What should my mother-in-law do if she asks to transfer the house where she got married before marriage?

Before marriage, the man bought a house in full, and after marriage, is the house a joint property of husband and wife? This question has been clearly answered in the marriage law now. Before marriage, if the man buys a house in full, then this property is the man's personal property, but not the husband and wife's property.

So under what circumstances, husband and wife have property? Instead of buying a house in full, the husband and wife share the mortgage repayment after marriage, so it is determined that the husband and wife have property. Another situation is that after marriage, if the man is willing to add the woman's name to the real estate license, then this is also the property of the husband and wife.

In love, some young people don't take these things too seriously. Even if the man sometimes buys a house in full, in order to show his love to the woman, he will choose to add her name to the real estate license. For a woman, too, if it is a house prepared by her parents before marriage, I think she is willing to add a man's name for love.

But in the eyes of parents, they will divide their children's pre-marital property more clearly.

The reason why the woman's parents do this is that their daughter will have a guarantee if she faces an unfortunate marriage life in the future. On the one hand, let her daughter marry into her husband's family, make her confident and live straight.

And the man's parents, most of them are simple, they think the daughter-in-law is "someone else's daughter", and they won't let a person with a physical surname and his son have a fortune, so they will divide it clearly.

Of course, there are some sensible young people now, and they will clearly distinguish between pre-marital property and post-marital property. Although there is an emotional foundation between two people, they can't predict the future variables, so they will leave a way out for themselves. For life, no one can be 100% sure that it will be smooth sailing.

After Zhang Qian got married, he met such an embarrassing thing. Shortly after she married her husband, she had a conflict with her mother-in-law because of the house where she got married.

Zhang Qian and his young couple don't want to divide the property before and after marriage too clearly, because when they got married, her parents married a full house, and her in-laws bought them a wedding house with a down payment. Just married, they have two houses, and the young couple still feel lucky.

But soon after they got married, Zhang Qian's mother-in-law began to talk about her dowry house.

"Daughter-in-law, if you marry into our house, then the house is ours, right?"

Zhang Qian's mother-in-law said while eating melon seeds. He also directs Zhang Qian to clean everywhere from time to time.

Zhang Qian is actually a very sensible woman. When I was in love, I heard from my husband that when my mother-in-law gave birth to her husband, she didn't do well in the second month and got sick. Zhang Qian also said at that time that when she got married, she must honor her mother-in-law.

Therefore, from the moment she got married, Zhang Qian took on all the easy work at home by herself. Before getting married, Zhang Qian's mother told Zhang Qian that after she got married, she should treat her mother-in-law as her own mother, and not be grateful for anything else, just because she has trained a good husband for Zhang Qian.

Zhang Qian's husband had nothing to say to Zhang Qian when he was in love. Everything comes first in Zhang Qian, and everything comes first in Zhang Qian. It is precisely because when she was in love, her husband was very kind to herself, so after she got married, Zhang Qian was willing to serve her mother-in-law.

At first, Zhang Qian's mother-in-law was very kind to her. When cooking, she will ask Zhang Qian if there are any taboos. But after a long time, Zhang Qian's mother-in-law also understood Zhang Qian's character and slowly began to neglect Zhang Qian.

Originally, Zhang Qian and her mother-in-law did housework together, and whoever had time would do more, but since her mother-in-law learned about the situation in Zhang Qian, she simply let Zhang Qian do it alone. As for Zhang Qian, because she always appreciated her husband's love and mother's words before she got married, she didn't say anything complaining. She thought that as long as she is good to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law will be good to herself.

I want to go back to my hometown, but in reality, Zhang Qian's mother-in-law not only has a good impression on Zhang Qian, but begins to care about Zhang Qian's usual expenses.

Young people like to dress themselves up beautifully, which can not only give people pleasure, but also keep their husbands' eyes fixed on themselves. However, Zhang Qian's mother-in-law doesn't like Zhang Qian carrying a bag home every month. She also sarcastically said from time to time: "I can't wear it if I buy so much. What if you can have a baby? "

Zhang Qian has a good temper and can tolerate her mother-in-law's vitriol. If it was someone else, it is estimated that she would have had a big fight.

Just last weekend, Zhang Qian pestered her husband to take her to the movies. Zhang Qian's mother-in-law thinks going to the movies is a waste of money, so she doesn't want them to go. In this way, in order to watch a movie, Zhang Qian and her mother-in-law had their first quarrel after marriage.

"You tell me about you, will encourage my son to spend money. Did all this money come from the wind? What movie are you watching? Just watch TV at home! Also save money! "

Zhang Qian's mother-in-law said, pulling Zhang Qian's husband's arm and pulling it back.

