What if you can't chat and talk?

I can't chat. We can solve this kind of problem by improving my chatting skills. The specific methods are as follows:

1. Learn more about hot events. Pay more attention to some hot events in your daily life, so that you can broaden your horizons and have more topics to talk about when chatting with others.

2. Read more books. Some people can't chat because they don't have a good way of speaking. People like this had better read more books. Reading will not only improve their chatting skills, but also enrich our knowledge, so that they will have strong language skills when talking to others.

3. Grasp each other's interests. When chatting with others, you can tap the other person's hobbies sideways, and then chat according to the other person's hobbies, which will greatly increase the other person's interest in chatting, and even have the feeling of meeting each other.

Notes for chatting:

1. Pay attention to facial expressions. You can be radiant, but you must never get carried away. When you meet a good person, you hit it off and talk happily with each other. At this time, you must pay attention to your facial expression when you talk, and don't get carried away because of speculation.

2. Don't talk too seriously, and don't have nothing to talk about. The content of the conversation should not be too formal and serious. Don't just ask about the other person's family and work. If you are not good at words, don't have nothing to talk about. The latest new movies, where there are good new restaurants and so on can all be used as the content of the conversation.

3. Pay attention to the proportion of conversation, try to keep a balance, and don't let the other person think that you are chattering. The time of conversation must be balanced as much as possible. Don't be the one who talks endlessly, and don't be the one who only says "grace". A pleasant conversation should be about you coming and going, going back and forth.