What do people with depression want to hear and don't want to hear most? Can you talk about it?

If you have depressed relatives and friends around you, as a companion, you must pay attention to the following words. Here are one sentence you can't say and three sentences you must say often. The following is my opinion.

The first sentence, you think too much, just relax, you are blx. Remember, it's just the most annoying words, no one. You can say, what do you think will be happy? Let's try it together. You're not even afraid of death. Are you still afraid of living? What you don't know is that for people with depression, living is much more painful than dying. You can say, can you tell me before you decide to die? I also want you to see the world. What you don't know is that depression is not a serious illness, but it can kill people. You can say, let's find a way to cure it together.

The second sentence, are you very upset? Let me hug you. When he is crying, don't keep asking what's wrong, or interrupt him when he is talking. You can say nothing, just give him a hug, give him a good hug, this time is his most wronged time, he is venting his negative emotions, please don't interrupt him and vent his emotions, even if you love him dearly, don't interrupt his last venting emotions. For disabled relatives and friends, what you need to know is that self-mutilation is not cowardice or fun. Therefore, please don't have any mood swings for patients with depression who have self-harm behavior. No one wants to hurt themselves painfully. You can say it must be hard for you. Does the wound hurt very much? Let me handle it for you.

The third sentence, have you thought about the person who loves you? So how much they will love you. You know, the average patient thinks too much about others, which makes him feel so uncomfortable, so don't let him learn to empathize at this time. You can say that. Please give us some time to get to know you and learn to understand you, ok? Parents must never say that they want to live well for me. Can you think about it for us? What you need to understand is that most patients come from a family. You can say that you must have suffered a lot these years. I know, we all know, and I'm sorry I wasn't there for you when you were in the most difficult time.

The fourth sentence, it doesn't matter, I will accompany you. When depressed patients are in mood swings, you may ask, why are you unhappy again? What's the matter with you? You know, the average depressive patient has less dopamine secretion, so the sad mood is amplified. You could say that. Do you feel bad now? It's okay. I will stay with you. People with depression don't want to be miserable with anyone, but when they are sick, they feel that no one can understand him.