Nostalgia for the personal signature of the past

1. The lost beauty can only be left to memories.

2. The weak who are ignored have no choice but to remain strong.

3. The past is past and can never come back.

4. The scroll of memory can be read and stayed at will.

5. I feel nostalgic because I can’t see you and the future.

6. It’s not that I miss you too much, and I’m not in the mood to accompany you anymore.

7. Why do you always leave sadness to me alone?

8. Let me be a passing dragonfly. Leave behind a process that will be missed.

9. You talk too freely about love, so freely that you seem to only know how to talk.

10. In fact, everything is very simple, but I made things complicated.

11. Slowly get used to it. If you care too much about others, you will often hurt yourself.

12. After leaving, don’t say you wish me happiness. What qualifications do you have to wish me happiness?

13. Your smile is like a butterfly flapping its wings. If I can, I want to stay with you forever. collect.

14. When I have the belated courage, I look back and realize that you are no longer here.

15. Every kind of like has a reason! But every kind of sadness is inexplicable.

16. To be a wise woman, you must know how to love a man and his money!

17. From poor to poor, from rich to rich, I don’t envy what you have. , don’t be jealous of what I have.

18. Don’t believe so much in memories. The person in them may not miss you.

19. Everything is too late to express, everything may be frozen due to death or mistakes.

20. Looking up at the clouds, my lost years live in the light clouds, and I am fascinated by what I can see.

21. At this time, I am shrouded in the night, thinking of you. If I don't love you, the rooster has crowed.

22. If you can be with someone if you like him, then there will be no tragedy in this world.

23. Some things can’t be ignored just because you don’t want them, and some words can’t be forgotten after you read them.

24. The so-called people are those who miss what has passed, and what is already in front of them should be retained for future nostalgia and sighing.

25. Looking at the sky quietly, recalling every bit of the past, I found that perfection has gradually aged.

26. When you have nothing to do, you will miss the past time. You will be pure and happy, and you will not be tired and tired all day long.

28. Only then did I realize that I missed the days with them so much. To my friends from elementary school, middle school and high school.

29. Sometimes, I think I am missing the past, but in fact, I am just mourning those lost times.

30. The love of youth can be silent. In the years after I grow up, I will always walk in the scenery without you.

31. Many years later, when we return to the current circle as outsiders, we must have a feeling called nostalgia.

32. I don’t like to miss the past at all. After all, it’s all over. I treat the good and bad things in the past as if they never happened.

33. People often miss the past, not because of how beautiful it is, but because it can never come back.

34. When time steals the original intention, all that remains are the hardships. So I always stay in one period of time and miss another period of time.

35. I haven’t played it for a long time. I miss Rainbow Rangers and all the entrepreneurship in the past. I still have a heart for making hardware.

36. It really takes a long, long time for us to understand what kind of people and things we will really miss.

37. It is said to be the melancholy of lonely autumn, and it is said to be the nostalgia of the distant sea. Someone asked me why I am troubled, but I dare not say your name.

38. Looking back, in the past years, I have always been peeping at you in my youth, but I could not muster the courage to approach you until the end.

39. I suddenly missed the quiet forest, the silent running water in front of the house, the guqin, and the breeze swimming between the strings.

40. No matter how beautiful the love is, it is mixed with sadness, and no matter how poignant the story is, it has an ending. If you fall in love with you, you will hurt yourself! Should you let go of this love?

41. I don’t miss the past. I just want to move forward now. Everything I see is remembered in my mind and slowly becomes a part of the puzzle, but there are always missing corners.

42. Hiding in a certain time, missing the palm prints of a period of time; hiding in a certain place, missing a person who stands on the way in and out, who makes me care.

43. Suddenly, I want to write two lines of love poems, listen to those classic songs that I don’t want to touch again, and miss my past. However, I don't want to be sad anymore.

44. I often miss those days in the past, not because they were so beautiful, but because they will never come back. Sometimes I lament that my craftsmanship is really good.

45. Many things have become indifferent over time. An article about helplessness in life. There is a lot of helplessness in life, so many of them are like a handful of air, and you can’t see them now.

46. Many times we don’t know, but we pretend to know; there are many things we know, but we pretend not to know; many times we pretend that we live a fulfilling life.

47. We always look at the people far away and ignore the people around us. We always miss the past, but fail to cherish the present. People are so contradictory!

