What did the guests at home say?

What do you say to the guests at home? China has been a country of etiquette and civilization since ancient times, so it is necessary to greet and entertain guests at home, so as not to be impolite. What do you say to the guests at home? Let's have a look.

1 What did the guests at home say? The first sentence you say represents your hospitality.

Maybe you mean that the speaker is unintentional and others are intentional.

Therefore, the first sentence is crucial.

I asked some friends around me and found that these are the most common opening remarks.

1, "How did you get here?"

Go to a friend's daughter's centenary dinner.

Because I just came back from a business trip and didn't prepare gifts in advance, I was caught in a traffic jam and was a quarter of an hour late.

I came in a hurry without a sip of water. When my friend saw me, he said reproachfully, "Why did you come here? I am too busy here. "

I guess she may be too busy, and I don't want to argue with her too much, but I still feel a little uncomfortable after listening.

When others visit your home enthusiastically, your unintentional complaining or blaming is like throwing a bucket of cold water on others.

No one will be happy about it.

2. "How can you be free?"

There is a man nicknamed "know-it-all" in the village next door. Because he likes to visit other people's houses when he is free, there are many gossips, so he got this name.

Once, he strolled to my door, and when no one came in, he asked, "Didn't you go out today?"

When my mother saw him, she was surprised and said, "Why are you free to come to my house today?"

Actually, it's because he has been everywhere and hasn't been to our side for a long time, so he asks, and there is no unwelcome meaning.

As a result, he took the conversation and said, "Why, I'm not welcome, but I'm going to your house."

The speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional, and sometimes it is easy to cause misunderstanding.

3. "It's good if people come. What gift do you bring?"

A few years ago, my mother and I went to visit my aunt who had recovered from a serious illness. As soon as I entered the door, I saw her sitting by the stove.

After greeting my aunt, my mother said that all the things she said were for her health and told her not to be reluctant to eat.

My aunt stood up on crutches and said, "It's nice to have someone here. What else did you bring? I don't want these. I'm glad you came. "

At that time, the road to my aunt's house was not open to traffic, so I had to walk. My mother and I walked with things for more than two minutes.

When I entered the door, I heard my aunt say so, and my heart was still warm. I may feel that my efforts have been accepted and understood.

4. "Here you are, come in and sit down."

In my impression, there are guests at home, and what parents often say is: "You are here, come in and sit down quickly."

Then, he will immediately turn to us and say, go and pour xx a cup of tea.

By the time we poured the tea, they were already talking about being caring and attentive and talking about something else.

I believe that many people have guests at home, which is the most common saying.

On the one hand, it expresses a warm welcome, on the other hand, it expresses the mood at this moment.

This will not only make the guests feel comfortable, but also feel valued, killing two birds with one stone.

5, the so-called, newcomers are guests and need courtesy.

In fact, you can see your enthusiasm and relationship with the guests from the first sentence.

Although the degree of intimacy is different, you should consider the feelings of the parties slightly when you speak.

On the other hand, as long as your manners and sincerity are in place, what you say will naturally benefit you.

People are willing to come to your house often, which shows that they are good friends with you, and don't care too much about many small details. The main thing is to walk around each other more and make the relationship closer.

Therefore, it is good to follow the truth and sincerity, but it will make the guests uncomfortable if they go too far.

What did the guests at home say? China has been a country of civilization and etiquette since ancient times. In daily life, people in ancient times inevitably addressed each other and participated in conversations with each other.

In this case, how to refine the appellation of the other party or others is a great concern. In the traditional culture of China, there are usually "honorific words" and "honorific words", while "modest words" are for their own use, such as:

When you meet someone for the first time, you can say "I've heard a lot about you"; Long time no see;

Treat guests with "Gonghou"; Please don't say "stay";

Use "accompany" to accompany friends; Go first in the middle and use "I'm sorry";

Ask people to criticize and use "teaching"; Ask for forgiveness and use "tolerance";

For convenience, please use "sorry"; Ask for advice and use "instructions";

Congratulate people with "congratulations"; Visit others with "visit";

Guests visit with a sense of existence; Appreciate opinions with "high praise";

Welcome to "patronize" consumption; Old people use "longevity" to express their age;

Miss's age is "Fang age"; The letter from others is called "Shu Hui";

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These can all be classified as "honorifics".

What traditional honorifics do we use in our daily life, especially when visiting relatives and friends and communicating with others?

(1) use "visit" when visiting others, and use "visit" when guests come;

(2) Treat guests with "waiting" and welcome guests with "missing";

(3) If others leave with "goodbye", please don't send them with "stay";

Please accept the gift with "smile" and decline it with "sincerity".

