It seems that we should not just talk about it.

I like her so much, why doesn't she like me?

Recently, I met a man with good conditions and said that he liked a girl very much. From the first day he met the girl, he liked her very much and always took the initiative to care about her life, but the girl was always lukewarm and unwilling to go further with him.

To this end, he also specially shared their chat records. From beginning to end, he did express his love for girls many times and wanted to take good care of them. It looks really affectionate.

What he said is beautiful. However, when the girl was sick and uncomfortable, he just asked her to see a doctor herself, saying that she should know how to take care of herself. When the girl told him that there was something wrong with the computer network, he just told her not to use the computer, but to use the mobile phone.

Basically, he is not there when girls need it, and he is always preaching to girls. When a girl has never really felt his intentions, it is normal to dislike him.

After all, you like this kind of thing, so don't talk about it casually.

Once when I was having dinner with a female friend, she received a message from an admirer. Between the lines, the other person praised her, saying that she was beautiful, very temperamental, liked her very much, and wanted to fall in love with her and marry her.

At that time, when she heard those words, she had no happiness at all. She just politely replied thank you and blacked out the other person.

Her explanation was that she had never met before, and even asked her what she did. Without understanding her personality, she began to talk about marriage. That's insincere. She really doesn't have the energy to cope.

Although the behavior of friends seems a bit excessive, it is not difficult to understand.

Maybe when you are young, when you hear something nice, women will easily take it seriously and feel convinced.

But with the increase of experience, I have seen too much. Life is so hard and I am busy every day. At this time, if it is nice, women will not take it too seriously.

Because those words, except pleasing to the ear, have no meaning, because they can't solve any problems for her, and even seem to be eager for quick success, but actually they don't want anything.

What is it like? Of course, it is not enough for one person to say that he likes another person over and over again.

If there is no truth, it will eventually look pale and completely empty talk.

And many times, when you keep saying how much you like each other, but never do anything for each other, the other party doesn't get any love from your words and deeds at all. She may want to believe you, but she can't believe you after all.

So if you really like someone, you don't have to express your sincerity in words. No matter how much you say, it is much better to really get to know her and see what she needs.

When you don't love well, you always impose what you do on each other. You think you are doing good for each other, but in fact you are just satisfying your own selfish desires. In the end, you will only touch yourself.

True love is not that you think the other person should be mature and sensible, that you think the other person should be independent enough, that you are doing her good, but that you should accept her as she is and try your best to love her on this basis.

Have you ever wondered why many women are always attracted to love rat? That's just because, although love rat didn't think of it for a long time, at the beginning, people really got the details in place.

For example, when a woman needs it, he will appear in time. When a woman feels uncomfortable, he will know how to keep her happy. At least for a period of time, he was considerate.

It is these details that make women feel cared for.

To win the heart of the person you like, you have to be reliable, but you also have to know how to love.

It doesn't mean that you are good enough, and then you express your sincerity, and others will take the initiative to post it. Instead, you must first let the other person feel your concern in the details, and she will dare to approach you slowly if you are not absent.

After all, no matter how good it is, it is also your own business. Only if you are willing to spend time for each other and share everything with each other will the other party believe that you really plan her into your life and want to have a future with her.

Sincerity that likes can't just be said, just stay in words, will only be very cheap.

As San Mao said, love won't last long if it doesn't fall into such trivial things as washing clothes, cooking, counting money and taking care of children. In fact, it is countless.

This kind of thing, love, is to be expressed, but while expressing it in words, actions should keep up.

What can really reassure a person is not that you tell her many times that you love her every day, but that every day, when she needs you, you are always by her side, in front of outsiders, your heartfelt thoughts, natural concern and unconditional preference.

Without company, it is not enough to talk about feelings, nor is it enough to talk about sincerity and not giving.

If you love, you must prove it with actions.