Is it normal to go to my mother-in-law's house to pick up my wife and go home empty-handed?

After more than a year's separation, it must be abnormal to go to my mother-in-law's house to pick up my wife and go home empty-handed! Although you are right, you are married and a family, but you have never thought that you have been separated for a year and you didn't pick it up. Don't you think it's a little late? Besides, if you want other people's things now, you have to pick them up when you go to a relative's house! Not to mention that you are going to make peace, have you ever thought that if you leave empty-handed, people will think that you are insincere and you are deliberately stirring up trouble! Anyway, I think you did something wrong!