What should you do when you feel lonely?

In fact, everyone will feel lonely, because people live in groups after all. But what people ultimately need to learn when living in this world is the ability to get along with themselves. Everyone has secrets hidden in their hearts, but not everyone will be understood. Social software can solve loneliness, but it may not solve loneliness. This is probably why people always feel lonely. In fact, I can't provide a specific solution to feeling lonely. I can only summarize some methods of getting along with loneliness that I have tried hard to write here. Maybe it will be helpful when you feel lonely. You need to have a hobby

Apart from love, the only thing that can speed up time is probably a hobby. People with hobbies are curious about the world and tolerant of people and things around them. A big guy I know from the game has lived alone for many years. He wakes up early every morning and makes different breakfasts for himself. He persisted for three years, and the variety of breakfasts was even included in magazines. Because I have a good relationship with her, I asked her a somewhat rude question: Why does it take so much trouble to eat alone? She said that everyone should be kind to themselves. The focus is not on eating, but on having something to do. This year, she got a boyfriend, and this habit has continued. There are now two people eating breakfast, and there are more breakfast options. It feels good to have someone to accompany her. Someone is thinking about you in your heart, and there is something you can do at hand

Someone is thinking about you in your heart. This person may be a past event that has passed away long ago, or it may be someone you have been waiting for for a long time but has not yet arrived. If someone cares about you in your heart, you will be gentle to the world and will not treat yourself badly. Men will pay attention to their appearance, and girls will remember to put on makeup. If you have something to do, be a little more worldly and work hard to earn money. If you are a little more worldly, having a career can make you happy and forget your worries, and career can bring different charms to people. Don't fight loneliness, loneliness is for enjoyment

Loneliness often means that life is about to open a new page. Before I joined the student organization, I never thought that I could reach the position of chairman, and I never thought that I could write documents and materials so well. And it’s not just about writing documents. I also often write articles. I write when I’m passionately in love, when I’m falling out of love, and when loneliness strikes, I write desperately. The ancients said that when the country is unlucky, the poet is lucky, and his poems will be filled with vicissitudes of life. I didn't understand it at first, but then I understood that lonely people can often create a world, even if it is small, it is still a world.

In 2019, I was busy with the work of the student organization alone, looking at the stars in the sky, recalling the past, enjoying the loneliness, and I felt very peaceful. I did not kill loneliness, I reconciled with loneliness.