48. What I miss most is the warmth of your palm holding my hand, but the memory of a hand may not be thick and generous, but it seems to be able to hold it. Live my whole world.

49. Turning over those desolate title pages, looking back, I feel that the past years were in vain. However, I didn't want to let go, but time ruthlessly let go of my hand.

50. Go back to that innocent, romantic and carefree childhood, the joy of climbing up the trees to pick out birds, going down to the river to catch fish and shrimps, catching crickets in the grass, and playing with bees and butterflies among the wild flowers. years. Sentences about remembering the past

1. Youth is an algorithm. If you are determined to be diligent, use addition, if you are lazy, use subtraction, if you are striving hard, use multiplication, and if you are going astray, use division. Over time, life grows according to geometric coefficients; if the direction is wrong, it will return to zero and start all over again.

2. You illuminate my way forward with the torch of life. With your guidance along the way, I will not lose my way; with your attention along the way, I will be more confident and brave. Teacher, Thank you! (Sentences about remembering the past)

3. Time is the best eraser. It can wipe clean our deep-rooted memories, and then forget them together with the people who never forget them.

4. Memories are like a movie playing, and the scenes are fascinating before your eyes. Memories are like visiting an art exhibition. Before I finish looking at one painting, another one comes into view.

5. We practice smiling all the time, and eventually we become people who dare not cry.

6. The past is already past! Those are just memories that remain in my heart. I wonder if I can go back to the past? Or return to his arms? Every scene of you together will make you feel sad. You keep it for life!

7. Memories that cannot be brought back can only be slowly forgotten.

8. We have to admit the power of memories. In such an illusory spiritual world, memories can easily make people get out of loneliness and despair.

9. Memory, you are the gentle face of the teacher; Memory, you are the laughter of classmates; Memory, you are the whispers between close friends; Memory, you are the eternal beauty blooming in my heart flower.

10. If you can be with someone if you like him, then there will be no trouble in this world.

11. A quiet life is called helplessness. After being silent for a long time, what words should be used to describe the expectation and yearning in my heart.

12. Sometimes, you don’t truly realize the value of some cherished moments until they become memories.

13. If I fall in love with your smile, how do I collect it and how do I own it?

14. When I come to a cruel society, I will always encounter some hesitation and helplessness.

Then, those people will teach me to understand the unspoken rules of life. Only in this way will I know how to grow up and understand how much I have lost in the past?

15. A few years later, will we? I will also have endless nostalgia for some careless fragments of that day, and I will laugh secretly or get wet at the corners of my eyes when I recall them carefully.

16. This is an extraordinary experience. Now that I think about it, it has a profound impact on me. No matter where I am in the world, I will always treasure it deep in my heart as an eternal memory.

17. When you are disappointed, you should see the achievements and recall the achievements created. But if it is the past and the future, if you can’t go back, don’t think about it, and look forward to the memories and new memories you let go of

< p> 18. Only with memories can life be enriched and years filled with poetry. If you indulge in memories, your youth will inevitably turn pale, and your heart will become sad even if you are a stone-hard person.

19. Unforgettable, perfect, short three years, every plant, tree, brick and stone on campus has not changed. However, we are leaving, and we can’t bear to leave them.

20. It’s hard to forget things that hurt your heart, and you’ll remember things that are so happy that they’re so happy. But after all, there are too few such ups and downs in life, and most of them are those that are neither big nor small. Nothing is broken. These things gradually fade away in my mind as the day goes by.

21. I will still think of you, of Gardenia, of your kindness and tolerance to me, and of your care when I was sick. You said you would forget me and start over. I can only silently wish you the best. you.

22. Youth, when we enter the first day of the year, we feel that youth is a vibrant green, a burning green flame, and a rising sun.

23. It is precisely because I can’t let go of that relationship that I have made myself miserable. I fantasize every day that the tomorrow I am waiting for will come; tomorrow, someone will take me out of this silence. place.

24. Our young years left too much joy and pain. After these years, maybe we no longer contact each other, maybe we have forgotten each other, the figures we used to be together have long been forgotten, and that relationship has also faded. The clouds and breezes are getting lighter at any time. It is indeed not that we intentionally forget each other or everything we had before. It’s just that life is too real and no one can do anything about it.

