I slept with some old women.

0 1 when I was sorting out my private letters the other day, I saw this article (published after the reader agreed)-my opposite sex has always been very good. Used to chase girls younger than me. After all, what man in the world doesn't like being young and beautiful? But every time I am with a little girl, I get a little tired after a while and want to change my taste. As it happens, I was greeted by a 32-year-old woman who was playing social software of American technology at this time. When I saw her, I felt that this sister was much older than me, but I have to say that she is very beautiful, has a good figure and has a unique charm. I was attracted to her the first time I saw her, so I thought I should try. It's no fun to always play with little girls, and I want to see the difference between leftover women and little girls. It turns out that this sister is really hard to chase, but the harder she is to chase me, the more I want to catch up with her and conquer her, and I am still young and have plenty of time. What am I afraid of? Later, I asked around and found out what she liked and disliked. If you want to win a woman, you must give her the right medicine, no matter what age she is. I chased her for about eight or nine months. At first, she refused directly, saying that it was inappropriate for us to be so different in age. So I always do things that move her ... slowly, she wavered, so after a long ideological struggle, she finally made up her mind and promised to give it a try with me. But after sleeping with her, my feelings for her disappeared. In a word, I think she is just an old woman. But because I haven't met the right girl I like at that time, it's nothing to play with her again. In the year when I played with her like this, one day she suddenly said to me, "I want to talk to you about getting married." If you love me and are willing to marry me, then we will discuss marriage. If you don't want us to waste each other. "I heard that and smiled. I don't like this older woman at all, okay? How can I marry you? To tell the truth, now I know why older women are not popular. In other words, what man likes a woman who always talks about marriage? It's like forcing someone to marry her. No wonder old women are not welcome. Of course, I didn't express this directly, but told her that I wanted to go back and tell my parents and tell her then. Then I told her that my parents didn't agree, so forget it. This statement must be false, because my parents don't know her at all, and even if they do, they can't agree. After all, she is so many years older than me. She is too old for me. But she didn't say anything at that time, just gave me a "good" word after a while. Then I deleted her. After this incident, I understand a truth-don't provoke older women in the future. They can't afford to play, and most of them take themselves seriously and just want to get married. So it makes sense that none of them want it. I couldn't help rolling my eyes when I saw what he sent me. Ha ha. Sure enough, a person naturally doesn't think he has a problem. I was a little angry at that time, but I didn't want to talk to him, so I replied to him: You are playing with feelings and playing with women. How dare you say such shameless things? You think people are old, maybe people think you are childish and arrogant. Sometimes, really don't think so much about yourself that you forget how heavy you are in the end. Before that, you should learn what respect means before you speak! After replying to him, I still feel wronged for the woman who was hurt by his playing. Moreover, there are not a few women who have been hurt and vilified because of their age, but it does not mean that they have not spoken. It's true. So, I decided to write something. Tell me about a woman I know. She may be the kind of "older woman" in the secular world. Her name is Fei Jie, a 30+ unmarried woman with no children. She is a strong woman, demanding of herself and her subordinates. Although she is 3 1, her figure and skin are well maintained, and some people who don't know her think she is only about 26. Do you think it is because of her age that she has no suitors around her? Don't! She has never had many suitors around her. It takes her minutes to get married, but she hasn't met the person who makes her think. Therefore, she refused very simply and would never hang on the carelessness of others. I remember talking to her about her age once. I was a little stiff then. Although I know her atmosphere, I am still afraid that I have said something wrong. But she smiled indifferently, saying that age is just a number in her eyes, and her value is what she has done, not the increasing age every year, staring at this meaningless Roman number. She's not unmarried either. She said she would get married and have children if she met the right person. In the future, she may do some crazy things, such as flash marriage and flash childbearing, but she won't do it because of her age and other people's eyes. I really appreciate her attitude towards life and admire her understanding and persistence in marriage and love. Actually, I really don't like labels like "leftover women" or "leftover men". In the eyes of many people-no matter how excellent, capable and attractive a woman with 30+is, she will be greatly discounted because of her age, or some people will be picky: because those people will think that you are old enough, then you should belittle yourself and compromise before getting married. I've heard some men say before that if I have good conditions, I'm not happy to find a young girl in my twenties. Why am I looking for an old woman? I am not stupid! Every time I hear such remarks, I feel sick. You can find a young girl, and you will have no problem if you love me. However, there is absolutely no need to belittle another group of women you don't know or understand because of her age. It seems that "age" is her original sin and the only criterion. Because of her age, she is bound to have all kinds of problems, and I can't wait to put some self-righteous labels on her right away. However, people of all ages have the right to pursue love, and outsiders have no right to dictate to them. Besides, I'm a little old. What happened? Do you eat or drink from your family? I don't know anyone here, where can I be so arrogant and self-righteous? The last thing I want to say is-really! Really! ! ! Don't label people casually, especially judging a person by his age is not only ignorant, but also disgusting. Sleeping with several old women is a crime. But after reading my story, do you still think older women are so hateful? My name is Ada. I'm 33 years old and I'm not married. Because of my good looks, people generally say that I don't get married because my eyes are too high, and some people say that I want to marry a rich man. But my heart really longs for plain love. The first boyfriend told me that the one who studied well was the most ruthless because he was still beautiful. When he was in primary school, there were boys from junior high school who followed him. Those who were brave and brave rode bicycles and whistled behind him. But I just like the dull schoolmaster in my class, so I secretly like him. I'm afraid it will affect his study. I didn't confess to him until the results of the college entrance examination came out. He accepted me and we all came to Beijing. He went to a key university and I studied hairdressing. I offered him education, and he promised to marry me after graduation. I will pay for his tuition, living expenses and condoms. When he graduated, I thought I finally didn't have to suffer so much. Finally, there was someone who could share my troubles with me, but he said, "I'm sorry, I'll make it up to you later." I don't know what he can do to make up for my four years of youth. The second boyfriend told me that "abortion is nothing". After breaking up with my first boyfriend, I drink every day and don't want to wake up to face the world. I don't know how to tell my family that I let them sleep for four years and paid tuition and living expenses. At this moment, my second boyfriend appeared. He is also a barber, and he is very considerate to me. He taught me a lot about knocking at the door, including how to communicate with guests. Finally, he put me to sleep when I was drunk. After sleeping with me, he gave me a 180 turn and ignored me. When I found out that I was pregnant, he told me that "abortion is nothing" and "who knows if it is mine, don't blame me". After four years of dating, I realized that he had a wife and children. After recognizing the reality that men are unreliable, I decided to find a rich man, because, at least, I would rather work in a high-end barber shop with a monthly salary of less than half. All the guests I contacted were driving luxury cars, and the bosses on the phone were all hundreds of millions of businesses. Soon a boss took a fancy to me. We ate, watched movies and traveled like lovers, but after four years of dating, he just refused to propose to me until his wife came to me and scolded me for being a mistress. I think it's ridiculous now, but do you really blame me for being a leftover woman?