How to reject the pursuit of local tyrants with rich emotional history?

First, reduce contact. Some boys keep the spirit of pursuing the woman they like. If they can get in touch with you, they will try their best to see you, be good to you, and hope you like him. Therefore, it is necessary to reduce contact with this boy, even if he is a local tyrant, not to mention his rich history of emotional darkness.

Tell him your mate selection requirements in advance. If you think this boy is not to your taste, you'd better explain your mate selection requirements in advance (let him know how far you are from your other half) and tell him that you like simple boys and don't like local tyrants. Maybe he will give up.

Avoid going out alone with him. In addition to reducing contact, I invite you to go out together, and it is best to refuse. Don't send a signal that he can pursue you, kill all the seedlings of hope, and slowly, he will not persist.

See if there are any girls around you who are suitable for him. In addition to finding your own boyfriend, you can also introduce the girls around you to him, which is similar to you or close to his favorite type. On the one hand, you can tell him that you don't want to associate with him, on the other hand, you can divert his attention from other girls.

The best way is to ask him to sit alone and let him tell you frankly how he feels about you, and you understand him. Then you say something about him, and then you make a sharp turn, but you have reasons that you can't accept, and you hope he can understand. To be clear, a polite boy should know what to do.

As long as you refuse, it will definitely hurt people, but you can't be indecisive. Because in the face of someone who loves you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds. If your attitude is not firm enough, then he will think that there is still a chance to fight for it, and this result will often lead to greater harm. For example, we can say thank you for your love, but I can't cheat my heart, I'm sorry! Say what you really think before boys get deeper.