Can you use all these traditional etiquette expressions in China?

Greetings, besides "you", do you know "respect" and "worship"?

Humble words, besides "I", do you know "Xiaoke" and "Shexia"?

What did the guests at home say? 3 Greeting guests (selected articles)

1, I'll give you a pure natural tonic, which is mild in nature, does not contain any pigments and additives, and has the effects of benefiting qi, caring skin, enhancing charm and pleasing body and mind. The scientific name is smile. Remember to smile often!

2. Today is a good day. Although the sun hides in the clouds, it can't stop me from missing your heart! The weather forecast says it will get cold. I hope you take good care of yourself, dress warmly and be happy every day. I like looking at you in the sun, and I like to see through you. The wind is really cold. Put away your stockings and thin clothes. I only care about you!

I have always been kind and kept a low profile. Although the words of blessing are like the Yellow River, I only choose three very important ones: First, I wish you good health, health and happiness every second; Second, good luck, you will be busy counting money. Third, I wish you a better life and a higher standard of living! Hey hey, it's very satisfying to have me as a friend!

In this world, hundreds of people bless you, including me; Dozens of people bless you, including me; Someone blesses you, it must be me; If no one blesses you ... Hee hee, don't worry, that's impossible! I hope my friend, you, will be safe, healthy and happy!

5. I heard that missing can make people warm, and I have always missed you; Legend has it that talking can make people warm, so I have been talking about you; I heard that blessing can make people warm, so I have been blessing you. I believe in all kinds of things, but I hope I can send you more warmth in this cold season! Friend, do you feel warm?

6. Smile every day and worry about running away; Family hug, life is emotional; Put aside trivial matters and have a good sleep; Count the money, no matter how much. Look down on the gains and losses and be happy!

7. As soon as the phone is turned on, the smile is always on; When the mobile phone rings, gold is two thousand; As soon as the text message arrives, there is good news; After reading the short message, everything went well; I wish you a happy day and all the best.

8. As we meet for a long time, our friendship will naturally deepen. Although I have less contact, I miss more. I wish you more happiness, more happiness, more contact and a better life.

9. String the chain of time with happy beads; Repair life with happy cloth; Filter out the troubled sand with the sieve of mood; Build a happy building with harvested stones.

10, the temperature is high, cicadas are singing, there are few parties, it is getting dark, communication is good, love is convenient, the bell rings and blessings come. I wish you all the best through Xiakou.

Greeting guests (latest)

1, the back wave of the Yangtze River pushes the front wave, and he died of fatigue in the blessing newspaper. Sadness rippled in the tsunami, troubles hit the dam, joy shone with happiness, and happiness turned on the beach. Wish a friend: Have fun after reading the message.

I use a vacuum cleaner to suck the dust off your body, I use a massage chair to take away your drowsiness, and I use a foot bath to wash away your fatigue all day. May you be happy every day!

3. The sky will be a great blessing for the Sri Lankan people. We should ring its bell, light its screen, present its words, bless its soul, make the Sri Lankan people happy, tilt its mouth, show its smile, and then be happy!

4. Friends want to talk about the field of "cards". I wish you: love is as long as heart, career is as blooming as plum blossom, peace is as square as square, wealth is as thick as spades, and good luck holds the king in your hand. May happiness be infinite.

5. Work at the desk, with Kuozhuo at hand. Leisure has style, and health is in it. Love has a head and warmth is on the shoulder. Shu spread his eyebrows and was happy in his heart. May you be happy and excited!

6. Go to a restaurant to eat alone. After ordering, the meal didn't come up for a long time. He's really hungry, so he's leaving. The waiter asked, sir, why did you leave without eating? The man said grumpily, I'll wait when I'm full outside!

7. The husband bought the computer that his wife wanted, and a computer questionnaire was attached to the computer package. There was once a question: What prompted you to buy this product? My husband wrote on the questionnaire: nagging, nagging for one year!

8. happy event: Tang Priest and his disciples met to study shortcuts. Wukong said: you can get there quickly by plane. Bajie said: Shenzhou is much faster than an airplane. Friar Sand pulled out his gun and said, I heard that with this, I can go straight to the West.

9, I wish you: high responsibility, more money and less things close to home, sleep naturally every day, hand cramps, spend money to receive gifts, others work overtime and get a raise! The company makes a fortune every day, and someone will take care of you!

10, pay attention that the god of wealth has enchanted you, and you will be hit by good luck as soon as you go out; If you stay at home, wealth will find you; If you open the window, money will float to your home. You can't hide, so accept it!