A good marriage comes from sleep.

More and more people admit that they often sleep in separate beds. There are always various reasons, but behind all the seemingly reasonable reasons, there is always a truth that I don't want to admit, that is, I don't love so much. The farther your heart is, the farther you sleep.

On the contrary, those couples who are more loving often choose to hug each other and sleep. The person who really loves you will never sleep in separate beds with you, never back to back with you, and will not touch you or ignore you as if you don't exist.

0 1. After all, love needs no reason.

But when you stop loving, you can always find ten thousand reasons. There is a saying that sleeping in separate beds seems to be separate beds, but in fact it is divided into feelings. Whether we sleep in separate beds or separate rooms, we have to admit that this is a sign that the intimacy between husband and wife is declining, the feelings are getting cold and the love is not enough.

Two people who really love each other, after a busy day, will definitely lie on the same soft bed and enjoy a relaxed and happy day together. In addition to sharing a bed, sleeping position is actually a good proof of intimate relationship between husband and wife.

A study by the University of Hertfordshire in England shows that 94% couples who sleep close to each other are happy with their marriage, while 68% couples who sleep far away are satisfied with their marriage. In other words, the sleeping position between husband and wife often reveals the emotional situation of two people.

Disharmonious couples, even if they lie on the same bed and sleep back to back, will even leave a lot of space between them, and no one wants to touch anyone. The farther your heart is, the farther you sleep. On the contrary, those couples who are more loving often choose to hug each other and sleep. Whether you sleep face to face, hug, or put your hands or feet on each other, it shows that you still have each other in your heart and are willing to touch each other's bodies.

The person who really loves you will never sleep in separate beds with you, never back to back with you, and will not touch you or ignore you as if you don't exist.

02, a good couple, have something to say before going to bed.

A survey shows that before going to bed, couples can recall the past together, or look forward to the future, or talk about love stories, which are helpful to enhance feelings and promote the stability of marriage. Come to think of it, it's true. Because marriage needs interaction. It's not a one-man show, it's a conversation between two people. A good couple must have something to say before going to bed. I have heard a saying: "No matter how tired and busy I am during the day, as long as I can talk to you before going to bed, everything will not be so bitter." "

It is true that living in this bizarre world, no one's life is easy. Everyone is busy and tired, for life and work. When the busy and tired days are relieved, chatting with your lover before going to bed is a kind of relaxation and a comfort to life. A good couple will talk about everything before going to bed, talk about interesting things during the day, talk about their inner thoughts, and talk about each other's thoughts. This is how a long-term marriage slowly comes out.

03. A loving couple slept soundly at night.

Bi Shumin said: More and more people suffer from insomnia. People invented all kinds of pills to help people sleep. Sleep is a natural instinct of human beings, and now we need medicine to help. I feel sad and scared at the thought that people's basic needs are affected by colorful pills.

In fact, insomnia mostly comes from bad mood, and bad mood mostly comes from unhappy marriage. Couples with unhappy feelings and unhappy marriages often quarrel endlessly because of trivial matters, so when they sleep, they also hold a lot of things in their hearts and hold their breath. As a result, the more angry I am, the more I can't sleep. The more I can't sleep, the more angry I am. This vicious circle of insomnia leads to worse mood, more haggard people and fewer and fewer days.

And loving couples know how to tolerate and understand each other during the day. They always think of each other before going to bed and know how to chat and talk. Even if we quarrel occasionally, it's the end of the bed. Forgive everything before going to bed, and be well after waking up. Let the tired heart feel the nourishment of the lover, so even sleep is sweet and dreams are sweet.

A person's sleep quality often reveals his mood, and a person's mood often implies his marriage. No wonder some people say that you must find someone who loves you in this life, otherwise you can't even sleep well.

04. A good marriage comes from sleep.

Nearly one-third of a person's life is spent in sleep. In other words, everyone and their partner spend a large part of their lives sleeping. In this long process, how to sleep and how to sleep has a lot to do with the person who sleeps with you.

A person who loves you will lie in a bed with you when night falls, have a heart-to-heart talk, then hug to each other and sleep sweetly, with the guarantee that he will only sleep with you for the rest of his life. People who don't love you either find an excuse to sleep in separate beds with you, or they are strangers to you, strange bedfellows. Lying next to you, but your heart is elsewhere, makes you physically and mentally exhausted and in a bad mood and can't sleep well for a long time.

The American TV series Sex and the City says: Our performance in bed means our lifestyle. A good life comes from life, and a good marriage comes from sleep.

A study by the University of Hertfordshire in the United Kingdom shows that 94% of couples who snuggle up to each other while sleeping feel that their marriage is happy; Among the couples who slept far away, 68% were satisfied with their marriage. Whether marriage is good or not, how to sleep is really important. Whether he loves you or not, you know better than anyone. And a person who really loves you wants to sleep with you all his life. The rest of your life is so long, you should eat, play and sleep with people who love you.