What should I do if my child can’t live without his mother?

It is very common for children to pester their mothers. Of course, the reasons for each child to pester their mothers are different, but they are mainly due to the close parent-child relationship. Regarding your child's situation, I would like to make the following suggestions: First of all, don't be nervous and don't dodge before going out, otherwise the child will be more nervous and afraid that you will "disappear", and when she sees you, she will She keeps an eye on you and won't let you leave her. The famous parenting expert Dr. Hisashiro Naito once said that parents and children are connected. If the mother is nervous, the child is also nervous. Secondly, children of this age are prone to restlessness. In order to escape or "get rid" of this uneasiness, she always wanted to stay close to her mother. As a mother, you must "understand" your child's psychology, meet your child's expectations with a tolerant attitude, and don't feel distressed. Third, "badgering" and "following" will only be a phenomenon for a short period of time. The child will gradually become autonomous. Therefore, the mother should meet this short-term requirement and play closely with her child while gradually letting go and looking forward to the arrival of his ability to become independent. Fourth, when you return home, you should play with your child with grandma or grandma, and take care of her life together (eating, drinking, dressing and undressing, arranging sleeping arrangements, etc.), so that the child understands that mom and grandma love me and are with me. When I play, my mother is not in front of me, and it is the same when I am with grandma and grandma. Never put your child next to you as soon as you get home, without the elderly taking care of you, otherwise the child will separate you from the elderly, become "opposites", and only want you. Fifth, after you return home, you should show respect and love to the elderly, and often say words of gratitude to them. Your children will love them when they see your attitude towards them, and they can rely less on you. Sixth, don’t feel guilty when you go home. You feel that you have been away from her for too long during the day and you are sorry for her. Therefore, when you go home, never leave her (not that she never leaves you). Have a normal heart and let go slowly. Seventh, don’t be too nervous when you leave home in the morning. Even if she cries or makes a fuss, don’t take it too seriously, because after you leave, she plays better with the old man and doesn’t cry and fuss all day long. affect her health. Eighth, don’t talk to her about “why you have to go to work.” Children of this age cannot understand the relationship between “going to work, making money, and buying delicious food for your baby.” She only knows that her mother goes to work and she cannot see her, so she cries when she hears "go to work".