Isn't borrowing money still a state of mind?

Most people who lend money to others should understand their hypocritical faces. Before borrowing money, they disguised themselves as miserable and pitiful. They vowed to pay back the money on time. After borrowing money, they all have "Grandpa has no money".

People who borrow money and don't pay it back have seized this point and become arrogant. At this time, others want them, and they are the strong side in the relationship.

Borrowing money to see character, the ancients did not lie to me, the more hypocritical people are, the easier it is to borrow money and not pay it back. If you had seen his hypocrisy earlier before you borrowed money, no one would have lent him money.

It is precisely because he is good at using various personality masks that he can hide the truth and make people feel that he is not a treacherous person. Borrowing money is essentially a kind of trust in him.

It is difficult for us to lend money to people we don't trust, and how to cheat others' trust is also good for those who don't pay back the money.

Bullying is easier to understand. The so-called "bullying" is to use other people's emotional psychology to gain sympathy, so that others are more willing to help themselves, and at the same time create the illusion that they can't get out of trouble without you.

Increase the burden on others and let them agree to borrow money under their own conscience. If your attitude is too gentle, they will shamelessly push it off, or even deliberately fight with you and not pay back the money.

When your attitude is too tough, or you legally defend your rights in various ways, they will change their shameless appearance and honestly return them in full.

Their existence is the amplification of human greed and darkness, and the best way is to recognize them and stay away from them.