After marriage, how to get along with your parents-in-law?

One of the reasons why many young people are unwilling to get married now is that they need to live with their parents-in-law. When two generations live together, there will be great contradictions in their values and ways of dealing with things. However, if you really get married and live with your parents-in-law, it is the first step to handle the relationship between your mother-in-law and your daughter-in-law.

First, the two sides understand each other. As the younger generation, we should put ourselves in their shoes and understand their parents' difficulties. Parents' life may always be frugal, and we should not be too extravagant to make the elderly feel that their daughter-in-law is not diligent enough to keep the house. Parents should also understand the difficulties of their children's work. After busy work every day, you may not have much energy and time to tutor your children or do housework when you get home. Don't disrespect young people? Lazy? .

Second,? Chapter three of the contract? The three chapters here don't mean to sign any agreement with parents-in-law, but to reach an agreement on some things, such as housework and breakfast, lunch and dinner. Many old people can't understand the behavior of young people ordering takeout, going out to watch movies or even going out to eat. They can communicate and negotiate with their families, understand each other and minimize conflicts.

Third, a middleman is needed to adjust the family, that is, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, the family will inevitably be disharmonious. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may mainly revolve around one person, that is, the son of mother and the husband of daughter-in-law. So as a son and husband, he should be able to do well, right? Peacemaker? It can mediate the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and make them live in harmony, even like mother and daughter.

The above is just a personal opinion. As the younger generation, we should give our elders enough respect. The communication between people is also based on sincerity. If you are really kind to your mother-in-law, then he will definitely feel the sincerity from his daughter-in-law, and she will be kind to you, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law does not need too much running-in.