Most girls who have received music education since childhood will exude a temperament.

In people's traditional concept, girls should know everything about piano, chess, painting and calligraphy, but this is not just a traditional concept. I believe that every parent who is a golden pearl wants her daughter to be knowledgeable, quiet, elegant, gentle, calm and positive, which is basically the long-cherished wish of the girl's parents. However, with the continuous development of society, parents are more diligent about music, because music is a unique language to express emotions. For girls, it can improve their emotional endurance and experience ability, and it also plays an important role in cultivating their cultural literacy. Most girls who have received music education since childhood will exude a unique temperament.

However, parents' troubles also followed:

"My daughter is not interested in learning music and has no talent."

"Faced with so many musical instruments, I don't know which one my daughter is suitable for."

"At first, my daughter was interested in the piano. Not long after I bought it, my child's interest disappeared. Maybe children can't accept music learning courses. "

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It is normal for parents to have doubts, and the above problems are also problems that parents will encounter in the process of cultivating girls' musical talent. So how do parents solve these problems?

Most parents said impatiently, "I just spent a lot of money to buy a piano for my daughter. After playing it for a few days, she didn't want to learn." Soon, she wanted to learn the violin again, so I bought it for her, and she didn't want to learn it again in a few days. Good throw! "

In fact, parents are upset because they let their children get what they want too quickly. The practice of Xiaoxing's mother gave us some enlightenment.

Xiaoxing saw a friend's house with a violin, and when she got home, she clamored for her mother to buy it. Her mother didn't buy it right away. She doesn't want her children to become more and more willful.

Xiaoxing's mother found through observation that her daughter really wanted to learn the violin, so she told her seriously, "The violin can only be bought with her mother's salary for two months. I'll buy it for you after her mother gets paid. You have to wait. "

A month later, Xiaoxing told her mother to buy a violin. Her mother said embarrassedly, "Sorry, I only save one month's salary now. Can you wait? " Although Xiaoxing was disappointed, she promised to wait.

Two months later, my mother went to the bank to withdraw 10,000 yuan, and specially asked the staff to change the money into banknotes with face value of 10 yuan. She put them away in bundles, took them home and put them in front of Xiaoxing, telling her that it would cost so much to buy a violin. Seeing so much money in front of him, Xiaoxing widened her eyes and looked surprised.

Thanks to her mother's painstaking efforts, Xiaoxing knew that the violin was hard-won. She not only knew how to cherish it, but also studied harder.

The experience of teaching a daughter

Method 1: Parents should understand that they can learn music without musical talent.

Usually, children with musical talent will have the following characteristics:

(1) is very interested in music activities and likes listening to songs and singing;

(2) the pitch is fast and accurate;

(3) Being able to memorize tunes quickly and sing them accurately;

(4) Strong reading ability;

(5) Be able to write some simple music and get familiar with some simple musical instruments quickly.

It is good for children to have musical talent, and children without musical talent can learn music. Parents should understand that learning music is not serious. Let children learn music, just let children get happiness from music and improve their artistic accomplishment.

At the same time, if parents guide their children to learn music before they are 6 years old and cultivate their interest, it will be of great help to their children to learn concerts in the future.

Method 2: Guide children to choose their own musical instruments.

Children are very curious, and everything takes three minutes. If children want to keep learning, they should have their own musical instruments. Children's music education experts have given some suggestions on how to choose suitable musical instruments for children:

Children under 3 years old have a small lung capacity and it is difficult to learn to play music, so don't choose this instrument; For 4 5-year-old children, parents can let them learn keyboard instruments such as accordion, electronic organ and piano; After five and a half years old, you can learn stringed instruments, such as guzheng.

Parents should pay attention to choosing musical instruments for their children according to their interests. Children want to learn because of interest. Parents can't force their children to study regardless of their interests. Doing so will only lead to children's aversion to learning music, and in serious cases, they will be bored with music.

Therefore, the best way to help children choose musical instruments is to let them choose by themselves under the guidance of their parents.

Goddaughter story

Beethoven, 1770, was born in Bonn, Germany on February 26th. His grandfather was Dutch and later moved to Germany. He used to be a court musician. His father is a tenor and his mother is a chef's daughter. Beethoven grew up under Joseph II, when politics was clear and Bonn became the center of the German Enlightenment. Beethoven's childhood was very happy, but in childhood, the fall of his father led to the decline of his family. At the age of four, Beethoven became his father's money-making tool, and he hoped his son would become a musical prodigy. So he not only forced the children to practice the piano, but also asked the young Beethoven to play in front of the audience in Bonn. At the age of 1 1, Beethoven got a job in a theater band. In this environment, Beethoven embarked on the road of making a living by music from an early age, and in addition, he became stronger and stronger.

If we parents remember the "fetal movement" of the unborn child, we should understand that the child is actually a born dancer. Girls, in particular, are dancing when they are very young, and even crying is the kind of big action that jumps around. Because girls naturally like to be noticed, dancing satisfies their desires.

