Look at people like yourself, ask others first!

Life, not surprised and not disturbed; Feelings are neither strong nor weak;

Interpersonal, not far or near; Fate, no more, no less;

Time is not long or short; Time, no hurry.

Living, a calm and calm. A beautiful and elegant lettering year.

Whether it is stormy or sunny;

No matter what fate, or the road is bumpy.

Smiles are always hidden in the heart and floating on the expression.

Living is a taste, whether it is bitter or sweet, it is adjustment.

You can't judge a person by how much you read.

A person who can't read but knows how to be a man is a person with real connotation;

A person, even if he has read a lot of poetry books, can't use them flexibly.

Every word and deed is vulgar, which is equivalent to wasting youth.

A person who recites scriptures and worships Buddha all day without knowing compassion is tantamount to false practice;

Although one has never read Buddhist scriptures,

But being able to do well and respect others from the people around you is actually practicing.

The heart is a river, if it is shallow, it can't hold too much;

The heart is a river. If it is deep, it can accommodate boulders and reefs.

A person's life, the mood depends on the state of mind, and a good mood needs the nourishment of a good state of mind.

Good water nourishes face, good attitude nourishes mood.

If narrow-minded, a small grain of sand can also stir up a thousand waves;

If you have a broad mind, if you throw yourself into a boulder, it will only cause small ripples.

You need to tolerate things and be patient when you encounter problems.

Heart, there are grievances to support;

Quantity, sadness can be broadened.

Only by tolerating the mistakes of others can we tolerate the world.

Only by enduring the shortcomings of others can the world adapt.

Magic is born from the heart, and reading begins from the heart.

When the road is not wide enough, it is because there is no road in my heart, so there will be no road in my eyes.

The heart is wide and the road is wide, and the heart is narrow everywhere.

Don't let yourself go, it's your paranoia.

While pushing others to the wall, they also push themselves to the wall.

Everything is important when you have it in your heart; If you have nothing in your heart, everything is light.

Don't be wary of people everywhere, always be vigilant,

You can't walk into other people's hearts, and others can't walk into yours.

There is love in the heart, but no hate in the eyes. Open your heart to others and treat things with compassion.

Treat people with: Yan Shi, Yan Shi, Xin Shi, Wu Shi, Shen Shi.

Everything is peaceful because there is a charitable heart.

Compassion is not in the mouth, but in the heart, more in action.

If your heart is full of happiness, your life will be sunny.

If you are full of gratitude, your life will be peaceful;

If you are full of friendliness, your life will be full;

If your heart is full of love, life will become warm;

My heart is full of hope, and my life will be satisfied;

If you are full of doubt, life will be full of anxiety; My heart is full of resentment and my life is full of turmoil;

If your heart is full of disdain, life will be lonely; If you are full of selfishness, life will be full of traps.

Everyone has a blessing bag, what you put in, you will get.

Everyone has a mirror, and no matter what expression you make at it, it will return your expression.

Look at people like yourself, ask others first.

Others are a mirror of their own heart, and the world is a comparison of themselves.

If the heart is not in doubt, the world is simple;

If the heart is in doubt, life is a mess.

Life is actually very easy, a cup of tea, a story, a day's leisure;

In fact, life is very simple. It's nice to meet friends once in a while, smile and feel a little.

Immersed in the virtual, life is chaotic; Cherish the present and have no regrets in life.

Cherish the fate, need to cherish, now is true;

Love, need love, is true on both sides.

The heart is not chaotic, and the world is not chaotic; If you understand the importance, life will be peaceful.

Let's talk about it first

Governing the country first, managing the family first, educating people first and correcting others first. If a country, a nation, a family and a family want to stand on their own feet in the world and society, the most fundamental thing is to cultivate and educate many talented people with high moral character and outstanding ability. Good family rules can make up for the deficiency of modern education that only pays attention to knowledge and ignores morality, and they are carefully revised with good intentions.

Let's talk about it first

1. Self-discipline is actually sometimes a sign of caution and independence. Everything starts from yourself, be strict with yourself, always exercise self-discipline and self-management, critically examine yourself with your own eyes, and be a man first, then be a man.

Second, I searched my circle of friends and found no pictures of bullfighting. This shouldn't have happened. Miao's bronze trombone welcome door missed the strange rain and didn't want to search for familiar cars along the way. How did so many cars get in? Our car doesn't. We walked more than ten kilometers a day, but we still couldn't catch up, which is understandable. I am willing to measure the land in my hometown with the sole of my foot when I am free, to tell the truth. The distance between venues varies from time to time, so programming should take into account the walking time and the nature of the work when putting the car. Talking about traffic, peach blossom is ten miles, traffic jam is ten miles, and parking is difficult, which is the focus of previous Peach Blossom Festivals.