25. I just miss the past and feel the inexplicable sadness in the nostalgia, so I am also a naturally sentimental person! For this reason, I am not happy, so I have lost a lot!

26. Thank you for the precious memories between us. I will carry them with me to the distance. The sadness in your eyes and the reluctance in my heart are the destined ending. Because, you let me go too early. .

27. The past is past and can never come back. (Sentences about missing the past)

28. I just miss the past and feel the inexplicable sadness in the nostalgia, so I am also a naturally sentimental person! For this reason, I am not happy, so I have lost a lot!

29. The years disappear little by little, which also arouses my memories of the past, and each photo has become the most cherished thing. Although things may be better now than in the past, as the writer said: My childhood was the most beautiful.

30. In the lonely days, I picked up the fragments of memories, and each piece was engraved with your touch. Love, hate, and hatred turned into wisps of clouds and smoke in the world of mortals, drifting away with the wind. How many wind, flowers, snow and moon are lonely at the end of the wind and sand, without a trace. How much tenderness and sweetness are scattered to the end of the world along with the smoke from the kitchen.

31. Every night when I lie in bed, fragments of the past will appear in my mind, some are happy, some are painful, and some are sad. But whether it was happiness or pain, it became a perfect memory at that time. It made me fall asleep with a smile every time. It was a happy feeling!

32. I like myself now and I miss it. The past us.

33. Everyone lives strong, but there will always be times when they are vulnerable. I don’t know what I want to say anymore, I just suddenly want to write something, but suddenly, I think about those beautiful things again. memories.

34. Memories are like an old song record on an old gramophone, covered in dust and scars.

Babbling, babbling, babbling, babbling, it seems to be talking about the desolation of the fragmented life, and it is like reading through the endless vicissitudes of time

35. After leaving, don’t say you wish me happiness, what qualifications do you have to wish me happiness? Am I happy?

36. The most terrifying thing about youth is that you still look like you are in your twenties, but you have the mentality of being in your thirties or even forties. At the age of youth, he is already old.

37. The previous love was both hurt and happiness. Even if I don’t forgive you, I still have to admit that I can’t forget you, no matter it’s love or friendship.

38. I often think that memory is the most easily blurred thing. As time goes by, it will fade away. And the boring transition of middle school life gradually faded away. Unforgettable, there are only a few looking back, and they are unbreakably stuck in the memory.

39. Memory is like water poured into the palm of your hand. No matter whether you spread it out or hold it tightly, it will eventually flow cleanly from your fingers.

40. When the longing accumulates too much and is as deep as a burden, some words in distant memories will float to the lips, making people want to hear them again. Because there is no one to send it to, I can only lend a pair of ears and tell it to myself.

41. When the longing accumulates too much and is as deep as a burden, some words in distant memories will float to the lips, making people want to hear them again. Because there is no one to send it to, I can only lend a pair of ears and tell it to myself.

42. I closed the box of memory, and it was like a dream, sliding past me. This dream was really too long, but it was my personal experience and I can never forget it.

43. The relationship in the past can only be regarded as a necessary path for growth. Now, I have understood that if you don’t love, you don’t love anymore. Even if your heart is broken, you can no longer have confidence. Pick up the courage to build new happiness. The heartbreaking pain that was so difficult before has passed, but I still exist.

44. Why, the sadness is always left to me alone.

45. When the longing accumulates too much and is as deep as a burden, some words in distant memories will float to the lips, making people want to hear them again. Because there is no one to send it to, I can only lend a pair of ears to tell it to myself

46. With the simplest life and the most distant dream, our memories are sunshine, and sunshine is stainless!

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47. I loved you so much before, but not anymore. That love has turned into hatred, and I will not miss you anymore.

48. I used to love you so much, but now I don’t. That love has turned into hate, and I won’t miss you anymore.

49. Our young years left too much happiness and pain. After these years, maybe we no longer contact each other, maybe we have forgotten each other, the figures we used to be together have long been forgotten, and the relationship has also faded. As time goes by, the clouds become lighter and the breeze becomes lighter. It is indeed not that we intentionally forget each other or everything we had before. It’s just that life is too real and no one can do anything about it.

50. In countless sleepless nights, I firmly believe that many people will habitually close their eyes and quietly miss a person or a face. In their hearts, it may be enough to have such a person to miss. (Miss the past sentence)

51. Many times we don’t know, but we pretend to know; there are many things we know, but we pretend not to know; many times we pretend that we live a fulfilling life.