Dance is actually a kind of body language and the best way to express feelings and thoughts. Parents, please try to observe your daughter. They always have a lot of body movements. When they are nervous, they will clench their fists, and when they are happy, they will cut their hands. This is because the body language of girls has always been richer than that of boys. So, at this point, dance also satisfies their desires.

Therefore, if you have a baby girl at home, let her learn to dance, which will not only help the child to better express his inner feelings, but also create a stage for the child to express himself.

However, parents should not blindly treat dance. Some girls are born with soft limbs and are suitable for ballet, folk dance and belly dance. But some girls are naturally warm and elegant, so they are suitable for Latin dance or national standard.

Therefore, for girls to enroll in dance classes, parents should first make preparations for two major premises: first, they should clearly understand whether their children like dancing; Second, we should carefully consider the dance suitable for children. Don't blindly follow the trend. Seeing the elegance of the national standard, children are forced to learn the national standard. You know, a girl with her own talent and enthusiasm for dancing, if she blindly learns a dance that she doesn't like for a long time, will not only kill the girl's enthusiasm for dancing, but also affect her psychology.

Yongshan is 12 years old. She has been studying ballet for seven or eight years since she was five years old. Recently, with the encouragement of parents and teachers, Yongshan participated in the Youth Ballet Competition. To this end, the dance teacher and parents negotiated to strengthen Yong Shan's training intensity and prepare for the competition.

Finally, Yong Shan stood on the stage on the day of the competition. I don't know whether it is because she is nervous or too tired. She didn't perform well in the big jump, and even made mistakes in the small jump. When my mother saw this scene, she quickly came backstage after swimming, ready to comfort swimming. I didn't expect Yongshan not only not to be unhappy, but also to talk and laugh with the girls around her.

Mother suddenly became angry. The cost of learning ballet is not low. You Shan treats the game like this, but she is not serious. Mom goes home to talk to Yong-sun. Yongshan knew what her mother wanted to say, so she spoke first: "I made a mistake in the game on purpose."

"On purpose, why?" Mom looked at Swimming Shan puzzled, paused for a few seconds, and then turned to ask Swimming Shan, "Baby, are you under too much pressure?"

I don't like ballet Yongshan said.

"How did that happen? How many years have you studied? How can I not like it? "

I don't like ballet Yongshan continued.

It turned out that Yongshan watched her brothers and sisters dance "Good Day" in a dance school near the community when she was a child. She likes folk dances, especially the unique dances such as Northeast Yangko and Dai Dance, but her mother said that folk dances are not elegant and ballet is the noble choice, so she insisted on studying ballet. It's okay now. After studying for many years, I still want to take part in the ballet competition. In the face of dancing that she doesn't like, Yong Shan feels a lot of pressure. Besides, she felt physically and mentally exhausted when she participated in the competition, so she told her parents what she thought by deliberately making mistakes.

As can be seen from Yongshan's example, parents are aware of the role and benefits of girls learning dance, so I don't need to say more here. However, for the choice of dance types, parents must respect the opinions of girls, learn to analyze their children's personalities, and don't copy them mechanically or do whatever they want. After all, dance is used to cultivate a girl's temperament, so we must choose according to her interests.

The experience of teaching a daughter

Method 1: Be good at discovering and cultivating children's dancing talent.

Usually 65,438+0.4-year-old children with dancing ability will have the following characteristics:

(1) is very interested in dance;

(2) The movements are highly coordinated, flexible and graceful;

(3) Strong sense of rhythm;

(4) Being able to do many actions by yourself;

(5) I like imitation very much;

(6) like to watch dance programs;

(7) like to perform with children;

(8) Be able to write some dance movements according to the memory in your mind.

If the child does not show a talent for dancing, parents can cultivate their children's interest in dancing. For example, let children watch some song and dance programs and children's art programs to attract their attention and interest. At this point, if parents see that their children like to jump, they should guide them in time.

At the same time, parents can let their younger children learn from children dance. Children's dance is very simple, and children learn it easily. When children discover that they can dance, they will have confidence and interest.

It is worth noting that parents should see if their children are interested in taking some dance lessons. In addition, parents should also see if the child's body allows it. Experts suggest that professional dance training for children at the age of 5 12 will play a good role in their healthy growth.

Method 2: Don't satisfy your child's desire to learn dance too early.

In family education, delaying gratification is a common method. Learning dance is very hard, and most children give up because they are afraid of being tired and suffering. Therefore, when a child tells you to learn dance, you can't say yes too early. Let her know that learning opportunities are not so easy to get, then she will study hard and persevere, and then she will succeed.

Goddaughter story

Xiaoman likes dancing very much. She feels that every time the music spins for dancing, it slowly seeps into her heart and dances gradually, and every movement will tie her heart. So Xiaoman likes to fluctuate up and down with music and dance.

Xiaoman likes dancing very much. She feels that every time the music spins for dancing, it slowly seeps into her heart and dances gradually, and every movement will tie her heart. So Xiaoman likes to fluctuate up and down with music and dance.

Xiaoman likes dancing very much. She feels that every time the music spins for dancing, it slowly seeps into her heart and dances gradually, and every movement will tie her heart. So Xiaoman likes to fluctuate up and down with music and dance.