You must remember 2 words of advice to men.

Work and family are two legs of a man. If you want to have a healthy spiritual home, you need to find the right balance between work and family. Work and family complement each other. If a man has a successful career, there must be a woman behind him who works silently for it. If a man wants to have a happy family, he must be supported by a successful career.

● In the era when love is close to material things, if a woman is willing to marry you naked, please don't prevaricate her infatuation by saying that she has no house, car or career. If you miss her, you will miss the love of your life.

● Please cherish the woman you married. She gave you the chance to be the real head of the family, the crystallization of her love with you, and her selfless companionship at the expense of her beautiful years in her twenties.

● Most women are sensitive and suspicious, and many things like to think negatively. Therefore, you should form a good habit of hugging her before work and reporting to her when you work overtime.

● Be grateful to your parents for their nurturing. Without their careful care and education, you could not have achieved what you are now. Now that you have grown up, your parents are old. Therefore, you must love them as much as your parents did.

● People's living conditions are better, and more temptations follow. If you are married, please remember not to provoke other women except your wife. Don't get involved in bad habits such as gambling, drug abuse and drunk driving. Because your depravity destroyed not only you, but the whole family.

● Don't be too selfish at work. Try to help others as much as possible. In the process of helping others, you can not only prove your existence value, but also get the sense of accomplishment you want, so that you can gain more happiness.

● Constantly expand your interpersonal network, understand that there are many friends and many roads. In the process of expanding your social circle, don't just curry favor with people who are better than you, but also pay attention to those who are not as good as you for the time being.

● Never think of your friends only when something happens, and forget them when nothing happens. Get into the good habit of communicating with friends regularly. If you burn down the bridge, your friends will gradually isolate you or stay away from you.

● You need to have the spirit of commitment, be brave and decisive in doing things, and drive away your inferiority complex from your world. At the same time, you should respect everyone around you, be modest and prudent, and be neither arrogant nor impetuous.

● Make time every week to talk with your wife and help your children with their homework. Don't become a single money-making machine in the eyes of your wife and children.

● When you have made up your mind, you should make all the preparations for difficulties, and devote yourself to it. Don't be afraid of failure, because failure is success. After failure, don't sigh, but learn a lesson and be smarter when you encounter similar problems again.

● The knowledge reserve during college is limited. In the highly competitive workplace, your idleness will make it possible for others to surpass you. Therefore, it is necessary to develop the good habit of reading books every day.

● Many things are difficult to reach a certain height by your own efforts. Therefore, you need to have a spirit of cooperation, be willing to share after success, and know how to be grateful to those who have helped you.

● To be an honest, responsible and punctual person, you should pay attention to what you promise others. Or maybe what others ask you is a piece of cake to you, but it is a big deal to others.

● Health is the capital of the revolution. Therefore, you must spare an hour for physical exercise after work. Without a healthy body, all your success in your career will be in vain.

As the ancients said, three heads are better than Zhuge Liang. Therefore, don't be an opinion leader every time when you are with friends. Calm down and listen to your friends' thoughts. Keeping the habit of listening will benefit you a lot.

● Dare to tell the truth in front of family or friends, and don't be afraid to offend family or friends and not correct their shortcomings. Keep your original integrity, be worthy of your heart and pay, and don't care too much about the evaluation of the villain.

● The pressure of life sometimes makes you very tired or helpless. Remind yourself that this is the essence of life. When you fail in your career, your wife and children are your strongest backing. Think about their expectations, and you should not be defeated by reality.

● Don't make too many enemies for yourself, let alone make irresponsible remarks about others behind your back. When something you can't change, you have to learn to adapt. Too much complaining will only make you lose your mind.

● Try to keep a cheerful attitude every day, and understand the truth of making money with kindness. To this end, first solve the good mood, in order to do things happily. A good mood can not only infect people around you, but also bring good popularity to yourself.