My mother-in-law is too strong. She took care of me when I gave birth, and she made decisions on big and small issues.

Your mother-in-law will never treat you as a daughter, and you don't need to treat your mother-in-law as your own mother. Many daughters-in-law are moved by the words that her mother-in-law will treat herself as a daughter before marriage, and she also wants to treat her mother-in-law as her mother after marriage.

But after marriage, I will find that my mother-in-law will always be a daughter-in-law or an outsider in her attitude towards her son and daughter-in-law. Therefore, women should not idealize the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law before marriage, and they can't bear such a gap after marriage. It is better to look at it before marriage, and it is not required to be like a mother and daughter. As long as she treats each other properly, she will be satisfied. Don't be silly, take what you said as your own daughter's words seriously.

Although the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gives you a headache, don't be impulsive and irreparable. After all, she is your husband's mother. For her husband's sake, we should leave room for our relationship appropriately. We can also push a man to the front when there are differences and let him play the bad COP. Even if they are angry, they will not hold grudges, but it is impossible to be angry with you without holding grudges.

Precautions:

Two years before marriage, the foundation was laid by marriage, so if your mother-in-law wants to intervene in everything between you two after marriage, she must clearly point out that her opinion is very good.

But you can make your own decisions. Don't be afraid to speak because of Nuo Nuo. In that case, your mother-in-law who buys diapers will say that everyone and the family should be independent of each other, so that her mother-in-law knows that love is love and love is not control.