are young. Tourism is an indispensable way to grow up in life. Through traveling, you can see different scenery and people in different places, and you can find more different yourself in strange encounters again and again. This bowl of chicken soup is very nutritious, and I really drink it like this myself. I didn't really know the weight of everything I gave for a child until I got married and became a parent. At the beginning of my career, I really realized the heavy pressure brought by children's early education fees, course fees and travel fees one month after the conversion. At this time, I always say to my wife: "It doesn't matter, money can always be earned, and children should have everything!" "Unless there is really no way to change the status quo and the real situation is too bad to improve, most parents will not discount their children's lives. I miss your parents the same way. I'm sure your parents won't, let alone think about the 4000 yuan you saved through work-study programs. What really exists behind it is the reality of life, which makes them move this 4000 yuan. You are a whole, there is no way!

It's time for a 20-year-old child to think about the real problems he faces from the perspective of adults and the whole family. In addition, I would like to give you a heartfelt reminder that when parents are nearly 50 years old, their physical condition will accelerate into the aging period. There are still about ten years of working time, and after 60, I will face more physical conditions. The expenses and financial support you will face in the future are not as simple as college tuition. Therefore, the life you will face in the future will become more and more uncomfortable because of economic problems, so if you can, be prepared in advance! On the basis of studying hard, can you make your own life plan and open your own income door in advance (of course, the income from work-study program is actually a beginning, but it is still very different from my life plan).

When more embarrassing daily life comes, poverty can really make people weak! Very weak! I will even question myself, and I will question many things that are actually normal. I don't want to feel too much instead of myself. It's really because of financial constraints and heavy life pressure for a period of time, so I can't look at this problem from this angle. Because supporting a family is really not easy, it is very difficult!

Young people should be self-reliant, have plenty of time to travel, solve urgent needs, put away their desires and strive to realize their lives! From the secular point of view, make money first, you should earn at least the same amount of money, at least the money that can make you basically live independently, and it is inevitable that you will be a little selfish when it breaks out. Hang in there, the places you haven't been to are always there, you just went a little late!