Dumb mouth and slow reaction, read these 8 books.

If you are clumsy and slow-witted, you should read these eight books-"Blow out the reading lamp, and you are covered with the moon"

1. The reading score of Douban, the method of communication: 8.4

Every communication master is a language artist, and it is one of them:

Don't say "I'm late", but say "I'm late". Rather than saying "Do you understand", it is better to say "Did I make myself clear?" Recommend it to people who are clumsy and inarticulate, embellish their own language with a few tips, and their mouths are full of flowers.

2. "Non-violent communication" Douban reading score: 8.4

Perhaps we have never associated our conversation with "violence", but some communication methods are really hurtful. What we say will affect my life. No matter what kind of scene, don't communicate with a "tough" attitude, use empathy to put yourself in other's shoes, and stop mocking and preaching at will. Proper communication will make you accepted as soon as you export, and recommend it to people who have a big temper and often subconsciously worry about others.

3. "Cai Kangyong's Way of Speaking" Douban reading score: 7.4

How to speak can make people trust? How to speak well? How to speak without causing harm?

The purpose of communication is not to win an argument, nor to highlight one's sense of intellectual superiority. Cai Kangyong summed up a personal expression method to help people who are not contagious and can't get to the point in their speech master the communication rhythm and express themselves in an orderly way. To practice speaking is to practice how to get along with others.

4. Douban reading score of "The Art of Communication": 8.8

Is the so-called communication skill just words? Can effective communication be established only with a sincere attitude? The art of communication is complex and diverse. Only when a person has a certain degree of communication skills and sincere willingness to communicate can he express himself effectively. This book carefully analyzes interpersonal relationships and communication methods from many angles, and is a compulsory bibliography for the introduction of interpersonal communication.

5. douban reading score of the bible of communication among introverts: 7.1

people who don't want to talk are considered withdrawn and stupid, but those who love quiet are considered cowardly ... introverts are always pushed out of the inner circle and become invisible. Will introverts never make it?

This is a communication secret book specially written for introverts, in which the four-step management mentality of introversion is widely circulated. Although it has been oversold in recent years, it is still a starting guide for introverts to change themselves.

6. Douban reading score of Key Dialogue: 8.3

Every time there is conflict of views and emotional excitement in communication, we always fall into the dilemma of "fight or flight". In fact, there is a third option, which is to start a "key dialogue". This book provides detailed skills on how to make a win-win choice on key issues, avoiding "stupid options" and becoming an excellent communicator.

7. Douban reading score of The Principle of the Golden Pagoda: 8.1

There are a bunch of scattered ideas that can't be combined into clear ideas? In the face of complex problems, you can't find the cut-off point. Simplify and split the problem? Establishing a pyramid-like thinking structure can quickly find out the key points, think and express efficiently. This book is one of the must-read books for learning thinking methodology, and establishing an efficient thinking path is the starting point for getting rid of clumsiness.

8. "Speak Well" Douban reading score: 7.4

Whether a person's words can affect others is actually second. Once a word is spoken, it will definitely affect the speaker himself. If you "speak" in any way and attitude, you must think in the same form. " A fruitful communication must be a heartfelt exchange and a correct expression of sincerity, which is more effective than opening golden sentences.