Third, it is also a terrible thing for a person to always feel good about himself! Because no one around you likes you, but you still brag and play a one-man show. Such people will make people hate you even more (). You still have to learn to reflect on yourself! Consider the feelings of others when you do things. Being too arbitrary will only make others sick. If you are not clean, don't tell others what to do. Don't you understand the truth?

Fourth, we must be excellent at striking the iron. Doing things for others is practicing. Have you ever seen anyone get rich by stealing? Have you ever seen anyone make a fortune by gambling? Have you ever seen someone cheat Guangzong Yaozu? Have you ever seen anyone win the championship by tripping over others? If you don't work hard on yourself, you will always make suggestions on others. In the end, we can only harm others and ourselves and be spurned by others. Honesty, dishonesty, bad words. Correct yourself first, and then it is difficult to deceive others.

Fifth, be honest with yourself first and be a man in advance. Managers must set an example if they want to manage their subordinates well. The power of demonstration is amazing. Not only should we be brave enough to take responsibility for our subordinates like our ancestor Li Li, but we should also put everything in the first place, be strict with ourselves, and don't do to others what you don't want. Once the prestige is established among employees by setting an example, they will unite from top to bottom and greatly improve the overall combat effectiveness of the team. Those who win people's hearts win the world, and being a leader admired by subordinates will make management get twice the result with half the effort.

6. Correct yourself first, don't do to others what you don't want. On the eve of Cui Duoduo's fourth grade.

7. Let me make a suggestion: Educate people first, and correct others first. Reflect on yourself more, don't go back and repent and pretend to be hurt, it's too late. If the problem is not solved, in another way, the donkey will be poor sooner or later. Stop before it's too late!

To put it bluntly, you are a hypocrite who is only interested in profit. At least, we are still a clean stream.

Nine, to overcome difficulties, it is necessary to be hard while the iron is hot; Correct yourself first! Things are unpredictable, and people stand tall because of ups and downs. You can deny my present, but I believe tomorrow will be beautiful! You can ignore everything about me. I still believe that tomorrow's sun will not only shine on you and me!

Ten, correct yourself first, every day will only blindly blame others, how well you do.

Eleven, mobile, China Unicom, telecommunications, and so on, these network companies set up credit lines for their customers, and stood on the moral high ground and became the judges of public credit, but have you ever thought about it? How about your own credit? What is your overlord clause and how do you explain it? Can a crow fall on a black pig and only see the black of others but not his own? Only strong arson is allowed, and the vulnerable groups are not allowed to light up.

12. Correct yourself in front of others. Don't be unable to do it yourself. You are shameless. How did you do that?

Thirteen, let's sigh a little, be honest with yourself first, ask others to do it first, and don't always stand on the moral high ground and talk about others. I hope our own people can accompany them in harmony and walk slowly together.

Fourteen, try to blame others! Correct yourself first! Crows always stand on pigs!

15.\ It doesn't matter who you don't like, who you don't like, who you don't like, who you don't like and who you don't like, but please don't blame others casually. Others don't exist the way you like, because they are not for you. Don't think you are great, arrogant and overbearing. Remember that everyone wants to have this experience. Be honest, make friends, respect each other, tolerate each other, be sincere and understand for a long time!

16. Don't come out with an unknown address if you don't know your business. Please take care of your own land and be honest with yourself first.

Seventeen, some people talk like a fart all day, can't control their mouths, be honest with themselves first, pay more attention to themselves and pay less attention to other people's affairs and problems.

Eighteen, "correct yourself first" requires others to do, you must do it yourself first. Example is better than words. Tolstoy believes that if everyone wants to do it well, they must first do it themselves. You think life is boring. If you want to change your life, you must first change your attitude towards life, show people with a smile and be full of confidence.

Nineteen, correct yourself first. If you can't lead by example, but are vegetarian, it will be difficult to convince the public.

Before observing others and changing others, observe yourself and change yourself. Dazhen Kampo's "Righteousness before Self"

Twenty-one, you are right, you are right, you want to miss your heart. Right is pure; An upright person is right in front of himself. Thinking about his own mistakes will lead to greatness.

22. What's the difference between passers-by who abuse the Lord wantonly and real brain powder who say bad words to protect idols? Is it noble not to be idolized? What face do these people have to say that rice circles are deformed and losers like them? Correct yourself first and hope to be known by everyone.

