The biggest misunderstanding women have about men is that men are "visual animals" and beauty is the capital of marriage.

It is understandable that a woman wants to marry in a good mood. After all, who doesn't want to have a overbearing president-style husband?

Needless to say, my husband can buy it for himself at a glance.

After marriage, there is no need to take care of children and work. You have to eat at home, and you are pushing around. Everyone is self-centered.

Ideals can be full, but reality is often skinny. After all, there are not many women who can marry into a rich family. For most women, the overbearing president can neither be seen nor touched.

A casual accident is a story, which only exists in novels or film and television dramas.

Many people may think that ordinary women want to marry overbearing presidents, but they are just talking. Who would really do that? But there are such women in reality.

Of course, their requirements for overbearing presidents are not really young, rich and handsome, but money is a must.

Xiaoying is 27 years old and beautiful. She is the only child in the family. Her parents have been adhering to the concept of "raising a daughter" since she was very young, giving her the best conditions and doing everything with her.

Being single at the age of 27 is not a big deal for modern women, either because they don't want to get married so early or because they want to improve themselves so that they can support themselves after marriage in the future.

But Xiaoying is single because she wants to marry into a rich family.

It is a reality that a beautiful woman is more likely to attract men's attention. Xiaoying never lacks suitors, including many high-quality men with good family conditions.

Xiaoying despises all of them. In her eyes, beautiful women are the capital of marriage as well as rich people, and their looks should at least match those of men worth tens of millions.

Xiaoying thinks she can be worthy of her own man, worth at least tens of millions, but she doesn't even have the chance to meet such a marriageable man in life.

She only does simple front desk work, not to mention an marriageable man who is worth tens of millions on weekdays, and even the boss of her own company doesn't see it many times.

There are many women who marry into rich families, but generally such women have similar conditions with their husbands.

Just like Liu's wife ZhangZetian, she is not only beautiful, but also a graduate of Tsinghua University. Before meeting Liu, she had her own career.

The biggest misunderstanding of women about men is that men are "visual animals".

Xiaoying is really beautiful, but beauty is also the easiest thing to have, especially for rich men, who are never short of beautiful women. They have a strong general ability to marry and be a wife, and beauty is just an additional attribute.

For most women, they hope to have a bossy husband, or a pair of discerning eyes, who can find a man's ability at the end of his life and struggle with it.

Either it must have equal value, it can be its own family conditions, or it can be its own outstanding ability.

I have a friend named Gangzi, who is 35 years old. He has been single since he was busy with his career in his early years. Although he is not as overbearing as the president in the TV series, he has made some achievements.

I once asked him at dinner: "I said I was too busy to fall in love and get married in the early years, and now I'm 35 years old and I'm not considering getting married?"

Gangzi said, "I must get married. I don't want to get married, because conditions don't allow me to be single. "

I asked him jokingly, "I heard that you rich people like to be silly and sweet." Are you looking for something similar? "

Gangzi shook her head and said, "How can such an important thing as marriage be so casual? Nowadays, business changes rapidly. I want a wife who can run business with me and resist unpredictable and unknown risks. "

Both men and women will consider their own interests when facing marriage. Women hope to change their quality of life through marriage, and men also hope to have a woman who can share the pressure for themselves.

Moreover, a good marriage does not mean that life will be easy in the future. If you want to wear a crown, you must endure it. Ordinary families may only face daily necessities, and women who marry overbearing presidents may have to walk a tightrope on the edge of a cliff.

I have always felt that it is illogical for an overbearing president with a deep mind to feel heartbroken when he meets a "stupid white sweet" who has no talent.

Marriage is not only a romantic thing, but also countless realities to face. A long marriage must be evenly matched.

If two people have different world views and attitudes towards life, it is difficult to get together.

Some people say that marriage is very realistic for women. Most women don't marry for love, nor do they have superior material conditions after marriage, but more just make do.

I don't object to the reality of marriage, but I don't think marriage is just a makeshift.

There is no best in this world, only better. If you can't get the best, you can make do, and then everyone's marriage will make do.

Marriage itself is a choice. A woman can choose the man with the best comprehensive conditions within the scope of her own conditions. This is not a will, but a fit.

I hope that a woman who wants to marry an overbearing president can understand that overbearing president is not the only choice for marriage. For marriage, it is far better to suit yourself than to blindly demand high standards.

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