How do you evaluate Cheng Qiqi in "The Summer Solstice Is Not Here"?

Have you watched the recently popular campus youth idol drama "The Summer Solstice Is Not Here"? The night it first aired, I went out of my way to promote the show a little in my circle of friends. At first, my impression of Lixia was that of a pure, warm, sincere and kind little girl. If you have read too many romance novels, you can definitely think with your toes that such a heroine must have knights around her, namely Lu Zhiang and Fu Xiaosi. I have always felt that girls like this have their own qualities that attract boys, and I have imagined countless times that I can do that in reality. Until she saw Li Xia choose to remain silent in the face of Li Yanran's bullying, and passively accepted all Li's accusations. I realized that this would never be what I liked. What I like is the kind of person I met, who stood up to Li Xia when she was bullied; the kind of person Cheng Qiqi also likes, who is willing to go out of her way to protect her friends. (Although Qiqi later turned bad, she was still cute at first.)

"A good person will be bullied by others, and a good horse will be ridden by others." This truth is really not just talk. . Who could have summed up such heart-wrenching words if they hadn't been greatly wronged and had nowhere to vent. It pierces deeply into people's hearts and then bleeds. Too many people hold the attitude that doing more is worse than doing less, thinking that as long as they endure, things will be calm. Little do you know that the other party is not a good person, and your concession will only cause others to hurt you again and again.

Compared with Li Xia, Cheng Qiqi did not flinch at all when faced with Li Yanran's promiscuity. The two had a quarrel in the women's bathroom and fought together, both of them trying their best. If it were Lixia, he might have been beaten to death long ago. Unfortunately, when I tried my best to save face for myself, the people closest to me casually stepped on it. I'm not afraid of getting a demerit, not being punished, and I'm not afraid of being scolded by the teacher. What I'm most afraid of is that you won't stand by me. When Cheng Qiqi's mother kept apologizing to Li Yanran's mother for what Qiqi had done, Qiqi finally couldn't help but ran out. Maybe you don't know that when you lower your head and say "I'm sorry" to others, the fortress I finally built collapsed instantly.

There was a topic before about "If a child is beaten, should he be educated to hit him back?" I was really happy when I saw many people leaving messages saying, "I will tell the child to fight back hard and I will pay for the medical expenses." Finally, no one used the old saying of "repaying evil with kindness" to trick children into learning to be a kind person. There is such a dialogue in "The Analects", which may be said: "How about repaying evil with kindness?" Confucius said: "How to repay kindness? Repay resentment with straightness, repay kindness with kindness." Yes, we should all be kind people, but the prerequisite Yes, this kindness has a bottom line. Be kind to kind people and unkind to unkind people. This is the greatest kindness.

Two days ago, my best friend called me and complained angrily, which made me confused. In general, she did a good thing for the company, which not only brought benefits to the company, but also brought benefits to her class. But this matter was brought up by colleagues, who felt that my best friend had stolen the limelight that originally belonged to her. So, I went to the leader to complain, but this leader was the kind of person who liked to listen to one-sided words and completely ignored my best friend's explanation. This meant that she would inevitably be scolded. "You know, I used to be a very grumpy person. But since I came to this company, I have never been happy. I have endured oppression that should not be endured at this age. In my mind, this should have been The state I should be in when I am 35 years old.”

When my best friend said this to me, I felt really aggrieved. But I am a very tough person and kept accusing her of her weakness. But in fact, she is not wrong. It’s just that worries of one kind or another in life make us learn to suppress ourselves and gradually become a smooth person. There is a saying I like very much: When you have nothing to lose, you can move forward without any scruples. Life is really not long, so be less scrupulous about this and that, and don’t let yourself live a life that is too oppressive.

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