Is the WeChat classmate group returned or stayed?

Students can't quit, especially college students and high school students. Who is the witness of your growing experience? Although you are temporarily inactive, you will be active. Although there is no party during this time, there will be time to get together again.

It's just a group of training courses, some of which can be called classmates in a few days, or some training that looks tall on the facade has no basic emotional connection, but it was full of enthusiasm at that time, which was quite confusing and encouraging at that time. After a long time, that little contact was broken. It's impossible to get back together afterwards. Quit when it's time to quit.

Don't think that everything is a personal relationship. Don't think that adding a WeChat friend is a real good friend. Don't think that a meal is a friend, or praise it, and you will be recognized as a friend soon.

Even true friends have different shades at different stages and at different times. We don't have to insist, don't think that everything is eternal.

Those who are not your friends, as long as things are done right, services are done right, and what they provide is exactly what the other party needs, will also strengthen their contacts and deepen their feelings in constant interaction, and may also become friends in business life.

There is no limit, no climbing, and things are developing dynamically. At present, when you are struggling with all kinds of students, I suggest that the students in that small class, especially those in college, high school and junior high school, should keep it. It is an indelible testimony of youth.

I am a 54-year-old man and have never had any classmates. At the end of last year, by chance, at a banquet, I met an old classmate who worked in the Economic and Information Committee. My old classmates warmly invited me to join a group of middle school students on the spot.

When I first entered, I was in high spirits. Many old classmates I haven't contacted for years are in it, and many of them can't remember their names. After a few words, I immediately remembered. They are all in their fifties, and suddenly they feel like teenagers again. In particular, there are several people who are classmates in primary school, junior high school and high school. When chatting in the group, I feel particularly cordial. Childhood dreams, talented girls, childhood playmates, and buddies who grew up together in suspenders are all found in them.

Later, I found that many people had been diving in it for a long time and didn't make much noise. It is always those people who speak, and the content of the speech is really nothing new except what is reported by some mass media. Later, someone invited a party in the group, and Wuhan students really got together once every three days. At parties, they usually follow the old tune of eating first, drinking, singing and KTV. It seems that these people always follow this procedure. Over time, I was too lazy to watch those videos and photos.

After graduating from high school, we students are really far apart. There are four or five in America, five or six in Canada, Japan and Australia, and then they get along well. They are all professors and experts from famous universities such as Tsinghua, Peking University, Wuhan University and Huake University, and several of them are national and provincial academic leaders. I once met and chatted with a classmate, who is the owner of a postal express company in our small city. The classmates said that those people got along well and showed off all day. In fact, we don't need to join in the fun. We went, and everyone said it was meaningless to go together.

Yes, people are presented in different levels. People at different levels have different interests and topics. Others have achieved their careers. Everyone else is talking about those tall topics. How do we feel when we get involved?

So, after four or five months, I started diving, and I have been silent ever since. As for the question asked by the subject, is the student group returned or left? I don't think it's necessary to retire, but I still have beautiful memories, youthful memories and eternal and beautiful youth!

A few years ago, I joined a junior high school group. It's better to miss each other than to meet. After a long time, I chose to quit the group for the first time because I felt that staying in the group was boring. After quitting the group, I was constantly satirized by a classmate named Zhou in the group. I talked in private. He said that if you have any comments, you can talk about me privately or ask me to broadcast live, but please don't satirize me publicly in the group. He said that you never chat privately on WeChat, including with others. Oh, this is the biggest lie I have ever heard in my life.

Soon after, the group owner pulled me back to the group and I dived for a while. During the period, that classmate occasionally sneered at me. I want to scold him directly in the group, but for fear of bad influence, I silently chose to quit. After a year, another classmate dragged me into the group. I wanted to quit, but two other students in the group spoke to welcome me back, so I had to respond and stay, but after that, I mainly dived.

In this way, after a few months or so, one day, classmate Zhou said another ugly thing. Although he didn't name names, people of insight could see that it was aimed at me. This time, I finally couldn't help but fight back and scold him in the group. A close classmate fought with him to support me. As a result, my classmates and I who have a good relationship attacked each other in the group for several days in a row. During the war of abuse, he also sent screenshots to show off his records of chatting with customers when doing business, saying that he was usually busy and could not respond to our counterattack immediately. He also said that we couldn't even afford better and more expensive wine, and that it was gloomy to help our classmates. Many personal attacks were beyond my imagination. Strangely enough, most people kept silent during the mutual attacks these days. Some of them came out to watch the fun, and only one or two came to make peace. Finally, it was about a week before the monitor came out to stop shouting.

A few days later, I chose to quit the group again. This time, I didn't quit quietly as before, but expressed some thoughts. The content says that the establishment of a classmate group was originally a platform for communication, but now it has become a platform for creating contradictions. Joining and quitting a group is an individual's free choice. Why should we publicly attack this behavior? I miss the time when there were no smart phones. The relationship between people is very simple. They often care about each other. Why does the more developed communication make people farther and farther apart?

