When a friend gets married, I will give him 2. I received a text message at night saying that I should not contact again in the future. Is it less than 2?

I have encountered this situation. I have a fellow countryman, who is also a colleague with me. He usually has contacts. He married his daughter in the Spring Festival the year before last, and put wine in his hometown. I happened to be in my hometown during the Spring Festival, so I gladly went ... His family put wine in the countryside, and we all worked in the SAR. We should be very enthusiastic. After I went, he warmly greeted me and introduced some guests. This and that always came back from the Pearl River Delta area by car. I thought I was there, too. When I went to the cashier's office to hand in the red envelopes, I found that there were five thousand dollars, ten thousand dollars and twenty thousand dollars in the account books. At that time, I only sealed a red envelope of two thousand dollars. I thought we were just fellow villagers and didn't have any business contacts at ordinary times, so sealing two thousand dollars was enough. However, when I came out, he just asked me to sit anywhere, but didn't arrange a seat, and then he greeted others ... Our countryside was full of running water seats, but I was an outsider, and no one in his family and village knew me except him, and no one called me at dinner, which made me very embarrassed and angry! So he got up and left. Later, he didn't call to thank me, let alone explain. For such people, I never contacted them again. Typical villain's success! With a little power and flattery, you don't know how little you are! It is expected that this character is so high and the culture is not high, so it is impossible to go too far! It is even more impossible to have great achievements! Damn it, this 2, yuan is only for buying dog feed ...

When a friend gets married, you can get 2, yuan, which is a big gift. But why did Mingyou break up with you? I think there should be every reason, and every reason has its consequences.

first, maybe your friends gave you a lot of gifts when you were busy, and you got a big discount when Mingyou got married, so your friends blamed you.

I'll pay 5 for unlocking my son and daughter, and I'll give my niece 2 red envelopes each. But last year, when my son was thirteen years old, my grandmother asked someone else to take 3 yuan, but no one came. There is a saying in the countryside that people eat first (mattresses made of straw), and then they are given seats. It means that you will get as much as others give you. His sister's family condition is not bad, why is the difference in gift money 4?

This is because I know best that my husband is honest, and his elder sister looks down on this younger brother and his family at all. In addition, his elder sister has a thin nature, so she did such a thing. At that time, all kinds of bad things to me came to her mind, and her anger went up, and she broke up, and she must break up! Later, due to my husband's brotherhood, the relationship was not broken, but I will never forgive him.

the most important thing in human communication is coming and going, and reciprocity is the way for friends to communicate. People respect others, and people despise others. If you respect me one foot, I will respect you one foot. If it's true as I guess, it's your fault. If you want to get back your friends, apologize sincerely.

second, there may be a major contradiction or a big misunderstanding among you. As for whether there is any contradiction, you know best. If there is, calm down and think about it. If a friend is wrong and he still does it, then you don't have to worry about it. Don't worry about this friend.

If the problem lies with you, it is reasonable for your friends to do so, so there is no need for you to play hide-and-seek with others and waste others' time.

if there is no contradiction, it is a misunderstanding, then you should talk it over with your friends, maybe have a long talk, and the sun will shine brightly.

I want to know your so-called friends. What is your relationship? If you are just colleagues, I'll tell you that you can't call them friends. You are colleagues. If you are classmates, you can call them friends. Why do you pay 2, yuan? Is your family rich or you are still single? Everyone else is with 2 yuan. You just pay 2, yuan. Why?

when a friend tells you that he won't contact you in the future, it means that he doesn't want to come after you get married, and he tells you that he can't go back with 2 yuan. From then on, we will break off our relationship and become strangers. There should be other reasons. Everyone else will follow 2 yuan, and you will show off with 2 yuan. When a friend sees that you are too fierce, it is best for such a person not to contact with you. Obviously, the purpose is to receive gifts in the future, so he doesn't want to talk to you.

It's definitely not because you have less money that you broke up with you. This figure is absolutely ok. Let's not talk about friends. It's hard for his uncle to get 2, yuan. 2, yuan is absolutely ok as a gift. What he said is that he can't stand it in the future. Not all families are rich, but most of us are ordinary families. As a result, he is afraid that he can't keep up with it in the future, so it's understandable to make a clean break.

