The psychology of man after making love.

First, the change of attitude in life, if a man really loves you, then he will treat you with heart. I will take care of your feelings and really care about you, not just talk about it. And men are nice to you before sleeping with you, perhaps to get you; But after sleeping, he can still treat you as before, even cherish you more, be caring and attentive to you, take practical actions for you, and take care of you as much as possible emotionally, then he really loves you. If he is hot and cold to you after getting you, then in the final analysis, he just wants you, not really loves you. Second, the attitude towards the opposite sex around you. In life, a man who loves you may be sincere to you, but it doesn't prevent him from loving others. He can also be enthusiastic about others. The person who treated you may not recognize you yet. But if a man has sex with you, he will take the initiative to reject the opposite sex around him for you; I will never have close contact with them again, but I will change myself for your emotions and feelings and take you to heart, so I really love you. And those men who have slept with you, still keep their nature and are ambiguous with the opposite sex, don't love you so much. Third, the clear answer is that men's feelings in life are actually very rational. The more stable the relationship is, or if there is a certain foundation, the clearer the attitude of men towards feelings will be. Men may love you to death at first; But when you have experienced everything you should, men's feelings for women will naturally change from impulse to reason. Most of the decisions he made at this time, whether women can accept them or not, are basically from the heart. The other judge. A casual misunderstanding is magnified infinitely, and then the goodwill decreases rapidly. A little thing that is absolutely right may kill you. In the process of recovery, we should remember that we would rather not do it than make mistakes; At this stage, you have no right to try and make mistakes, and the other party will not have the heart to tell you that it is impossible. You challenge each other's patience and bottom line again and again, and the relationship is on the verge of collapse. If you try and make mistakes again and again, the probability of reconciliation will be greatly reduced. After making love's psychology is 2 0 1. I want to marry you and go home. After having sex with a woman, a man wants to marry you and go home, which means that he wants to be with you forever and give you a home before having sex, so he will have such a relationship with you. On the contrary, if a man doesn't want to marry you home after having sex with you, it means that this man is just playing hooligans. The chairman of the board of directors also said so: "Love not for the purpose of marriage" is all hooliganism. "So if a woman finds out that a man is in love with you and has sex with you, but this man just doesn't want to marry you home, or you should draw a clear line with this man decisively and stop loss in time. But after some women have sex with men, men really want to marry women home, but women refuse this man, which only shows that such women are often more casual, that is, they want to have sex with everyone, but they don't want to marry everyone. If a woman is too casual, you have to live in another city, otherwise, your reputation will be even worse. In the end, it may not be that people want to marry you, but that you want to marry someone else and others don't want to marry you. 02, owe you something. After a woman has sex with a man, if a man owes a woman something, psychologically, a man thinks so, then a man is still a man with a conscience. For example, after some girls have sex with men for the first time, men find that this girl is a simple little girl and give him the most precious thing, thinking that this man will join hands in the marriage hall. Then, at this time, if a man has some ulterior motives for a woman before, thinking about getting a woman, but after getting it, he finds that this woman is a very pure person, the man will feel particularly guilty in his heart and feel that he has wronged this woman, that he should not do so, and that he is a bad person. The best way is not to say that men keep blaming themselves, but that men should be responsible for this woman and make this woman their own woman forever, instead of letting women sleep with themselves and then sleep with others. In the end, women may no longer believe in love, and it may really be a broken jar, so to this extent, it is actually caused by men. So, if a woman finds out what a man owes you after sleeping with you, at this moment, you have to say what you want, and you have to tell the other person that you want to be with him forever. But most girls have sex with each other, especially after the first time, they will be at a loss and don't know what to say to each other. This also means that if you haven't made up your mind, don't have a relationship with each other in a daze, otherwise only women will suffer. Although a man will blame himself for a while, he is also perfect in the eyes of others when looking for the next goal. Unlike a woman, he may not be so perfect in some people's eyes after having sex with others. 