What is the best way for friends to get along?

True or false, not hypocritical. When friends meet, they should be honest with each other, but some people are idle.

I'm afraid of those hypocritical people. They agreed to invite you to dinner this week. As a result, you waited from Monday to Sunday, but he just didn't talk. You thought he had forgotten, but he didn't. He is that kind of person. His invitation to dinner is just a formality, and it doesn't need to be put into practice.

Some people are very close when you are with them, and you regard them as good friends. As a result, he told others behind their backs that he was just friends with you, which made people very angry.

Not mourning means not being negative, pessimistic, gloomy, decadent, decadent or depressed. In life, everyone will encounter annoying things, and it is normal to spit on friends. However, some people regard friends as emotional trash cans and pour all negative emotions on friends.

Then I left briskly, leaving a friend alone and standing in the same place, so I don't want to make such friends.

2. Trust but don't rely on it.

Trust means that we are trusted by our friends and our friends are trusted by us. When you meet something, you can rely on each other and face it bravely. Not relying is not leaving what you should do to your friends, and * * * assigning tasks to what you participate in.

For example, when two people travel together, they are most afraid of being shopkeepers, taking photos all the way and making friends. Another person is as tired as a dog doing raiders, getting a visa, booking a hotel, buying portable wifi, and so on. Finally, there are some minor problems, and they have to be accused by the "hands-on shopkeeper". Such friends are not worth making.

3. Share but don't show off.

When you meet happy things, share them with friends, and friends will be happy for us, so happiness will be doubled.

But some people regard sharing as showing off, such as: "My daughter won the final exam again, but your son's grades are still uneven?" Some people show off, but also add sarcasm and ridicule, such as: "My husband bought me a new car, alas, I said, your car has been driving for 89 years?" Why not change it? Is your husband still an employee? "

This kind of person who brushes his sense of existence by washing his friends does not deserve the word "friend".

4. Intimate but not out of line.

Intimacy means that we are close to our friends, free from bondage and uncomfortable feelings. Being together is very casual. Speak frankly, don't hide anything, don't think twice, and don't have nothing to say.

Not crossing the line means not crossing the line between friends. I firmly believe that any relationship has certain boundaries, even between husband and wife, we should give each other some space. With space, we can stick together after the activity. Without any space, we will suffocate.

But in real life, many people, under the banner of caring, spy on and explore their friends' privacy and pain, and then spread it around as talk capital.

Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Ordinary citizens always love to hear people's scandals, especially those they know well." This is the kind of person I'm talking about. Curiosity can kill cats and friends.