This kind of thing often happens in rural areas. Others take 2 yuan, but some people take 1 yuan. He said that they are closely related, but they really don't see it at ordinary times. There are other factors in this. Some people take the opportunity to curry favor with them, and others have a purpose. In the future, they want to ask others to take more. They have one child and three. This is also a phenomenon, alas! There is no way to be smart.

In our daily life, we will attend various weddings of our friends. Moreover, the gift money given to each friend is different because of different relationships. In our local area, the gifts that ordinary friends accompany are all in 2 yuan. And some very good friends usually go to 5 yuan with the gift money. Therefore, different gifts really represent different relationships with each other. Moreover, it would have been a happy thing for a friend to be invited to participate when he got married.

No matter in our countryside or in some cities, the so-called gift money is not too much. Of course, some local tyrants are excluded. For most people, at present, in our rural areas, the gift money given to each other at weddings is basically 2 yuan. While our high school classmates and college classmates usually attend their weddings in 4 yuan, if they are those classmates or friends who have been in constant contact at ordinary times and have a particularly good relationship, the gifts will be slightly increased. This is also our local default custom.

For this friend, give the other person a wedding gift of 2 yuan. Personally, I feel that the amount is relatively high, so I especially show my affection. However, it was repulsed by the other party, which really surprised this friend. It is expected that there will be several reasons for this:

First of all, if you entrust others to give gifts to your friends, you may make a mistake in registration because there are too many people. For example, when you give the other party 2, yuan, it turns out to be 2 yuan. If this is the case, then the amount is beyond the imagination of the other party, and the other party sends such a short message in anger.

Secondly, it is possible that this friend gave the other party a gift of 2 yuan. But when he got married himself, the gift money given by the other party was far greater than 2 yuan. Therefore, in practical sense, such neighbors are still relatively few. For friends who get married later, they naturally feel chilling, so they do this behavior. In fact, getting married is a happy and festive thing, and the gift money given by friends should be readily accepted no matter how much. There is something wrong with this friend's practice of texting.

Many people say that the friendship between colleagues in the workplace is "as light as water".

don't look at the face-to-face relationship all day long, and they are like brothers.

but colleagues know in their hearts that colleagues today may be passers-by tomorrow, and it is normal for colleagues to jump ship for their future. Therefore, the "sweet words" between colleagues are just words that are not taken seriously.

However, after a few years in the workplace, the style of one of my colleagues changed my opinion ...

Xiao Wang is my "master". I just entered the company, and I called him "Master" and "Master" half jokingly and half seriously.

Xiao Wang entered two years before me. The manager asked me to study more with him.

Xiao Wang's personality is generous. He taught me what I should master in the company, but he also gave me advice on the experience of dealing with people that I can learn in the company.

supposedly, he has no such obligation. I am very grateful to him. Invite him to dinner, and Xiao Wang didn't ask me to pay. He said, you just went to work and didn't make any money. When you are skilled and get a raise, please invite me again.

after working for one year, I'm going to marry my girlfriend who has been in love for many years.

As I didn't come in for a long time, I said hello to my boss, gave a farewell candy to my colleagues, and didn't say "invitation", so as not to embarrass myself if people didn't want to go.

Xiao Wang also gave me a sentence of "coping". Say, master must drink your wedding banquet.

I listened to it as a guest. Unexpectedly, on the wedding day, Xiao Wang really came. He handed me a red envelope. It was stuffed with 888 yuan.

I have a lot of money, and it still has a beautiful meaning. I think it is my luck to know a colleague like Xiao Wang.

Last year, my mother-in-law suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized. My little savings have also been posted. Even if you live a life, you have to pick and pick. Colleagues all know that I have no money.

in may, Xiao Wang got married. I think Xiao Wang has helped me a lot. No matter how poor I am, I have to squeeze out a "big red envelope" for others.

I stuffed 2 yuan into my red envelope.

on Xiao Wang's wedding day, I handed in a red envelope. Xiao Wang was refusing, and when someone called him, he took it.

the wedding was very lively. After dinner, I just got home and received his WeChat:

The red envelope given by your boy is too small.

what do you mean? I look a little dizzy. Less than 2 yuan?

It's another WeChat from Xiao Wang:

When you earn a lot of money, give me a big red envelope. Knowing that you are in a tight life now, you don't have to follow the gift.

Then came the message of Xiao Wang's WeChat transfer, and he returned 2 yuan intact.