52. Memories are like a pillar of sandalwood. Light it carelessly, burn it silently. The graceful and ethereal smoke that dances in the wind is the dream-like green smoke, and it is also the passing years that are gradually going away. The fragrance is gone, the smoke is gone, the ashes are gone, and the dream soul is fragrant.

53. Silent night, cool breeze. The gray moon is dim and dull, like a small boat moving slowly forward in the vast night. I felt melancholy, looking at this scene from a distance, and felt a dull pain. In helplessness, I looked up to the sky and screamed.

54. A person’s life is long, and the river of memory is long.

In the memories that belong to me, I dare not say that I can remember everything, but I have always treasured that memory, that perfect memory

55. Let time pass by in the beautiful scenery Huazhong, use memories to erase the marks of sadness!

56. In countless sleepless nights, I firmly believe that many people will habitually start to close their eyes and miss someone quietly. Man, I miss a face. And in their hearts, it may be enough to have such a person who they can miss.

57. Every night when I lie in bed, fragments of the past will appear in my mind, some are happy, some are painful, and some are sad. But whether it was happiness or pain, it became a perfect memory at that time. It made me fall asleep with a smile every time. It was a feeling of happiness!

58. Why do you always leave sadness to me? One person bears it.

59. Memory is like water poured into the palm of your hand. No matter whether you spread it out or hold it tightly, it will eventually flow cleanly from your fingers.

60. It seems that I am used to waiting, and I simply think that waiting will come. But while waiting, I missed the happiness that can lead to happiness. Regret when you lose, why you didn't catch it. Indeed, waiting itself is a ridiculous mistake. I know that I am waiting for a happiness that I don’t know if it will come.

61. I am always hiding in our memories, looking for the smile I once had. Classic sentences

62. Imprints of different shades, memories made with a smile.

63. In countless sleepless nights, I firmly believe that many people will habitually close their eyes and quietly miss a person or a face. And in their hearts, it may be enough to have such a person who they can miss. Poems about remembering the past

1. This feeling can be recalled thousands of times, but it was already at a loss at the time. ——Li Shangyin's "Jin Se"

2. Why should I cut the candles from the west window, but talk about the rainy night in Bashan? ——Li Shangyin's "The Night Rain Sends to the North"

3. Think back to those days, when we were strong and strong, we could swallow thousands of miles like a tiger. ——Xin Qiji's "Yong Yu Le·Nostalgia for the Past in Guting, Beigu Pavilion, Jingkou"

4. Remember that Jin Luan sang the same song, the spring breeze brought prosperity to the country, and now the world is far away. ——Ouyang Xiu's "Linjiang Immortal"

5. When the family members look back on the past, it breaks their hearts to recall this. ——Tao Yuanming's "Miscellaneous Poems·Part 3"

6. There were 400,000 horses at that time, and Duke Zhang lamented that his talents were exhausted. ——Du Fu's "Song of Tianyu Hussar"

7. I recall the old days of holding hands together, but now the water is far away and the mountains are long. Don't leave the remaining makeup behind when you shed tears. In the old love and new dream, I think about it when I am free. ——Xin Qiji's "Linjiang Immortal"

8. Returning to the boat now is like catching an arrow, not like getting on a boat when you came. ——Xin Qiji "Traveling in Wuyi, Composing Ten Poems for Hui Weng"

9. Egrets fly by the Xisai Mountain, and peach blossoms and flowing water make mandarin fish fat. Green bamboo hats, green coir raincoats, the drizzle on the spring river does not need to return. ——Zhang Zhihe's "Miscellaneous Ballads and Songs of the Fisherman"

10. In the past forty years, our country and our country have spread over three thousand miles of mountains and rivers. The phoenix pavilion and the dragon tower are connected to the sky, and the jade tower is like a cigarette. How many times have you ever seen war? ——Li Yu's "Broken Array"

11. At that time, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty wrote a book announcing the peach blossoms. ——Li He's "Immortal"

12. The present is neither what it used to be, nor what it will be in the future. ——Bai Juyi's "Looking for Spring in the East City"

