Is there any harm in speaking loudly?

People who speak loudly are definitely not as popular as people who speak softly. That’s for sure. Speaking loudly makes people feel like they are quarreling with others.

There are many people around me who speak loudly. They generally have bad tempers and give people the impression that they are people with no qualities. Some people will definitely say that they have always spoken like this. , I’m used to it, and it has little to do with quality.

I just listened to this. I don’t believe it. People with gentle tempers around me are generally well-educated, polite, well-educated, and employed. The people they interact with are also generally Highly qualified people.

As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together," and people like to play with people who are similar to themselves. Suppose your child has a bad temper, speaks loudly, and does not care about the people around him. People who have such feelings will certainly not be particularly welcomed by others.

Many places now prohibit noise. I have seen many examples where some people answer the phone and yell on the bus without caring about the feelings of the people around them. Some people are very disgusted. Sometimes I would ask the person who answered the phone to lower his voice. Unexpectedly, that person not only refused to keep his voice down, but actually started arguing with others.

This is a very common phenomenon. Some people may think that speaking loudly is nothing. I want to tell you that this matter is very serious and must be taken seriously.

My daughter is an example. Her grandparents and her father speak very loudly. Sometimes her grandfather and grandmother speak loudly when they talk. At this time, My daughter would say, "Grandpa and grandma, don't quarrel. You can't quarrel."

Children who are just over two years old know that speaking loudly means quarreling, and they are not aware of it. This is a difference in concept. If a child is exposed to a loud voice for a long time, his personality will gradually change. He will become very irritable and his voice will become like theirs.

Environment can change a person. This is really not just talk. We must pay attention to it. If we cannot change the environment by changing ourselves, then we will change the environment. For the sake of our next generation, we must make changes.