Twenty-three, it is imperative to correct others first. Don't smear or whitewash history. Just put things right after facing them squarely. The so-called attempts, including curses, are not controversial. Don't say anything, because it is impossible. Showing off the princes who climbed up the pole will only backfire.

24. correct yourself first If you can't do it yourself, don't ask others to do it.

Life is full of ups and downs, and everything will not be satisfactory.

Life is full of ups and downs, and everything will not be satisfactory.

1, suddenly looking back, looking back at the road I have traveled, sad, painful, happy, happy, loved, hated, hurt, hurt, thought. Now everything has become a beautiful memory that I can't erase in my life and will always be hidden in my heart. Flowers bloom and fall, and people are different. I found that the scenery on both sides of the strait has always been beautiful, but I have been taking my own road and didn't pay attention.

No one can live in vain, and no one can live without regrets. Don't care about your own ordinary, because ordinary makes life more real; Don't care about the future, because as long as you are willing to work hard, the future will definitely not let us down; Don't care what others think of you, because as long as you are honest, you will certainly win the respect of others; Don't care about gains and losses, because life is always hovering between gains and losses.

Everyone has several faces. If you are happy, you will be depressed. If you are sentimental, you will feel like a psycho. Passion leads to fear. If you like to play, you are serious. You will be silent and talkative. People can't see how good you really are, just as they don't know how bad you really are. Some people deny you, some people catch you and give you a definition. Never mind. Understanding is the hardest thing to meet. Few people can understand your story. It is enough not to disappoint these people and themselves.

4, if life is a song, ups and downs, voice ups and downs, each of us is a singer; In the flashy world, life is like tea, strong or weak, bitter or sweet, and we need to taste it with our heart. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed and accept what is unacceptable. Maybe we can't grasp the future, but we can control the present. When life is not going well, change your mind and accept it in a different mood, and you will find that leaves can be so beautiful, why not our life?

5, the opportunity of life, please, may not come; Hiding may be inevitable. Keep a calm mind, face what you want correctly and let go of what you have lost. The ups and downs of life are mostly because they refuse to turn around or always escape. As a disease, prescription is of course important, and early prevention and treatment are better than any prescription. Walking is the foot, but ask where the next footprint is branded. Some things, you can laugh it off. No resentment, no complaints. Let bygones be bygones. No matter how beautiful and sad you are, you will never go back to the past and never move forward. What matters is today and tomorrow.

6. Be the simplest person and take the happiest road: we often feel tired, but think too much; We always say that life is boring, but we don't know how to taste; We are often busy with business, but we are not satisfied; We are always competitive, but our vanity is too strong. If you don't compare with others, your heart will be indifferent, and life is so simple.

7. Not all pain can be shouted out; Not all love can be expressed. We always love too early, give up too fast, make promises easily, and don't want to wait for the result. The ring is no longer a lifelong promise, but a lifelong oath, but it has become a brand to commemorate sadness. A ring is like love: it is worn on your hand and on your heart; If you hurt your hand, you will also hurt your heart; What I dare not touch is the hurt in my heart.

8. Happiness is sometimes a feeling in one's own heart, which is deposited in one's own heart and can't be seen or touched, but that kind of experience and enjoyment is very real and direct. As long as you have a good mood, then you are actually happy. Happiness is everywhere, happiness is everywhere, as long as you feel what you can feel with your heart, you are happy, and cherishing what you have now is your greatest happiness!

9. When people are alive, there will be loneliness; Going forward, there will be bumps; If you are tempted, you will feel hurt. No matter how beautiful the words are, it is in vain to say nothing in your heart; No matter how affectionate you are, it is futile not to cherish it. Some people remember that no matter how far, it is also near; Some people worry that even light water is sweet; Some people miss it, no matter how long the night is, it is also short; Someone cares, no matter how cold it is, it is warm.

10, there are some things we always don't understand. Some people, we are always guessing. There are some ways that we can never understand. There are some reasons that we have never figured out. There are some obstacles that we can never cross. Some injuries we can't always heal. Some days, we always can't sleep. In some places, we can't always go. Some feelings, we always can't say. Some love, we always can't get.

1 1, even if it is done well, there will be people pointing fingers; Even if you are in a mess, you can still hear hymns. You don't have to dwell on external judgment, fall into the eyes of others and distort yourself to please the world. Only you can save you.

12, happiness depends on yourself, no one can sympathize with and share your sadness; Be strong yourself, no one will pity your cowardice; Try to rely on yourself, no one will accompany you; Cherish and rely on yourself, others are not willing to squander their youth; Stick to yourself, no one will advance and retreat with you; Go all the way, no one can always accompany you to the end.