Retreat, resolutely retreat.

I once added a middle school classmate group (including junior high school students and senior high school students) and a college class group. It's all returned.

Middle school students, because of their age, have very different life trends and have nothing in common with each other.

I want to talk about class groups in universities. I was disgusted and quit soon.

Originally, I was studying in a rotten TV University (full-time class), and my classmates were basically scum eliminated by the college entrance examination scores, and most of them were rural students from all districts and counties in the city (me too). Therefore, all kinds of rustic, short-sighted and timid things are inevitable. After all, it took twenty or thirty years to cross the city.

The academic system lasts for two years, and then they all go back to their hometown and basically work in the place where they are registered.

I have little contact with my college classmates except to turn the best boy into a husband and have a class reunion in bed every day.

A few years ago, the monitor of that year called everyone to get together, so everyone paid 1200 yuan. Our couple, it's 2400 yuan. The membership fee includes not only two dinners, one breakfast and one lunch, but also the hotel fees of students from other parts of the city. Although I don't have to live, I still paid 2400 yuan.

It's not the cost that makes me sick. What makes me sick is the bloated and greasy middle-aged people.

At that time, those seemingly simple rustic men and women seemed to be particularly open-minded, all kinds of hard drinks, all kinds of forced drinks and all kinds of cuddles. It seems that the darkest thoughts that didn't succeed in those years will be put into action now. There are ugly boys, holding the class flowers of that year with the strength of wine! There are girls, too, just sitting on boys' legs!

The problem is, there are people with children at the scene, girl! A teenage girl!

I simply don't understand. These people are just ordinary men and women who are neither rich nor expensive. How can they be so confident and arrogant that they think they can win over all the women in the world? ! Where did you get the courage to think that it was a man's leg and you could sit on it? !

After lunch, my husband and I took a turn and left. Then after a few days, we quit the group because we were too lazy to read their disgusting words in the group (once the topic always revolves around the next three roads, it is really unbearable). Besides, we in Dont Ask For Help are very rich, and we can't help others to become rich. So, goodbye.

As for homecoming and classmates, my understanding is that they were full of childlike innocence in those days, and no one will meet again after many years, and they may not meet again. Therefore, it is better to miss each other than to meet!

At present, I have three classmates on WeChat, one is a primary school classmate group, the other is a junior high school classmate group, and the other is a current college classmate group. It stands to reason that the meaning of classmates is used to connect feelings. After graduation, everyone can't meet every day like at school, so a WeChat group can bring students from all over the world together and have emotional exchanges at any time.

But the reality is that there are no bubbling classmates in the three groups I added to WeChat, and everyone is diving tacitly. Even during the Spring Festival, no one came out to speak, and no one organized a party. The students completely became a diving group, which was horribly quiet. Not to mention that everyone usually contacts feelings in the group and recalls the campus life of that year.

The class reunion is just a symbol and a ceremony. It reminds people in the group that everyone used to be classmates, and it also makes people feel like classmates. It doesn't matter whether we chat or not, just join in. And everyone who joins the group will have this mentality. Let me add that it may be useful one day.

Even if someone chats in the group, it's just those people chatting there. If they don't talk, I forget that I have such a classmate group. The students in the group are more places to advertise, canvass, bargain and share games. Whatever it is, share it with the group first. The sudden news notification in a group that has not spoken for a long time is mostly the above behavior.

As for the return of WeChat classmates, my opinion is that if you are upset by advertising in the group all day, you should return immediately. If no one in the group talks, you can keep it. It won't affect you anyway. You can dive. Maybe one day, one of your classmates has a red envelope in the group, and you can grab one.

I forgot whether it was the Spring Festival last year or this year. I joined a group of junior high school students. I was quite happy when I first joined. Although I don't socialize at school or participate in group chats, as long as I set the mute, it won't interfere with my life.

I forgot which classmate met something related to the law, so the owner called me. I thought I was a classmate, so I answered enthusiastically in all directions, and then ...

Anyone whose relatives have a traffic accident will be in the group @ me,

Whose relatives are divorced and want to consult legal questions, just in the group @ me,

Whose relative had a fight and wanted to join the group @ me,

……

Tell the truth, even if I am enthusiastic again, I will quit the group decisively.

Now my high school classmates and college classmates all keep them, because everyone is very busy and seldom talk in groups. Occasionally, I will add things privately, and I won't have all kinds of @ in the group. I think I can help each other.

Sometimes, I feel like a special soldier, but to be honest, I'm not the housekeeper of any classmate, and I really can't stand it.

The code word is not easy, please pay attention, thank you!

The affirmative answer is: keep it and don't return it! I didn't think highly of my classmates before. I feel that I haven't seen you for years, and we are strangers to each other. Sometimes speaking in a group is just perfunctory, and then you are simply silent! Only recently did I know how precious the love of my classmates is!

