Why is it said that the deepest hurt is "whether you love or hate, don't care or ask"?

We always say, "There is nothing more sad than a dead heart." When the heart is broken, the heart is already dead, and there is nothing left to ask or take care of, so it doesn't matter. Don't love or hate, because there is no way to love again, want to hate but can't. Take me as an example, I have been in a relationship for a very long time, but now I have been separated for many years. Do you still love me? Maybe you still love it, but it will only stay in your heart; do you hate it? Indeed, there is still hatred. I hate that he wants to provoke me even though I don’t love him. I hate that he wants to commit to me even though he doesn’t love me. I hate that he breaks my heart and makes me unable to love others anymore.

After repeating this so many times, my heart has become numb, and I no longer have the strength to hate whoever loves whomever, so I have become accustomed to this state. She would still care about his news. After all, she was the person who had been in love with each other for many years and had a very good relationship. The person who originally thought they would get together, but was so hurt that she no longer believed in the other person.

No matter what he needs help with, no matter what he needs to give, his heart is only indifferent, so he just ignores me, because everything about him has nothing to do with me. , even if I want to ask, there is no reason. It's true that there are a thousand reasons to want to see you, but none of them can see your identity. My heart has been broken too many times, and because it really hurts, I can only let myself go and stop thinking about it.

So it’s not that you are heartless, but that you really don’t dare to love anymore. Your deep love has been let down, and no one can forget that they are only for the wrong person. We once fell in love, we once experienced ups and downs together, but in the end they were just a blur in the past, not worth mentioning. Everyone who has loved with all his strength was an angel with broken wings in his previous life, and will encounter ups and downs in this life.