What "sinister" things have you experienced in the workplace?

The workplace is like rivers and lakes, and Jiang Hushui is too deep. Five words of advice that you can only understand if you are cheated and suffer losses.

1 Speak easily and know everything.

If friendship is not enough, I won't say much. Enough friendship, don't say it all. 70% of the reason why talent is not satisfied is that you can't control your mouth. Silence is golden, and most people can't do it. However, at least you should make friends with Mo Yan, and don't dig out your heart if you are not your parents. Be especially careful of "unsolicited" people. They may not betray you on purpose, but they have no obligation to keep your secret. You know, keeping secrets for others is actually quite difficult.

2 low-key life, high-profile things.

Do business vigorously, perform your duties with confidence, and be humble and respectful. Be modest when summing up your achievements. First of all, you should put the credit on the boss. Don't worry, your boss knows what you did, and he will make it up to you elsewhere. If you are a high-profile person and strive for honor, you will definitely suffer losses elsewhere, and the probability of losing money is far greater than the reputation you get.

3. Competing under the stage, showing mercy on the table.

At any time, don't tear your face on the table. If you have to tear your face, then quietly install a firewall in your heart to prevent villains for life. Real masters don't wrestle on the stage, they all stumble under the table. Even if you meet your opponent, you should laugh heartily, leaving room for how to compete under the table.

Human nature is the weakest, so don't try.

Don't test humanity, don't test humanity, don't test humanity. Between colleagues, friends, lovers, all contradictions involving money interests should be cautious. When the order of magnitude is as large as one million, we must adhere to the heart of preventing people. Capital has long said that when the profit exceeds 300%, anyone can take risks, not to mention the people around you, and stabbing is the most convenient.

5 won't refuse, you deserve to participate.

Try to change the character of "please", no one wants to offend, and it is oneself who "offends". 99 things were helped, 1 things were not helped, and everything was zero. 99 items help accumulate goodwill, but it will fall into a negative number. To know how to manage other people's expectations, people who come will pile up their own expectations. When you refuse, high expectations will collapse and the probability of turning your face will be greater. Therefore, when it is time to refuse, we must resolutely refuse. Don't be vague and procrastinating. You can't help if you can't. The direct loss of rejection is less than the marginal loss of delay.