Long-separated couples talk.

In marriage, the most important thing between husband and wife is to grow old together. The ideal is full, but the reality is very skinny. Many couples have to separate because of their livelihood. After a long time, the relationship between husband and wife will fade, which will make each other feel a sense of crisis and even lead to betrayal and divorce.

Who are the long-separated couples? Married women have good taste.

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One of my colleagues, Sister Tang, is under great pressure at home. In-laws are old and have no economic income. Her job income is also average, and she has to raise a son. In order to make a living, my husband has to go to other places to work, where there is a large development space and high income. The only drawback is that two people have to live apart for a long time.

Tang Jie's husband usually takes only one month off a year, and spends little time with his family and children. Although the in-laws can help Tang Jie with the children and cooking, once an old man and a few people in the family get sick, Tang Jie will be overwhelmed, so he has to take good care of them without affecting his work.

In fact, Tang Jie's husband is facing his family's thoughts alone, and Tang Jie will face even greater pressure. Sometimes she feels very broken, but she still has to pretend to be strong for fear of falling down. What can this family do?

She knows that only by taking good care of the elderly and children can her husband work hard outside, and life is really hard.

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Ping Li is an excellent strong woman, and her working ability is one of the best in the company. The first thing for the company to open a branch is to transfer her to be the person in charge, arrange a house for her and arrange a place for her children to go to school.

However, in the past, Ping Li and her husband would face the problem of long-term separation. Her husband has a good job, and her in-laws are there, so she needs someone to take care of her.

After weighing for a long time, they think that Ping Li was promoted in the past and the children could receive a better education in the past. They decided to let Li Ping take the children to develop in the past, and her husband stayed here to look after the home and take good care of his parents. Because Ping Li's husband is more free to go to work, he can often visit them when he has time.

I imagine it's good. At first, it was ok. The progress in Ping Li is quite smooth. My husband also took time to reunite with them. But after a while, the child suddenly became ill. Her husband will take care of the children. A few days later, his mother became ill again, and his husband came back, so he tossed back and forth.

Later, the child recovered, the mother recovered, and the husband fell ill. The elderly at home can't take care of it, and the wife can't take care of it in the field, so she has to carry it herself. In the eyes of others, this man is so desolate, without parents, wife and children, and lonely.

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How difficult is it for a couple who have been separated from their lover for a long time? A humanitarian who has experienced it shows its bitterness.

In fact, there are many problems in the long-term separation of husband and wife, and those who have not experienced it personally will never feel that kind of pain.

Both men and women, in the case of long-term separation from their lovers, actually have a hard time. Maybe women are more vulnerable, and in this case it seems more bitter. In fact, men are not very happy.

Of course, it depends on how we face such a thing. For a better life, both husband and wife are forced to make some choices. At this time, it is time to test whether the husband and wife can understand each other, understand each other and tolerate each other. After all, feelings will be stronger after experiencing difficulties.