I was ill in hospital and my daughter-in-law didn't come to take care of me. The 4-year-old grandson said, is it wrong for me to hit my son?

There is nothing wrong with you. Your son really went too far in this matter. After all, your son's name is not online. After your daughter-in-law told him, he actually hit his daughter-in-law, causing her to go back to her parents' house. Your daughter-in-law didn't come because she didn't know you were ill in hospital.

First of all, you are right. Your daughter-in-law didn't come to take care of you because she quarreled with your son and was beaten back to her family. Li Guifang was too tired to take care of her mother, so she was ill in hospital. As a result, Li Guifang didn't expect his son and grandson to come, but he didn't see his daughter-in-law or call himself. After all, in Li Guifang's mind, her daughter-in-law is still a very virtuous person. When she got married, she didn't complain about not buying a house, but also bought a house with her son.

Li Guifang also took care of her daughter-in-law when she was pregnant, and even cooked different dishes with her daughter-in-law. Her daughter-in-law is also very kind to her, and she often buys clothes and shoes for her. They are still relatives.

After listening to his four-year-old grandson, Li Guifang thought that his son would quarrel with his daughter-in-law because of the big name, and even beat his daughter-in-law, which led him to return to his parents' home. He naturally felt that his son was too much and slapped his son directly.

Second, your son and daughter-in-law are quarreling, and the daughter-in-law who is far away from home naturally doesn't know about your illness and naturally won't come to serve. Now Li Guifang's son and daughter-in-law are quarrelling, and the daughter-in-law has gone back to her family. Presumably Liu Guifang's daughter-in-law didn't know that her mother-in-law was ill, so she naturally wouldn't take care of Li Guifang.

Obviously, Li Guifang's son has gone too far this time. After all, it is normal for couples to quarrel, but it is definitely wrong to hit people. Therefore, Li Guifang did not investigate the absence of his daughter-in-law. Instead, he felt that his son was wrong. After hitting his son, he asked him to call his daughter-in-law and ask her to come back.

Third, a reasonable mother-in-law is also more important in marriage. Many marriages show that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are also mutual. Most daughters-in-law are relatively easy to get along with, and some things don't matter so much. If the mother-in-law doesn't think highly of herself and understands her daughter-in-law, then they will get along well, but there will still be contradictions.

Because some mother-in-law will make her daughter-in-law feel chilling to protect her son, but Li Guifang didn't. She felt that her son was wrong, so she beat him and told him to beg his daughter-in-law. Such a mother-in-law is really reasonable, and I believe her relationship with her daughter-in-law will become better.

After marriage, it is a difficult problem for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along. Many mother-in-law will deliberately favor her son, leading to the dissatisfaction of her daughter-in-law, so it is also important for her mother-in-law to be reasonable.