Because everyone is busy at ordinary times, they say a few words in the group when they are free, and some of them have never spoken in the group, so no one pays attention to what happened. One thing I know is that a classmate was paralyzed by a car accident, but I only told a few classmates privately, because everyone was busy and didn't say anything, so I put it down again during the New Year. Until yesterday afternoon, the group owner sent a message to see the classmate who had an accident in the evening. Really, although I don't talk at ordinary times, I still remember this feeling when something happens! I still know how precious this feeling is!

Just this morning, we learned that the daughter of a deceased classmate's cerebellum was atrophied and needed money urgently, so we did not hesitate to share the donation. Really, I feel deeply about these two things. Although we have been apart for many years, this feeling will always be remembered by everyone!

Is the WeChat classmate group returned or stayed? This can be decided according to everyone's hobbies and likes. If it affects your work, rest, etc. Your return is reasonable.

I graduated from high school on 1975. At that time, there were no modern communication tools, and my close classmates only wrote letters occasionally after graduation. With the passage of time, after getting married and getting married, due to the family pressure of life, everyone was busy with their work and the only communication was interrupted. Until last year, with the efforts of several retired students, I organized a classmate party and built a classmate group.

Just a few days after joining the group, the communication between students is very rapid, as romantic and naive as when they were classmates. As time goes on, the number of people chatting decreases gradually. Some people take a dip once in a while, some people don't take a dip for several months, and only a few people are online every day.

No matter where there are active and silent students, some active students in the class will take pains to send a lot of pictures, advertisements, videos and so on. Every day. At night, it will be10-11,and at 4 am 15, it will seriously affect others' rest. Many people complained, and some even quit the group. Later, several of us who spoke the same language formed a small group outside our classmates, so that we could chat at any time. After a long time, we have an addictive feeling. Every day from 8: 30 to 9: 00 after dinner, several people chat in a normal video group. The topics are news, hot spots, health, cooking, bringing grandchildren and so on. Just like those years. It's the sunset. Earn day by day. With the network platform, old classmates from all corners of the country can get together and chat every day. Why not? I won't quit my classmates!

I will never quit the WeChat classmate group. I have been playing WeChat for several years, and my classmates have been established for several years. Although the topic and interest at this time are not as high as at the beginning, or everyone is very busy, it can't stop the feelings between classmates!

Just like yesterday's reunion dinner, I had morning tea 10, played mahjong at noon, ate at another venue, sang K, ate pig miscellaneous porridge at 2 am, laughed and called names, and played crazy all day! Life is not for decades, as the old saying goes; "Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he likes, and never point his golden cup at the moon empty! "Since playing and chatting is also a kind of fate, we will still cherish it! Wechat group has never had a classmate quit.

Wechat students seem relaxed, but they can really get in. In fact, many people have fate in front of them, not now. Think about the vast sea of people, why at that time? That position? Then a group of people gathered from all directions.

No matter how learned a person is, he can't answer this question. This is the importance of classmates and the mysterious uniqueness.

Therefore, we have no reason, just like the mysterious power culture, mission and destiny when we became classmates.

At that time, I did not know your future. You didn't know my mind at that time, but we all respected each other's teachers and classmates. It is precisely because there is no secular vision and no distortion of interests that we used to be pure friendship. More likely, when I was criticized, when I was depressed, you remembered to comfort me. Although it has been a long time, that little comfort is like a hard-to-buy stone.

Later, we all left the classmate and teacher who had been classmates for several years. But the air of the horse, the soot that once lit the stove and blew the flame to blacken the face. I haven't forgotten my fear of going home at night. That was when you secretly sent me home. You are naughty, too. Why don't you keep a secret? This is the taste of that era.

In a few decades, life and work may have erased the shadow of our youth. But the past of my classmates is a story that will always be remembered. Will retire or have retired. However, the experience of studying together in these years, as well as the subsequent differences, and the road to study and work, when all social roles recede. We didn't come back together

Just like it is circulating in the society at present. No matter the main hall, deputy hall, main hall, deputy hall ... retired people are the same, as long as they are healthy and happy. Quality of life is the happiest person.

Yes, sometimes students will always be classmates in the morning and evening, and they will take the trouble to ask questions again and again. Think about it. Formalism is more than practicality. But think again. Without the insistence of some students, this group is like a home. In fact, many times, we don't all regard the group as our home invisibly! Although we may not like some classmates, don't they have the same psychology? So look at the big picture.

At least we can know that in this world, our former classmates or mixed people are all put on airs, or life is not as hard as ours, which also makes us feel confident. Some proud people are not to be taunted and can't afford to hide? People just live in a circle, and everything belongs to you.

I hope that when I get old, I will let go of my bad mood, let go of my mood and be a kind-hearted person. Because what belongs to us in life is limited after all. It's best not to quit the group. That's our spiritual home.