Before her career is stable, her in-laws want to have grandchildren. How can I politely refuse?

Nowadays, when young people get married, a very real problem comes, that is, the process of pregnancy and childbirth, so pregnancy and childbirth is a very stressful land for girls, because the present society is still unfair to women. Some women may do well in institutions, but their careers have plummeted since they became pregnant because they were going to be mothers. Maybe after giving birth to a child, their treatment is very different from before.

Not only women, but also some boys, because they will know that if they have children, their burden will be heavier. Because it is necessary to raise this child and give it a better growth condition, it can be said that the pressure on young people in society is very great now, and it is good for some college students to find jobs after graduation. When it comes to raising children, there is still pressure.

But the older generation don't think so much, their hearts are just eager to have grandchildren. Then it must be very different from young people in this respect. If your career is unstable and your in-laws want children, I think it's still a little urgent. I don't think you should give in to yourself just because you are in-laws and elders. You still have to speak your mind and your troubles boldly.

Explain to your in-laws that your careers are unstable now, you can't support a child's expenses at all, and you don't have time to spend with your children at all. You still want to spend more time on your career first, so if the old man at home is still reasonable, he will understand you.