Refuting that there is no dutiful son in front of a long hospital bed

Filial piety is the most traditional and excellent ethics of the Chinese nation since ancient times. Confucius said, "The nature of heaven and earth is precious to people, and people's behavior is greater than filial piety." The book Ci Hai explains "dutiful son" as "being a son, but being a dutiful father." Li Yutan, the son of Mr Li, is such a dutiful son.

Li Yutan, who is over 60 years old, was originally an engineer in Jinan Diesel Engine Factory. He is honest, kind and diligent. His father, who used to be in good health, 1997 had a sudden heart attack, and his wife died more than 20 years ago, and no one took care of him. In order to take care of his father, 54-year-old Li Yutan resolutely reported to the factory and asked for retirement. At that time, many colleagues advised him to hire an elderly care worker, but he declined them all. He said, "My father is ill. Can others take care of him? " ? Besides, the nurse can only do what you ask him to do, and can't take care of the elderly 24 hours a day. "Since then, he retired at home and became his father's" special caregiver ".

Father's physical condition is getting worse every day. 200 1, after many discussions with the elderly, my father was sent to Shandong Chest Hospital for treatment. It has been more than three years now. With the increase of age, the lungs, liver, kidneys and other organs of the elderly gradually fail, and they can hardly get out of bed. For three years, 1000 days and nights, Li Yutan always served in front of the hospital bed. Father can't live without this filial only son for a moment. As soon as he opened his eyes, as long as he couldn't see his son, he rang the bedside bell. The dutiful son didn't go home to spend Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival with his wife and children for three years. Old people eat regularly. In addition to being punctual for three meals during the day, dinner must also be eaten at 1l at 2 o'clock every night. Li Yutan can do it well on time and let the elderly eat on time. He heard from the doctor that the old man had a little "valve calcification" and bought "high egg energy" everywhere. A box of 60-high eggs can energy 200 yuan, who always advises the elderly to eat in a different way. Be careful, when you see the old man holding his breath or his lips turning purple, call the nurse at once. Due to timely treatment, he avoided death many times. Speaking of "critical", the nurse said, "The patient has been critical many times. His son has high blood pressure. When my father was critically ill, his blood pressure immediately rose to 189. "

The medical staff here were deeply moved by Li Yutan's filial behavior. A nurse with glasses said to the author, "When I entered this ward, Miss Li lived here. My son has been taking care of him for several years. He is more careful than us. " Some patients here have several children, but no one cares about the elderly. I have never seen such a filial child as him. "Another nurse said," Everyone has an old man at home, and everyone will grow old. It's a blessing to have such a filial son when you are old! "

There is a saying: "There is no dutiful son before a long bed." However, this beautifully dressed son, thousands of days before his father's bed, gave a strong rebuttal with his actual behavior.