The ex-husband, who didn't make progress, finally tasted the bitter fruit after the divorce before he knew how to work hard. what do you think?

Marriage is like a boat. In real life, it is not supported by romantic love. The happiness or misfortune of marriage depends entirely on whether the two people at the helm are willing to work hard and how their personalities are.

In marriage, a man's ability is not just talk. Under the great pressure of life, whether he can bear the burden on his shoulders is his real strength.

If a man is narrow-minded and has no tolerance, he wants to rely on others, but he doesn't know how to work hard. Then such a man will not bring happiness to his wife and marriage after all.

If a man is capable and broad-minded, even if he has not achieved much, as long as he has a positive heart and attitude, he will become the master of his life sooner or later. I will also make my wife and family follow him through my own efforts.

Does a man play a role in marriage, can he escort the marriage, and can he let his wife and children live a happy life with him? Then, in marriage, the wife is the most touching.

Love can make a woman dizzy and ignore many practical factors. For example, whether this man has a sense of responsibility, filial piety, personality, etc., there will be a series of factors that women need to consider.

But women are often immersed in the honey pot of love, forget to take marriage seriously, and stay with this man wholeheartedly until they are old. When marriage was under the impact of real life, I realized how absurd my original choice was.

When Xiao Jing and her husband Meng Wei got married, they had no house, no car and no savings. They were typical "three noes" men. However, despite her parents' opposition, Xiao Jing insisted on marrying her so-called "love".

Xiao Jing has a good job. In addition to supporting himself these years, he still has some savings in his hand. After getting married, they live with their in-laws. Although Meng Wei has a job, his income is not high. Every time at the end of the month, he reaches out to his parents for money.

After getting married, he no longer asked his parents for money, but asked his wife Xiao Jing for money. At the beginning of marriage, Xiao Jing was still immersed in the honey juice of love, and she didn't realize how useless the man she married was.

With Xiao Jing's support, Meng Wei is even less motivated at work. Anyway, he doesn't have enough money and has a wife to rely on.

Xiaojing works hard every day and works overtime until late. When I got home, Meng Wei had fallen asleep. He never knows whether he is worried about his wife. Is it dangerous to come back so late?

At first, she had no feeling about her husband's lack of progress. It was not until the burden of life became heavier and heavier that she realized that she had been working alone. A husband is like an ornament in a marriage. When he had no money, he asked her for money, but he never worked hard for marriage.

Under the impact of life pressure, Xiao Jing finally couldn't bear it. Although the living expenses at home are not much. Pieces and pieces add up, and a year is not a small expense.

It is completely untenable to rely on Xiao Jing's salary for one month. A little savings before marriage have already been unconsciously used in married life. She began to complain that her husband didn't work hard enough and urged him to cheer up and fight with her.

However, her husband Meng Wei's words made her chilling to the extreme. Meng Wei said: "I have such a capable wife that I don't have to work hard at all. I have money to spend."

Xiaojing was very sad and asked Meng Wei sadly, "Do you know how difficult it is for me to make money?" Meng Wei said, "How hard can that be? It's good to make money anyway. Besides, I have a job and don't feel tired. "

Xiao Jing laughed at her husband's ignorance in her heart, thinking, how can you be tired if you don't work hard every day and have a leisurely time? Obviously, it's harder than someone who works hard for her life.

When a real marriage tells you that you chose the wrong person, are you willing to continue and suffer in this wrong marriage?

Although Xiao Jing loves Meng Wei, Meng Wei's muddleheaded attitude towards life really makes her chilling. After saying it was invalid many times, Xiao Jing didn't want to waste any more time with him.

Xiao Jing, who is not too stupid, chose a stop loss in time when she realized that her husband had no future and her marriage had no future.

After the divorce, Xiao Jing became lighter. She said that she no longer had to bear the burden of marriage and could move forward freely and happily in her own life.

After Meng Wei's divorce, life became worse and worse, and he still had no remorse and did not know how to make progress. Go back to my old life, spend all my salary and ask my parents for it. However, parents can't be his lifelong support.

Not long after, Meng Wei's mother died of serious illness and his father was devastated. The only one who can stand up and make a contribution is Meng Wei himself.

At this time, he began to miss the days when there were small scenes. He often thinks that if there is a small scene, it will definitely help him solve many difficulties. At the same time, he also found himself just a parasite in his last marriage, attached to his wife's wings.

Because he didn't take the initiative, he lost his marriage and such a good wife. His mother's departure awakened him, and his father's aging gave him responsibility and motivation.

After Xiao Jing remarried, when she saw Meng Wei again, her opinion of him changed completely. If in their marriage, Meng Wei realized his own shortcomings and improved in time, maybe they were still a family.

However, when fate runs out, it can never be obtained again. In any case, it is also counted in the journey of life. After a long journey, we still have to bless each other and bless each other!

In marriage, when a woman loves another man, she must know what she is doing. If you don't see a man's character clearly before marriage, you will suffer after marriage.

Since men choose to get married, they should do a good job in their families, instead of taking marriage as a joke. If you can't bear the pressure of marriage, don't step into the marriage circle.

You can't live without making progress. Relying on others is only temporary, and only relying on yourself is forever. Even if the ability to make money is not strong enough, all efforts will not be in vain as long as you go forward bravely.

Especially in marriage, men should not ignore marriage. Failure to work hard is disrespect for marriage. When you don't respect marriage, why does it give you a happy life? In marriage, men pay not only for their wives and families, but also for themselves.

Being a responsible and self-motivated man and striving to improve himself is a respect for marriage and a responsibility for himself and his wife.