03. I have some regrets. Once, after a neighbor had sex with a girl, I especially regretted it, because after having sex, I found out that the girl had had sex with others before. At this time, the man was riding a tiger and felt that he had slept with this woman. That woman has entangled herself. But I don't want to marry this woman to go home, because men think they want to marry a simple little girl, not a woman who is no longer the eldest daughter of Huanghua. The man said that he had never had sex with anyone before because he was an honest and clean man. At that time, when he was with this woman, the woman also told him that he had never had sex with a man before, so the man only dated this woman. I didn't expect two people to get married after they got engaged, and they had sex at this time. After the relationship, the man discovered that the woman had cheated herself before and that the woman had had a relationship with others before. And it's not just having sex with a person, which makes this man unable to understand and accept this woman, so he regrets it very much and doesn't know what to do. In fact, if a woman lies to a man, then under normal circumstances, a man will be separated from a woman, because a self-respecting man doesn't want his woman to sleep with another man, and he doesn't want this woman to deceive himself like this. This is a double blow to men. First of all, men have doubts about women's health, which is a blow to men. The second blow was that the man found out that the woman had lied to himself. This woman was originally a woman he especially trusted. I didn't expect that she cheated her man's heart and felt particularly disappointed. She doesn't think this woman is actually a good woman. Therefore, women must be honest in love. A lot of things can't be wrapped in paper, and the truth will come out one day. Some people may think that when a man has some bad psychological changes, it means that he is love rat. In fact, sometimes women have to respect themselves. If this man finds out that you slept with your ex-boyfriend or a lot of people. Then men will think you are a casual woman after sleeping with you. Maybe men will be particularly uncomfortable at this time, so it is understandable to have some bad ideas about you. I hope that every girl can respect herself and love herself, and I also hope that every man can treat every relationship seriously and responsibly, which is a manifestation of being responsible for himself and others. The psychology of man after making love III. People who love you will be satisfied and want to be responsible for you. Many times, a man wants to hold your hand, kiss you and have more contact with you. This is often because of love. Because he loves you, he wants to have you completely and let you have him. When a man develops with you to the last step because he loves you, then after you have sex, he will really feel happy and feel good from the heart. It's really beautiful to do what you like with the person you love and give it to each other wholeheartedly. He will not only feel very happy, but also feel very satisfied, and can truly feel that you belong to each other. From then on, you are his, he is yours, and you are no longer alone. For your intimate relationship, he will not only look down on you, but also want to cherish you more, treat you better than before and care more about you. Although this era is not as conservative as before, he will still want to take responsibility for you. From that moment on, I will completely integrate you into my life and regard you as a part of his life. There are so many people in the world, but he can't care about others anymore. He will only put all his thoughts on you, and will only wholeheartedly want to give you a good future, make a good plan for your future and continue to work hard. For those who make do, it will only be particularly calm. Some men approach you and show intimacy with you because they like you and really want to be like you. But there are also some men who don't like you, but they will still do this to you. Because I am too lonely to find someone I really like, because I really want to find someone to solve my loneliness and live with myself. People who don't like you, just to solve their own needs, just because you just want to be with him, so they come to you and have sex with you. When you break through that step, they actually won't feel much different. I won't feel how happy I am, and I won't have too many inner touches. I just feel that everything is ordinary, no different, nothing to be excited about. At most, I will feel a little satisfied physically. In his eyes, he and you just want what they want, and there is no need to rise to the height of love. For him, even if that person is not you, he can do this, say some sweet words and have all kinds of intimate behaviors. All he wants is someone who can do those things with himself, not that he just wants you, he just wants to do it with you, but for you, he wouldn't be like this. Just want to play, began to plan to retreat. In addition, there is a man who approaches you and is in close contact with you. Not only did he not want to be with you all his life, but he didn't even want to be with you for a while. From beginning to end, all his purposes were just to have sex with you. Before things really happen, everything he does, even if it is to determine the relationship with you first, is just a foreshadowing, just to be with you and let him achieve his goal naturally. After the real relationship, how attentive he is to you before, then he will only become how cold. My attitude towards you will suddenly change, and I will never have any enthusiasm, and I will never spend any time and energy on you again. Just like the person who was particularly active and enthusiastic about you in those years, it was not him at all, but another person. In the face of his change, you may even feel that you have done something wrong, which is why he is like this. In fact, from the beginning, he just wanted to make a quick decision with you and leave as soon as he got it. Since his goal is to get you quickly and then leave you quickly to find the next goal, from the moment the goal is achieved, you begin to become worthless in his heart, leaving him only contempt.