13. I think back to Gong Jin's time when Miss Qiao Chu got married. ——Su Shi's "Niannujiao·Chibi Nostalgia"

14. I don't know the moon when I am young, I call it a white jade plate, and I doubt the Yao mirror, flying in the blue clouds. ——Li Bai's "Gu Lang Yue Xing"

15. Relatives and friends in Luoyang are like asking each other, and a heart of ice is in a jade pot. ——Wang Changling "Farewell to Xin Jian in Furong Tower"

16. Sitting alone thinking about the past, tears filled with sorrow. ——Chen Mi's "Inscription on Miaoji Temple"

17. I was a flower appreciator at that time, but now I don't even have half of them. ——Yan Shu's "Magnolia"

18. Every time I was drunk at that time, I didn't realize that it was difficult to walk. ——Wang Changling "Writing on the Road to Daliang"

19. Thinking about the past makes me sad. Nostalgic for the homeland, empty traces. ——Sadu La's "Man Jiang Hong"

20. When will the spring flowers and autumn moon come, how much do you know about the past? There was an east wind in the small building last night, and the motherland could not bear to look back at the bright moon.

The carved railings and jade masonry should still be there, but the beauty has changed. Asking you how much sorrow you can have is like a river of spring water flowing eastward. ——Li Yu's "Yu Meiren"

21. Every time I was drunk at that time, I found it difficult to walk. ——Wang Changling's "Composition on the Way of Daliang"

22. Tune the treasure harp and dial the golden zodiac. At that time, we sang partridge lyrics together. ——Zhou Zizhi's "Partridge Sky"

23. The red and pink green women reflect the Chu clouds, and the peach blossoms are on the pomegranate skirt. Luo Fu went to the east alone and imitated his family as an envoy. ——Du Shenyan's "A Play to the Beauty of Zhao Shijun"

24. I remember the first time we met in the bridal chamber, we just got together and grew up together. ——Liu Yong's "Day and Night Music"

25. At that time, I said that I must be happy, but I refused to stop until dawn. ——Linghu Chu's "Miscellaneous Songs·Four Poems for Young People"

26. Spring has passed, and I cherish the sunny year. There are still peach blossoms on the flowing water and bamboo leaves drunkenly in front of the bottles, just waiting to see the blue sky. ——Liu Yuxi's "Miscellaneous Songs and Songs·Recalling Jiangnan"

27. At that time, there were many tears, but even today the bamboos are still stained. ——Gao Pian's "Temple of Two Concubines"

28. When the family members look back on the past, it breaks their hearts to recall this. ——Tao Yuanming's "Miscellaneous Poems Part Three"

29. Sitting alone thinking about the past, tears filled with sorrow. ——Chen Mi's "Inscription on Miaoji Temple"

30. Returning to the boat now is like catching an arrow, not like getting on a boat when you came. ——Xin Qiji's "Traveling in Wuyi, Composing Ten Poems for Hui Weng"

31. At that time, I was the most flower-appreciating person, but now I only check half of them. ——Yan Shu's "Magnolia"

32. Like the generals at that time, they meandered through the desert. ——Jiang Kui's "The Desolate Prisoner"

33. I recall the old days of holding hands together, but now the water is far away and the mountains are long. Don't leave the remaining makeup behind when you shed tears. In the old love and new dream, I think about it when I am free. ——Xin Qiji's "Linjiang Immortal"

34. Tune the treasure harp and dial the golden eagle. At that time, we sang partridge lyrics together. ——Zhou Zizhi's "Partridge Sky"

35. Thinking about the past makes me sad. Nostalgic for the homeland, empty traces. ——Sadu La's "Man Jiang Hong"

36. I remember the first time we met in the bridal chamber, we just got together and grew up together. ——Liu Yong's "Day and Night Music"

37. In the past forty years, our country and our country have spread over three thousand miles of mountains and rivers. The phoenix pavilion and the dragon tower are connected to the sky, and the jade tower is like a cigarette. How many times have you ever seen war? ——Li Yu's "Broken Array"

38. Today is neither what it used to be, nor what it will be in the future. ——Bai Juyi's "Looking for Spring in the East City"

39. There were 400,000 horses at that time, but Duke Zhang lamented that all his talents were exhausted. ——Du Fu's "Tianyu Huqi Song"

40. I remember that Jin Luan sang at the same time, the spring breeze brought prosperity to the country, and now the old man is far away. ——Ouyang Xiu's "Linjiang Immortal"