According to the current popular market, there are quite a few gifts for your friends when they get married, but friends should break up with you because of this, which shows that he is very unbalanced, and most of them have hidden secrets, which should be the kind that the subject doesn't want to tell us. If I guess, there may be the following two reasons:

1. The total value of gifts that friends gave you before is far more than 2, yuan. In fact, this kind of thing is quite common in life, especially in the circle of relatives. Some families have a large population and relatively frequent weddings, funerals and weddings, while some families are thin and have much more gifts than they get when they go out, so happy events of the same nature cannot be measured by the amount of a single gift.

2. The value of your friend's help in other aspects in the past far exceeds 2, yuan. For example, I lent you a huge sum of money without interest, or I gave you a helping hand in life because you encountered great difficulties. Of course, it is not necessarily related to money. Many of them may have helped you solve various problems encountered in social interaction, but you didn't make a corresponding statement at that time. He thought you would give some feedback by taking the opportunity of his marriage.

without the above factors, a friend simply thinks that you are less obedient, unless he is a petty person, but if so, what's the harm of breaking up? Although many people don't want to admit it, they all have their own "small abacus" in actual social interaction. Some people calculate money, while others value friendship more. In any case, only when giving and receiving are relatively balanced can the relationship be maintained. We are just bystanders, we can only guess according to the superficial meaning of the topic, and the final decision depends on yourself.

when a friend got married, the subject was accompanied by a gift of 2 yuan. In the evening, I received a dear John message from my friend and asked myself if the gift of 2 yuan was missing. I think that under normal circumstances, there are a lot of wedding gifts with 2 yuan, not a little. As far as China's current national conditions are concerned, there are quite a few people who have friendship with 2, yuan.

There is no love without reason, and there is no hate without reason. There must be a reason for my friend to send you this dear John message. The reason lies in you two, and there is no other possibility.

First of all, the topic owner should calm down and make a careful investigation to see if he has done something inappropriate, which led to friends breaking up. Judging from the description of the subject, there seems to be no other reason except the gift money. Then let's see if the wedding gift of 2 yuan is appropriate.

If your friend's gift money is far more than 2, yuan when you get married, based on the basic communication principle of reciprocity, it is absolutely reasonable for you to get along with others and give them equal or slightly higher gifts when they get married. If you are rude first, you can't blame others for breaking up.

If you owe people a lot of favors for some reason, a friend's wedding is the best opportunity for you to repay them, and a big gift is a must. And you ignored this point intentionally or unintentionally, and the gap between the gift money given and his expectation was too big, so it is not difficult to understand that you finally received a dear John message.

if you are just friends, I think 2, yuan will be fine. Your friend should have self-knowledge. He won't and can't break up with you.

Another situation is that your friend is a philistine and has a big personality problem. He took the lead in the wedding before you, and after receiving the gift money, he was worried that he would have to pay the bill later, so he simply broke off the relationship. This kind of thing has happened to me. There are all kinds of people in the world. Only you can't think of it without him.

The reason why the subject broke up with friends is basically in my analysis above, and the subject can be compared one by one. It's your fault. You correct it and try to get the understanding of your friends. If it's a friend's reason, so be it, it's only right for a husband to kiss a sage far away! 2 yuan is not much, so you have paid the tuition.

get to the point, or it's bullshit. Like this question, I gave a friend a gift of 2, and was told by my friend that I would never give up. Many people commented that 2 yuan is already quite a lot. If my friend doesn't do it, he won't do it. This is the key point.

what is the key issue of this event? Looking at it alone, 2 yuan is indeed quite a lot, like I give my friends a basic 5 yuan and a better 1 yuan, which is the standard, but we must never look at the problem in isolation, and we must look at it in combination with some situations. This is the key.

for example. When the subject gets married, a friend gives him a gift of 1, and then a friend gets married, and he gives him 2, so it is understandable that a friend is angry, and there is no such thing.

What's more, a friend helped him to do a big event, which was worth tens of thousands of people's favor, and then he gave him 2 yuan when his friend got married. I don't think this friend would do it if he didn't do it.

everything has a cause and effect. We still have to figure out the cause and effect behind it, so that we can see the problem accurately. This is the key to our view of the problem. Without the cause and effect behind it, or with our ordinary thinking, we will definitely have a deviation in seeing the problem.

you must have received his gift of more than 2 yuan!

You returned 2, yuan, and the other party thought you were too much.