"Mom, we just went to see a movie. What happened? It's not too expensive. "

Zhang Qian explained.

"Not expensive? Look at you. From marriage to now, look at the clothes in your closet. I buy one every month and cosmetics are the most expensive. You are spending all my money! "

Hearing her mother-in-law scold her for losing her family, Zhang Qian suddenly became angry. After Zhang Qian married her husband, she never gave up her career. She earns more than 8000 yuan a month. She usually buys new clothes and cosmetics and never asks her mother-in-law for a penny.

"Mom, you said this is a bit too much. We both spend money to live, and I have never asked you for money to buy things. Why spend your money? "

Seeing that two people were going to quarrel, Zhang Qian's husband ran to persuade Zhang Qian to talk less.

"Well, then we can bye bye. Did you marry my son? Now you are married to my son. Are you my son's? My son is my own, so it is his, that is, mine. From the day you walk in the door, you and all the dowry you brought are mine! "

Say that finish, Zhang Qian's mother-in-law turned into her bedroom, very Aauto Quicker came out with an agreement. Zhang Qian took it from her husband and looked at the contents, which made her even more angry.

That agreement is a property transfer agreement that my mother-in-law privately asked someone to print. Although it has no legal effect, when Zhang Qian saw the offensive clauses in it, he couldn't help it any longer.

"Mom, what are you going to do? Why should I transfer the house where my mother married you? "

Zhang Qian thinks her mother-in-law is crazy. I have a good life, but I have to do some messy things every day. Her agreement was clearly printed from the stall, and it was just to fool herself. Although it is a meaningless agreement, it can be seen that the mother-in-law is also cruel!

"Why can't you transfer it to me? I'm telling you, I've made up my mind, too I don't want to live with you. I want to move out, so you can transfer the house you got married to me directly. You are all from our family, let alone a house! "

Zhang Qian was in distress situation when her mother-in-law said such things. She gave her husband a pitiful look, but he didn't seem to see it. He bowed his head and said nothing.

"Mom, that house was bought by my parents. If you really want to do this, then my husband and I will move out and give you this house. "

"No, I want that one. This house needs to pay the mortgage. My pension is not enough for my usual expenses. Where can I have spare money to pay my mortgage? "

"Mom, there is nothing wrong with me marrying your son, but I am not your son's private property. It's pointless for you to say that. What? If I marry him, I am his man and his man is yours! Mom, you just can't imagine that my parents bought that suite in full and put it in my own hands, can you? "

Zhang Qian hit the nail on the head in one sentence. Her mother-in-law's uproar from beginning to end is actually this concern. She feels that nothing her daughter-in-law brings can be put in her own name. If she is asked to add her son's name directly, she feels wrong. Then I made a fool of myself. In fact, what she did was also indefensible!

For Zhang Qian's mother-in-law, I am also quite speechless.

"Your son married somebody else, and everything became your son? Your son was born to you, your son is yours, and then his things are naturally yours. Including the wife married after marriage and the dowry brought by others? What is the truth? The truth about mental illness? "

However, in the end, her mother-in-law was unreasonable. Zhang Qian was very angry and went back to her parents' house that night. After all, my mother-in-law treats her as an "outsider" while staring at the dowry, regardless of whether she has her own son's share.

People like mother-in-law Zhang Qian, no matter what kind of daughter-in-law, can't stand it. She has no skill except being unreasonable. She played such a joke on the house where a girl from Zhang Qian married her. This also makes Zhang Qian fully realize the power of her mother-in-law.

At first, she never thought about how to separate the pre-marital property and the post-marital property from her husband. She thinks that if you love someone, you shouldn't mix other things. Love is pure love.

However, at that time, she quarreled with her mother-in-law and watched her husband's performance. She had to wonder whether her beliefs were wrong. Will pure love really be defeated by real things?

In fact, many people like Zhang Qian's mother-in-law. It can also be said that it is more common. They will participate too much in their children's pre-marital property and post-marital property, and even command two people in a "bullying" way, so they should divide the property.

Before a son gets married, he always belongs to his own son and has nothing to do with his daughter-in-law, who has a physical surname. Daughter-in-law's property, whether before or after marriage, must also have half of her son's, otherwise she will think of any way to make her realize her cowardice, even if it is unreasonable and demanding!

I want to say to my mother-in-law who has such paranoid thoughts: don't use your unreasonable troubles to draw a crack in my son's marriage!

Do to others what you don't want them to do to you!