13, life is a feeling, and things go up and down. When you succeed, good things are like a tide, and when you are frustrated, good things are like flowers. Don't take yourself too seriously. Losing, feeling wronged, helpless and wanting to cry are all indispensable parts of life. A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, only to find that he is being looked up to and envied by others later. In fact, everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often seen by others.

14, people are alive, in fact, there are many things that can't be said. Sometimes if you go too far, you will often forget the original road; Sometimes you see too clearly and often you can't see anything; Sometimes if you think too much, you will often lose yourself. Life is like a mirror, you have everything in your heart. If you have nothing in your heart, you will be quiet; If your heart is empty, you will realize.

15, life is stormy, and everything will not be as you wish; Disturbing the world will not please yourself everywhere; There are always some things that make us unhappy. There are always some people who make us dissatisfied; There are always some roads that make us unable to walk; There are always some reasons that we cannot understand; We are always unhappy. Learn to change with your heart, and your heart will follow your path.

Look at life calmly and look at yourself calmly.

Look at life calmly and look at yourself calmly.

Keep quiet and let everything return to the state of mind, not because of love and persistence, but because of fantasy and worry. Keep quiet, let everything melt into compassion, don't stay away because of injury, don't lose because of gain; Only inner peace will accompany your life journey; Only inner equality nourishes your successive bodhi; The happiness of chasing will quietly blossom and bear fruit; Abandoning impetuousness can loosen the heavy heart. Keep quiet and don't lose yourself in vain.

Life needs to wait, waiting for a gust of wind, waiting for a flower to bloom, waiting for the arrival of a dream, waiting for the strong voice of life. The soul needs to persist in waiting, persist in the windless sun and moon, persist in the silence of falling flowers, persist in the emotional blank, and persist in ordinary life. With waiting and persistence, we will be invincible, we will be able to bathe in the breeze, laugh at the flowers and have no regrets in life.

Some things are destined to be stories, some people are destined to be old friends, and some roads are destined to go alone. Some people, some things, broke into life, gained and lost, yesterday's sadness, today's happiness, joys and sorrows should be remembered. When all this becomes a memory, what will remain in our memory? Many things have passed, many people have left and experienced more, and their hearts will be strong and their roads will be solid.

Life, how much care, how much pain; There is as much joy as there is tolerance. Pain and happiness are both reflections of the soul, just as what is in the mirror depends on what is in front of you. If you can't let it go, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens you have, the less happy your life will be. A caring heart is like a pocket, and a tolerant heart is like a funnel. Complex love care, simple heart is easy to be happy. Tolerance is wisdom and virtue, and it is the liberation and sublimation of soul.

Why should a person study? Because as long as you don't study for three days, your language will be boring, and people will hate it if you keep talking so much. You always say the same thing, and the expression on your face hasn't changed. This is disgusting. Some people's faces are disgusting, and it is boring to listen to him. One of the important reasons is that they don't study.

The heart is somewhat soft, and there is a peaceful mountain and river in my heart. If someone slanders me, there is nothing I can do. If I live in silence once, I can open the lock of trouble with good character and good temper. There is nothing long or short in the heart, and troubles are passers-by from now on.

Don't let life run too fast. Life is not a race, but a journey, and every step has a scenery worth stopping to enjoy. Huang Tingjian, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said: Life has no leisure. How many times have you taken time off from your busy schedule? This tells people that life is busy and we should learn to steal time from it. Being busy and having a holiday is in line with Zhang Chi's way and natural laws. Man himself is a part of nature.

Some people turn a blind eye to happiness; Some people are used to happiness; Some people dream of happiness; Some people long for happiness, and happiness is our tireless pursuit. However, as long as you don't raise your expectations of happiness too high, as long as you don't build your own happiness on the suffering of others. Seek it with a normal heart, and you will find that happiness is actually between pitching; Happiness is actually around you and me.

Sometimes I don't understand, I just don't want to understand; Sometimes I don't know, but I just don't want to say it; Sometimes it's not that I don't understand, but that there's nothing I can do, so I keep silent. Some words are suitable for hiding in the heart; Some pain, suitable for silent forgetting; Some memories are only suitable for occasional aftertaste. A lot of things, experienced, just know; Many changes, you don't need to say it, just understand it yourself.

People are fascinated because they are inside the bureau, and people are enlightened because they are outside the bureau. Life is full of variables, and determination directly affects the direction of life. Look at life calmly and look at yourself calmly.