What if the child is disobedient?

Disobedient children can start from the following three points:

1, observe carefully and prescribe the right medicine.

Children are rebellious. On the one hand, children know more and more things, and their inner thoughts begin to increase. When the orders given by parents are different from the inner thoughts of the child, he will not listen to his parents. On the other hand, parents don't realize the child's bad mood, and yell at him directly after finding some problems, which leads to the child's rebellious psychology and will resist his parents. Therefore, if you want to cure your child's disobedience, you must first find the root cause and prescribe the right medicine.

2. Make good use of rewards rather than punishments.

When children are disobedient and don't do their homework, parents can choose to use certain reward mechanisms to encourage their children to complete their homework. For example, they can allow children to watch cartoons for half an hour after finishing their homework, or play games for half an hour to make them more motivated to finish their homework.

If parents only yell at their children or threaten them with punishment, children will gradually lose interest in learning. Therefore, for children, it is more effective for parents to make good use of rewards than to use punishment blindly.

3. Control your emotions and listen to your child's thoughts.

When a child is disobedient, parents need to understand the reasons for his disobedience and respect his ideas. Often when things happen, parents' first reaction is to blame and forget their children's inner thoughts.

As adults, parents have much better emotional management ability than children. Even so, there will still be emotional out of control, not to mention an immature child. Therefore, parents should learn to respect and recognize their children's emotions and consider their feelings when rejecting their demands.