41. At that time, I said that I must be happy, but I refused to stop until dawn. ——Linghu Chu's "Miscellaneous Songs·Four Poems for Young People"

42. At that time, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty wrote a book announcing the peach blossom spring. ——Li He's "Immortal"

43. This feeling can be recalled thousands of times, but it was already at a loss at the time. ——Li Shangyin's "Jin Se"

44. At that time, I said that I must be happy, but I refused to stop until dawn. ——Linghu Chu's "Miscellaneous Songs·Four Poems for Young People"

45. Today is neither what it used to be, nor what it will be in the future. "Spring in the East City" ---Bai Juyi Missing the past years

1. What I miss, you no longer miss.

2. One out of ten people give up on everything in the world because of difficulties, and nine out of ten people give up on it because of laziness.

3. Live a modest, gentle and self-sustained life, not cluttered in your heart, not trapped in emotions, not afraid of the future, and not thinking about the past.

4. If there is such a person, please don’t be happier than me or more desperate than me. Let’s just get a little red book and live a great life.

5. A person’s true happiness is not to stay in the light, but to gaze at the light from a distance and run towards it. Only in that time of selflessness can one have the true fulfillment of life. .

6. We always feel the best about what we have lost, and the lost love is always unforgettable. Cherishing or letting go is a necessary process in life. When love comes, knowing how to grasp it is a kind of happiness.

7. Despicability is the only criterion for testing love. Li Yinhe once said that when you love someone, your dignity will become soft.

8. In fact, if the other person doesn’t like you, it’s useless no matter how much you pursue him. If the other person likes you, there is no need to go out of your way to pursue them. Maybe one day he will be moved by your sincerity, but most of them will break up in the end. Because love is not touching, you are not his ideal partner. Even if he accepts you for a while, he will still leave you when he meets the one he likes in the future.

9. How I wish your love could be like drizzle, continuous and lasting for a lifetime.

10. I love you, there is no need to hold your hand and pretend to be happy, I will watch silently behind you; I love you, there is no need to express it in gorgeous words, I will work hard to continue your happiness; I love you You don't need to be by your side all the time, I will guard you quietly and meticulously. You have your sky, you have your wind and rain, when you cry, I will hand you a tissue and tell you that I am still there in this world; when you are tired, I have your shoulders to rest on, and I will integrate into this life with you.

11. Bitterness and sweetness come from the outside world, while strength comes from the heart and comes from one's own efforts.

12. Happiness is actually much simpler than we think. The problem is that if we don’t explore and experience all the complicated misfortunes, don’t fall through all the falls, and don’t After climbing all the mountains, we can't believe that there is happiness under the palm-sized tree shade at the foot of the mountain.

13. I have always thought that people grow old slowly, but this is not true. People grow old in an instant.

14. We all have scars, internal or external. No matter where the scar is for whatever reason, it will not make you any different from anyone else. Unless you dare not face it, hide the wound, and let it fester in secret, that will make you a patient, and no matter how you pretend, you will never be normal.

15. Companionship means that I am always there whether you need it or not.

16. The weakest part of a person is his reluctance to let go. Reluctant to part with a relationship that is no longer exciting, reluctant to part with a vanity, reluctant to part with applause. We always think that the best days will be very long and we don’t have to leave so soon. Just when we are weak-hearted and lack courage, the best days pass without mercy.

17. If you fall in love, don’t let go of the opportunity easily. Being reckless may make you regret it for a while; being cowardly may make you regret it for a lifetime.

18. Don’t care about what you have, don’t worry about what you don’t have, don’t be afraid of losing, and don’t pursue force. I feel that everything is my own, and it doesn’t matter if it becomes nothing. Enough is enough when it comes to gaining, and there is no fear of losing. Take care of yourself, as long as the green hills are still there, no matter how many times the sunset turns red.

19. For the rainbow, what if it rains again?

20. There is a kind of waiting that will break your heart. Wait for him to come back, wait for him to know how good you are, wait for him to change, wait for him to love you wholeheartedly, wait for him to marry you... the long wait will be endless. On the day when your heart is broken, you finally understand that waiting is no different. Who asked you to wait? It's not the person you love so obsessively, but your own infatuated fantasies and stubborn stubbornness.