What are the obvious advantages of dad taking care of the baby compared with mom taking care of the baby?

After the baby is born, mothers have become the main force for most families to take care of the baby. Even many mothers quit their jobs to take care of the baby wholeheartedly at home, and dad's only responsibility is to work hard to make money outside! Even many people complain about this social phenomenon, calling it "widowed parenting", but in reality there are some completely different situations.

A friend in the crooked mom community, just the opposite of others. My mother went back to work immediately after giving birth to the baby and taking maternity leave, and she went on a long business trip as soon as she got to work. I haven't seen her for half a year. The task of taking care of the children was completely handed over to the father, who took care of the children in good order while working part-time at home. A group of women who walk their baby in the garden of the community every day and his only man have become a wonderful flower.

Moreover, the father takes good care of his children. Children under the age of 65,438+0 look clean, lively and lovely, and their fathers have rich parenting knowledge. Other women with children in the community consult him all day, such as what brand of rice flour children should eat, how to solve constipation, how to do parent-child sports and so on. He became the star of the children in the whole community.

In fact, from a scientific point of view, there is nothing wrong with dad taking care of the baby. On the contrary, because men are stronger, more tolerant and more creative, fathers have many advantages in taking care of their babies. Now it is becoming a new trend for dad to take care of the baby. Today happens to be Father's Day. Menstruation pays tribute to all dads here, and at the same time, he also talks about several benefits of dad taking care of the baby.

Fathers with better intellectual development often don't follow the routine. Jumping and divergent thinking let him play tricks with children, and he will also take children to make all kinds of novel brain circuit toys, such as making various swings for children, making various cartons into trolleys and so on. Some dads are also good at studying and doing big parent-child interactive sports. These can stimulate children's imagination and creativity, so that children's intellectual development may be faster and better.

A study in the United States found that the level of children's intellectual development is closely related to their close contact with their fathers. The longer the contact time, the faster the child's intelligence development, the more active the way of thinking and the stronger the innovation ability. Children who have contact with their fathers for more than two hours a day will have significantly higher IQ than children who have contact with their fathers for less than six hours a week.

Personality is more tolerant. Men are generally more tolerant, especially in life, they will be more generous and won't haggle over every ounce. Parents are the most important teachers for children, and children will always learn to imitate their parents unconsciously. Parents' words and deeds unconsciously affect their children's values and views on mate selection when they grow up. Therefore, children staying with a more inclusive father for a long time will also make them more atmospheric and inclusive.

Children are braver. Fathers are usually more adventurous. Nine times out of ten, the children they bring out will be braver. Fathers will teach their children how to protect themselves when they are in danger and how to resist violence, instead of always telling them to be obedient like their mothers. Therefore, when taking care of children, dad dares to challenge and likes to play games that other children dare not play, such as climbing big slides, rock climbing and taking risks. At the same time, he likes to accept anything new, meet people he doesn't know, go to new places and play new games and toys.

There is a lyric called "When I was a child, I used to sit on my father's shoulder, and my father was the ladder to heaven." The first car in life is dad's shoulder, and the first gust of wind is dad's back. When I was a child, I always felt that I could touch the stars and the moon by sitting on my father's shoulder. Dad is not superman, but he can give children the courage to explore the truth and pursue their dreams.

It is common for mothers to take care of their babies because of our social division of labor in the past. In agricultural society, men with stronger physical strength are bound to undertake the task of working outside to harvest food, while women can only undertake the relatively "less important" tasks of doing housework and taking care of children. However, with the development of today's society, on the one hand, working to make money does not depend much on physical strength, on the other hand, taking care of children is becoming more and more important, so it is worth considering that men take care of children from the perspective of family and children.

Of course, although the father has some advantages, it does not mean that the mother is completely divorced from the family, resulting in another form of "widowed parenting." Both father and mother are indispensable parts of children's growth, and only complete family support can make children grow up healthily.