Brother gives advice to sister.

For parents expecting a baby, multiple births are often a huge surprise, but at the same time, it also means that they are about to face huge adjustments. If nothing else, the problem of eating and drinking in Lazar for several babies can't be solved by mothers alone, and it often requires the mobilization of the whole family.

The baby boy in the video below was originally a bully at home, living a life of reaching for clothes and eating with his mouth open. However, when his mother gave birth to triplets, everything changed. His younger brother turned around and became a little warm man, taking care of his sister properly.

On this day, mom and dad took four children out to eat hot pot, and my brother took the initiative to take care of my sister's dinner, so that dad could put the cooked dishes in a small bowl and he gave them to her.

I saw my brother wearing a small apron, holding a bowl in one hand and a spoon in the other, and giving them to his sisters one by one. From left to right, he put the same amount of food into his sister's bowl.

My brother takes care of her, occasionally watching which elder sister eats fast, and every time the dishes in the bowl are almost gone, he will help her to clip some more and ask her if she wants to drink soup and so on. When I see the vegetable residue in her mouth, I will stretch out my hand to help her wipe it off and always take care of it carefully. This picture makes my mother very pleased, and my brother knows how to take care of his sister.

When my sisters' eating speed gradually slowed down, my brother knew that my sister was full and stopped picking vegetables for her sisters. He touched his sister's head enthusiastically and praised her for being great. After doing this, my brother sat down and began to eat seriously.

My brother's behavior makes netizens envious, and I also want to have such a brother. My sisters are very happy. Some netizens also expressed their envy for the family with multiple births.

In fact, with the development of society and the progress of science and technology, more and more families have given birth to multiple births. Although this is a happy thing, parents will undoubtedly face more challenges: care for their children, the cost of raising children, education and so on. In addition, there are some more detailed questions, such as: Do multiple births have to study in the same class? How to cultivate their independent personality? These problems need to be treated correctly by parents of multiple births in order to better cultivate each child.

1, fairness is different.

Yes, parents like to buy the same thing for multiple births, or wear the same clothes. Besides, they buy the same thing to show fairness. This is actually a wrong approach. They are independent individuals. This practice of parents is not conducive to children to recognize themselves clearly, and it will also make others easily admit their mistakes and scold them, and children will harbor resentment.

Parents should treat each child in multiple births differently but fairly according to their own needs, and distinguish between their things, such as toys, which are played together and which are private. They can put a small label to show that the owner, books and clothes are the same.

Step 2 be alone with the children

In the process of multiple births, parents are more accompanied at the same time, and rarely or almost never accompany one of them alone. This will make it difficult for parents to really understand their children and get close to them.

Parents might as well find an opportunity once in a while to spend some time alone with each child, even if it is only for a few minutes, listen to the children, watch movies and play games with them alone, and narrow the distance between themselves and their children.

3. Talk to children more.

Multiple births spend most of their time together. When they are together, they spend less time talking to their parents, and sometimes even invent a special language that only the other person can understand. Compared with non-multiple children, they are more likely to have language development problems and speak later than other children.

Parents should talk to their children more and read story books to them. If you really don't know what to say, you can also talk about the housework to be done today, how to do it, and exercise your listening and speaking ability.

Children with multiple births have many similarities, their behaviors are often consistent, and their hobbies are the same. Parents should be good at discovering the uniqueness of each child, encouraging children to develop their own personality, creating opportunities for children, and letting children play their own specialties and do things they are interested in.

I am a nurse of a 4-year-old baby and a mother of a 4-year-old baby. Ask me if there are any problems in the process of raising and educating the baby. I hope my advice can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of raising your baby and let our children grow up better!