What kind of experience is it to have a strong parent at home?

Strong parents perfectly describe my parents, and my family belongs to a super-large family. There are eight brothers and sisters on my mother's side, and my mother is the boss. What about these eight brothers and sisters? One of them has 15 children. Now most of these children are married and have children, and each family has another child. There are almost 50 people now.

My mother, as their elder sister, and my father, as their brother-in-law, have always played the role of parents after grandparents died. What can I say? Sometimes this role is respected, and sometimes it's really annoying.

Let's talk about the positive side first, because my parents are more filial and pay more attention to family ties. When grandparents are alive, the whole family will get together in the second day of junior high school. Because the conditions of relatives at home were not very good at that time, my parents were generally responsible for the ingredients of this large-scale party. After grandparents died, the whole family came to my house once a year on the fifth day. It seems that there are not many large-scale parties with more than 50 people that last for more than ten or twenty years.

In addition, my parents are warm-hearted and helpful, but their social status is still ok, so they are respected by many relatives. Everyone thinks that if it weren't for my parents, they might not be so United. This should be the positive influence of parents.

Of course, because they are warm-hearted and willing to help others, other people's parents are also willing to talk to my parents, which leads them to be often troubled by other people's affairs and often have disputes over other people's affairs. Later, uncles and aunts who wanted to talk to them grew up to be grandparents, and they were still used to meddling in their affairs.

Later, many relatives suspected that they were meddling and pointing fingers at their own lives. This should also be the true feeling of many people with strong parents. But I really don't blame them. They just treat you like a child, worry about you, and can't help but care about you.