Three suggestions for bringing men back to you.

Three suggestions for bringing men back to you.

Some female friends will do some childish behaviors after breaking up, such as scolding their predecessors in the circle of friends, frequently extorting their predecessors to add them back, harassing their relatives and friends, and so on. I these practices often only push the predecessor further and further.

If you want a man to get back together with you willingly, you will never rely on childish behavior or extreme means. You should learn to guide your ex to approach you unconsciously, instead of attracting his attention in a negative way.

0 1. Learn to guide the chat

Chatting after breaking up plays a vital role in recovery. If both sides can chat happily, it is not a problem to keep in touch.

Continued contact is a prerequisite for success. How to guide your ex to chat and make him interested in continuing to chat with you? The answer is simple, that is, when you send a message, you can't just say that you want to leave some questions for him to express his views.

For example, if you think the champion of a certain program is too watery, ask your predecessor what he thinks. For another example, if you think the food in a new restaurant looks good, ask him if he has tasted it. Q-sentence chatting gives the ex a lot of space to express his thoughts, so that the connection between you will not revolve around embarrassing words such as "What are you doing" and "Good morning", and both sides will fall into a chatting atmosphere.

02. Care about his parents

Caring for your ex's parents will improve his acceptance of you. However, it should be noted that many people fail to grasp the scale of "care", which leads to "care" becoming harassment and self-defeating. So, what degree of concern will make your ex happy to accept it and have a good impression on you again? For example, if your ex-parents have a bad waist, you can ask the old people about their recent situation and find some practical ways to send them to your ex-parents online. Remember not to be smart, buy your ex something expensive and force him to accept it. This will make your ex feel that you are too aggressive and purposeful. Chatting after breaking up plays a vital role in recovery. If the two sides can have a good chat, then keeping in touch is not a problem. Continued contact is a prerequisite for success. How to guide your ex to chat and make him interested in continuing to chat with you? The answer is simple: when you send a message, you can't just talk to yourself. You should leave some questions to give him a chance to express his views.

03. Create meeting opportunities

After the above two points are completed, the resistance of your predecessor to you should have been swept away. What you need to do at this time is to create opportunities to meet. At first, you can invite him to get together with his friends, so you don't have to be alone. After several parties like this, if you ask your ex out alone, just say that a nice restaurant has just opened nearby and your friend is not available today. Ask him if he can come out to have dinner with you. At this time, if you invite your ex, he probably won't refuse. When you have the opportunity to be alone, you can take the opportunity to talk about the happy memories when you are still together, and finally say that you still like him very much. It should be noted that when expressing your mind, you should be as sad as possible, and it is best to make your ex feel bad about you. As long as your ex loves you dearly, he will inevitably begin to be soft-hearted and willing to get back together with you.