When people reach middle age, wine is like poetry, and they wake up in big dreams. How to understand this sentence?

When people reach middle age, they are more likely to encounter the crisis of being down and out. In order to survive, we have to run around. In the process of running around, you will often encounter many unexpected difficulties, especially when your career fails, you will often encounter the economic crisis of "one penny for one thing"

In such a crisis, we often seem very humble and lonely. Sometimes in order to survive, we have to ask for help everywhere, and we really feel "humble as dogs". When people are alive, they should always obey the rules. But in this somewhat realistic society, a person, especially a down-and-out middle-aged person, is more likely to encounter the helplessness of "human feelings are as thin as paper".

After decades of life, everyone has chosen a different direction in life, going their own way and working hard for different goals. However, due to different opportunities, the operation of "innate" or "acquired" is biased or insufficient.

Some people are rich; Some people get along well in the workplace, and the first thing is to expect; More people are rushing for three meals a day. In the final analysis, it is still the disparity of wealth. As the saying goes, "people are spiritual wealth and people are brave", which leads to the differences in quality of life and mental state between people.

Especially those middle-aged people whose income is not enough to support the normal expenses of their families, in order to take care of their feelings, they gradually feel inferior and lose face, and are no longer willing to get involved. When we are down and out in middle age or even embarrassed, when we are in adversity, various pressures such as debt collection, food, clothing, housing and transportation, and personnel disputes will follow.

At this time, we often feel "humble as a dog", and some trivial things at home may make couples quarrel. This is the so-called "but not as people who have been poor together know." However, for the sake of livelihood and the normal operation of the family, we have embarked on the road of no return.

When people reach middle age, they have more contact and experience. I sincerely hope that even if they meet, they will say hello and like this simple relationship. After all, after all these years, everyone has changed their original appearance. At the beginning, their innocence was hard to find, and they were no longer fellow travelers.

Maybe some people don't even know themselves, why should they open their classmates' memories? Again, it's better to miss each other than to meet each other, and it's better to keep the best side in memory.