I gave birth to a daughter and was rejected by my husband's family. How can I protect my own interests?

In this world, there are many families that prefer boys to girls. Originally, it was impossible for them to decide to have children, but when their daughter-in-law risked her life to give birth to a child, her husband's family all said that they were unsuccessful in giving birth to a son, let alone their own son. Such a family is very sad. If such a thing happens to you, you must be strong and don't let your husband's family bully you.

One: You must have your own career.

If a girl has no job, her husband's family will definitely dislike you, because they want money all day, so it is most important to say that they have a job and be independent. When you are a nanny, it will be difficult to find a job, but you must believe in yourself and stick to it, or you will be even more sad in the future. Only when the economy is independent can you have confidence in your husband's family.

Two: Look at her husband's attitude.

If only your mother-in-law has a bad attitude and your husband is distressed that you are on your side, then you are still lucky as long as your husband can stand on your side. Two people can take care of their children without the help of their mother-in-law, and go out to live by themselves. Although it's a little harder to take care of the children alone, it's better than looking at her mother-in-law's face every day. My husband and I try to live a happy life.

Three: Really can't divorce.

If even the husband doesn't feel sorry for you and thinks that you didn't give him a boy, there is no need for such a marriage to last. Don't think that children are too young to live without their fathers. If he grows up, the child will be very sad to know that he has such a father. You should be the master of your own life, even if you have children. Children are your armor. Leaving such a family early can create a good environment for children. Maybe you can meet someone who doesn't care about your children and take care of them with you.

A woman who is a mother is strong. Don't live in such a family for her children's sake, because such a family can't be happy.